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katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 28 Dec 08

Have you ever dated or had a relationship with someone who was married? Do you think it's wrong? I've recently discovered that an aquantance is having a relationship with a married man. I feel this is wrong on so many levels,...

affairs

cheating

marriage

relationship

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XiaXueYi That's one of my points. If your 'friend' simply ignores you or cuts you out of your life the moment you were doing something "wrong", it's a waste of breath to call that person a 'friend'. A friend has all those traits you need in a confidant and more -...

31 Dec 08

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katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 28 Dec 08

Have you ever dated or had a relationship with someone who was married? Do you think it's wrong? I've recently discovered that an aquantance is having a relationship with a married man. I feel this is wrong on so many levels,...

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XiaXueYi Miss/Mrs. mental, I will re-iterate my point once more (though I forsee that it will be wasted on the likes of you, but I will try anyway) - acceptance does not equal condoning. I play the whistleblower, not the judgmental moron. What's a whistleblower? I...

30 Dec 08

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katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 28 Dec 08

Have you ever dated or had a relationship with someone who was married? Do you think it's wrong? I've recently discovered that an aquantance is having a relationship with a married man. I feel this is wrong on so many levels,...

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XiaXueYi Thank goodness there are more people like you walking the path of the understandiing. Cheers.

30 Dec 08

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katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 28 Dec 08

Have you ever dated or had a relationship with someone who was married? Do you think it's wrong? I've recently discovered that an aquantance is having a relationship with a married man. I feel this is wrong on so many levels,...

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XiaXueYi Look sister, I didn't condemn just her if you would call it that - I did that to whoever's using religion and whatnot nonsense to justify their no-grounds opinion. Using religion to substantiate and prove everything definitely doesn't keep a discussion...

29 Dec 08

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katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 28 Dec 08

Have you ever dated or had a relationship with someone who was married? Do you think it's wrong? I've recently discovered that an aquantance is having a relationship with a married man. I feel this is wrong on so many levels,...

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XiaXueYi You made a pretty good number of assumptions about me. Thank you. Why must I be judgmental to point out whoever is? I just play the whistleblower - don't tell me the whistleblower in a company must be tried in court for pointing out foul play with the...

29 Dec 08

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katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 28 Dec 08

Have you ever dated or had a relationship with someone who was married? Do you think it's wrong? I've recently discovered that an aquantance is having a relationship with a married man. I feel this is wrong on so many levels,...

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XiaXueYi You/we could go one step further - should he/she insist on walking the path and/or "doing the deed", and should there be dire repercussions, we help the person through that period of pain and grieving. Not talk about how the person is a wh*re/b**tard behind...

29 Dec 08

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katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 28 Dec 08

Have you ever dated or had a relationship with someone who was married? Do you think it's wrong? I've recently discovered that an aquantance is having a relationship with a married man. I feel this is wrong on so many levels,...

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XiaXueYi This is not bible school if I may boldly say so - this is a real-life situation. Not to mention that the OP hasn't gotten it crystal-clear whether they are merely dating or whether they are sexually involved. Please, for the love of God, do not use the...

29 Dec 08

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kbourgerie @kbourgerie (8780) • United States 30 Oct 08

I tried to do the right thing, even though my gut told me from the beginning that I was making the wrong decision. I let a "friend" (and I use that word loosely) stay with me temporarily. I have had help in the past when I was...

friends

helping hand

poor decisions

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XiaXueYi I strongly disagree with your last sentence. Firstly, more and more people are apathetic and selfish nowadays, due to all the cycles (you help, somebody abuses your trust, you no longer want to help, and it continues on...). Secondly, "best help" is a...

31 Oct 08

Roseo8 @Roseo8 (2947) • India 10 Oct 08

If we have a positive attitude and take hardships and set backs in life as events heralding a better tomorrow,we can take life's challenges more easily.If you look around you ,you will find that, from a bush with thorns...

attitude

broken heart

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XiaXueYi There's nothing here that I don't really know of. Not the exact details, but the main points. Positive attitude is all about "seeing the good in everything you can, even at bad times". And I unfortunately don't agree, which is why I dropped by your...

13 Oct 08

Rhamah @Rhamah (42) • United States 5 Oct 08

I have been by my best friends side through thick and thin. She just recently had her first child. I was there for her throughout her whole pregnancy because the deadbeat who impregnated her denied the baby she was carrying to be...

child support

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XiaXueYi The drug-dealer comment might have some basis, but was the name(cat?)-calling about the discussion starter's friend really necessary? Or did you perhaps posted this comment with some hope that a myLotter or two (or more) would agree with you insulting other...

8 Oct 08

Rhamah @Rhamah (42) • United States 5 Oct 08

I have been by my best friends side through thick and thin. She just recently had her first child. I was there for her throughout her whole pregnancy because the deadbeat who impregnated her denied the baby she was carrying to be...

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XiaXueYi I believe that saying is only used in the context of family or relatives, not friends. Would you care to explain why you used that saying or idiom? I do not see how it relates to the issue at hand, or my comment.

8 Oct 08

Rhamah @Rhamah (42) • United States 5 Oct 08

I have been by my best friends side through thick and thin. She just recently had her first child. I was there for her throughout her whole pregnancy because the deadbeat who impregnated her denied the baby she was carrying to be...

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XiaXueYi I disagree. Granted that doing so may protect yourself from further pain, mental, emotional or otherwise; HOWEVER to close your heart to others would really prevent any way of establishing meaningful relationships with other people. I have bad interpersonal...

6 Oct 08

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SukiSmiles @SukiSmiles (1991) • United States 3 Oct 08

I was just reading another dicussion where someone had a different opinion of the marjority of the other people replying to the dicussion. She stated that they better not minus her because of her opinion and that she had all their...

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XiaXueYi I sure do! Lesser amount of trolls compared to other international forums or forums of private servers. Of course there are times I see religious-esque discussions spinning out of control, but that I couldn't care less. Plenty of nice people around here...

6 Oct 08

Evixfel @Evixfel (86) • Singapore 30 Sep 08

Do you agree with this statement? Are humans all like that? Why? What is your opinion?I shall start first... To me, not all humans are like that. It must depend on their upbringing; the information they receive when they are...

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XiaXueYi There's something simple called "instinct". Which encompasses things like how you eat, how you poop, how you walk. Even though they can be influeced by so-called cultural and societal norms. Unless one was born in a place (say, Afghanistan) where killing is...

30 Sep 08

ronreyes @ronreyes (4724) • Philippines 13 Sep 08

What will be your reaction? And what will you say to him / her? This discussion is for everybody to respond to, both atheists and believers. Obviously, atheists will agree to this statement, so I hope you'll respond with...

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XiaXueYi Go ahead and believe in the tooth fairy if you want to. But, food for thought - what if you were the one who's the brick wall? Them "non-believers" could actually just be shedding more light and/or talking about their doubts in the/a religion - and you...

30 Sep 08

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