Willow225

@Willow225 (39)

United States • Age 43

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An abusive relationship. I love him. What would you do?

CarmenA @CarmenA (127) • United States 3 Mar 10

I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years. He's always had somewhat of an "agressive attitude". There have been a lot of things that bother me about our relationship. He doesn't seem to know me or care about the things that...

abuse

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Willow225 Hey Carmen I am sorry to hear about your situation. I feel for you. As much pain as I know it will cause you I agree with you leaving. every person has the right to respect and to be heard. Having been here I know it is hard and at times you will feel like...

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What’s wrong with being mediocre?

bounce58 @bounce58 (17385) • Canada 2 Mar 10

Is it wrong to not want all the great things in life? I am content to having just enough. To just have the right amount of income to provide for my family, and get my kids to school. I don’t need to be filthy rich, and buy...

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Willow225 I feel that mediocre is like reality it is what you make it. How can anyone think that a life in which they feel at peace is mediocre? I am sure that at some point in our lives we may want more but it is what we do with what we are given that defines wether...

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Best Medicine: Music or Laughter?

Rallon @Rallon (441) • United States 27 Feb 10

It's often said that laughter is the best medicine; but what about music? When I'm down or bored, music always cheers me up. Comedy is great too, but I really think that music works better as a mood enhancer. I guess a combination...

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Willow225 I feel that both lauphter and music walk hand in hand. In alot of situationsI have to have both to feel better. If I had to choose one or the other thought I would have to say music is my DOC I have to have music on constantly. It is almost like to music is...

2 Mar 10

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ps2 game

stranger72us @stranger72us (7) • United States 2 Mar 10

this is a not very well known game. i would challenge anyone to master every level. it can be childish at times but it is very addictive. i was turned on to the game by a friend who told me about how when your health level gets...

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Willow225 I have played this game I laughed at it all the way through. My cousin-in-law was that one to turn me on to it. I have not mastered it but I have played. I have mot played in a awhile so many other things to do I don't get to play many games. I think that in...

2 Mar 10

Have you ever had a past love that still haunts to this day?

Naylani @Naylani (111) • United States 1 Mar 10

No. Not in the supernatural sense, like a ghost, but like a past lover that for what ever reason the both of you had perhaps a brief encounter or a short relationship that ended prematurely. And maybe you think about this person...

love

relationships

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Willow225 He was my first love ever. We were teens and dumb. We stayed friends for many years and did everything together. Many years later our lives changed to the point that our paths could no longer be the same I had to say goodbye. I still to this day think of him...

2 Mar 10

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Reasons why some people are still single.. agree or not?

bea_29 @bea_29 (320) • Philippines 2 Mar 10

A good friend of mine posted the following at fb. it was written in our language so i translated it in english. take a look and decide which of the following might be true. 1. Destiny addict -believes in destiny (keep...

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Willow225 I think that it is a matter choice really. I know that I waited along time before I found my Mr. Wonderful. I wanted it to be right. I think that there are to many factors to really narrow the list to the top ten. All of these reasons are viable but it is up...

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An update on my brother

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 1 Mar 10

As many of you know my 83 year old brother has alzheimers and is living with his daughter and son-in-law. A few months ago, they worked different shifts, and there was always someone home. That has now changed and I am staying...

alzheimers

brother

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Willow225 Alzheimers is a very difficult desease. I worked with them for many years and found that if you have patience things can be just fine. On the good days get him talking. Get him to tell you all his stories. The biggest thing is to build trust. When he becaomes...

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Marrying elder girl..!!!!

Gany15k @Gany15k (1673) • India 1 Mar 10

Now this become common these days about marrying an elder girl than you.But in my life I don't have that problem because my love is lesser than me.But In my friends case...it is.They were together for almost 1 year.But now they...

elder girl

good or bad

marriage

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Willow225 I see no problem with marrying an older girl. I was raised that love is love and age has nothing to do with it. It is just a variance of the classic story of Romeo and Juilet. I understand that in your country is unexepted but look at how times have changed...

1 Mar 10

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Never good enough?

alinka @alinka (184) • Greece 28 Feb 10

Are your parents proud of you?Because mine never were,atleast never said it to me.Im talking especially about my mother since my father doesn't live with us anymore.I remember,during the highschool she would never said this stuff...

never good enough

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Willow225 This happen to me as well. I grew up poor in a trailer park and times were tough. My grandparents are the ones that raised me and the only parents I ever knew. Unfortunately for me this meant that i grew up under the "children should be seen and not heard"...

1 Mar 10

Is hacking a justified skill or is it a legitimate threat?

getbiswa2000 @getbiswa2000 (5544) • India 1 Mar 10

Hello members, We hear a lot about security breach in system network. We generally call this hacking. There are few phases of successful hack. First the hacker gathers intelligent information about victims system. The geographic...

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Willow225 I feel that in the right environment it is a skill in the right hands. Think about how many crimes and problems could be avoided if this skill was used in the right setting. However it is classic one bad egg makes it hard to have faith in the knowledge of...

1 Mar 10

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do dreams come true?

ellebj @ellebj (784) • Philippines 27 Feb 10

do some of your dreams come true? At some point of our lives, we feel this event had already happened. for instance, i dream about my roommate scold me because of my stupidity.. the next day, my dream had been realized......

dreams

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Willow225 Yes this happens to me alot really. I was raised to believe that it was a gift from god. I have studied the phenomenon known as De Ja Vu. In the new age religions it can be brought on by various herbs or meditation. Some believe that it is something out of a...

1 Mar 10

Do you go on vacations anymore?

newtalent @newtalent (1112) • United States 28 Feb 10

We just started going on mini vacations to get away from the hustle of the city. It is the two or three day getaways. I mean we may only go a city away or few hundred miles away from home and do not spend a lot of money doing it....

rest and relaxation

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Willow225 I know how you feel. I try to get away as often as possible. I find it difficult to keep a clear head when life seems to drag me down. I have only ever been on one major vacation which was fun but it turned out to be just as much stress as regular life. I find...

1 Mar 10

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