XiaXueYi

@XiaXueYi (85)

Singapore • Age 34

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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XiaXueYi's Responses

Be positive always in life

Roseo8 @Roseo8 (2947) • India 10 Oct 08

If we have a positive attitude and take hardships and set backs in life as events heralding a better tomorrow,we can take life's challenges more easily.If you look around you ,you will find that, from a bush with thorns...

attitude

broken heart

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XiaXueYi A bush with thorns can land a motorcyclist in hostpital. A broken heart more often than not nowadays, produces a broken soul, and after that, a broken body (suicide). A cocoon does not only producees butterfly, moths can appear as well. A mountain...

12 Oct 08

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What are your thoughts to women who dress in short skirts, bare midriffs, and

sharie16 @sharie16 (2212) • Philippines 9 Oct 08

low-cut blouses but complain about men that stare at them? I'm a woman and i ask that. I laugh when i see girls wearing very short skirts but spend a lot of time trying to pull them down. Doesn't make...

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XiaXueYi In Singapore, we have an influx of teenager females (and even primary school females!) wearing more and more revealing clothing. Nowadays "hotpants" seem to be nearly a norm amongst adolescent females. However, I am not in the habit to interfere with other...

10 Oct 08

I skip long posts

ronaldinu @ronaldinu (12422) • Malta 5 Oct 08

I prefer reading short paragraphs (with simple language) which are straight to the point. I hate reading long posts with take several paragraphs to read. Do you skip long posts?

long posts

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XiaXueYi Skipping long posts is akin to skipping more than 60% of posts/quality content in myLot. Think about that before skipping another "long post" next time. It may be time-saving or less of a headache for you, but I assure you, IMHO(In My Honest Opinion)...

6 Oct 08

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I feel betrayed by my best friend....how should I handle this ?

Rhamah @Rhamah (42) • United States 5 Oct 08

I have been by my best friends side through thick and thin. She just recently had her first child. I was there for her throughout her whole pregnancy because the deadbeat who impregnated her denied the baby she was carrying to be...

child support

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XiaXueYi Did you try to talk her out of it, when she said her fiance said she cannot talk to you? I mean, 15 years of friendship over a jerk? She either must be blinded by the repeated emotional blackmail by that idiot or something. But since you have said it's...

6 Oct 08

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Have people borrowed money from you and never payed you back?

pinkytabor @pinkytabor (818) • Philippines 4 Oct 08

How much was it? How do you feel when you think about it? Are you still trying to collect from them? I remember about two years ago someone borrowed about 2thousand dollars from us. It was actually not in bulk because it was for...

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XiaXueYi I can't remember. If there was it would only be differences in a few dollars or so, because my friends and I were only in secondary school then. And most of was were quite bad with moneykeeping. Not to mention sometimes my family will somehow find out I...

5 Oct 08

Can you see who rates you?

SukiSmiles @SukiSmiles (1991) • United States 3 Oct 08

I was just reading another dicussion where someone had a different opinion of the marjority of the other people replying to the dicussion. She stated that they better not minus her because of her opinion and that she had all their...

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XiaXueYi If we could see who (or what, to be insulting to those who minus others for kicks) rated us, then there would be a never-ending cycle of clique-ing and vengence. I couldn't really be bothered if I get minus-ed, but I do apologise if I knew I went too far...

4 Oct 08

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I watched my friend die today..... :(

NrgDfenZ @NrgDfenZ (1810) • Belgium 3 Oct 08

Hi all I don't know if you really care, but I just have to talk about this.. It helps me if I can talk about my feelings.. Especially now.. Today a friend of me had an accident with his car.. I was in school when they...

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XiaXueYi I don't think anything I said could sooth your heartache(s) and I don't think a stranger like me could say I *really* cared for you (and vice versa because friendships don't start *that* easily) the way your friend would. So I can only offer you my most...

4 Oct 08

funeral home

ANTIQUELADY @ANTIQUELADY (36440) • United States 1 Oct 08

i had to go to the funeral home last night to pay my respects. a frien's mother passed away & she was alo an aunt to anoter friend. i have never heard some a noisy bunch of people at a plce of mourning. it sounded like there was...

funeral home

quiet

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XiaXueYi Are those "noisy bunch of people" related to you, or were they strangers? Did you say or do anything so that they would quieten down? What happened after that? In my country, it's kind bad enough that whether it be a Buddhist or Christian send-off, the...

2 Oct 08

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Humans always expect pleasure and do not like to feel pain.

Evixfel @Evixfel (86) • Singapore 30 Sep 08

Do you agree with this statement? Are humans all like that? Why? What is your opinion?I shall start first... To me, not all humans are like that. It must depend on their upbringing; the information they receive when they are...

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XiaXueYi Hmm, how do I put it? Let's just say that, no sane human would voluntarily look for pain, physical, emotional or otherwise, unless 1)It makes them feel alive some weird way or another (applies mostly to suicidal people) or 2)The person is sadistic....

30 Sep 08

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will allah forgive these terrorists who kille so many innocent people in India?

amirev777 @amirev777 (4117) • India 29 Sep 08

Hi I am talking of the recent chain of bomb blast that took place in various parts of India including the capital New Delhi.These bom blasts were carried out by Indiam Mujahideen-an Islamic terrorist group in name of 'jihad' to...

bomb blasts in indian

delhi

holy month of ramazan

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XiaXueYi What kind of silly, brainless, propagandanistic 'blasphemy' is this? This sort of discussion is nothing more than a front for people to pretend like they are teachers/gurus/prophets for their religion and doing conversion/'education' en masse. Wake up!...

30 Sep 08

If an ATHEIST tells you "There is no God!"

ronreyes @ronreyes (4724) • Philippines 13 Sep 08

What will be your reaction? And what will you say to him / her? This discussion is for everybody to respond to, both atheists and believers. Obviously, atheists will agree to this statement, so I hope you'll respond with...

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XiaXueYi I couldn't find my own response in the crapload (yes, crapload) of deceptive informative, yet actually regurgitated and biased, tainted information from many believers. And/or otherwise very weird and/or retarded comebacks from atheists, agnostics, and...

30 Sep 08

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Sleeping is such a waste of time. I hate sleeping. Do you?

ajithkumarcc @ajithkumarcc (152) • United States 17 Sep 08

Hi all, Our life is very short. People sleep for more than 20 years (one third) of their life time.Such a terrible waste of time. I would like to enjoy every second of my life, staying awake and knowing things gives me...

sleep

sleeping

waste of time

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XiaXueYi I do not know why you hate sleeping so much, but regardless of A, B, G or D sleep, I definitely know that if you do not sleep for the amount of time your body requires, you can stay awake in the sense that your eyes are drooping some, or you're very tense and...

18 Sep 08

Can you sleep with the television or radio is on?

yenwie84 @yenwie84 (1344) • Malaysia 16 Sep 08

I wonder how many of you can sleep in such condition but definitely is not me. I cannot sleep if the television or radio is on. I cannot sleep with noise in my bedroom. But I see some of my friends can just sleep even the...

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XiaXueYi Well, as long as your body's at its limit, you would sleep anywhere, even in the Sahara Desert or some rocky terrain. Fatigue can make people ignore disturbances.

17 Sep 08

What would you do if you were betrayed

@mayka123 @mayka123 (16605) • India 9 Sep 08

You love someone very dearly - a family member or a friend and that person betrayed you. How would you handle it? Would you be able to be friends with that person again? Would you be able to trust them again? Would the...

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XiaXueYi I am very curious about this discussion of yours, discussion-starter. Many pardons if you read too much into this post of mine and decide it's some sort of personal attack. But I'll ask anyway. What's the purpose of this discussion? Are you seeking...

16 Sep 08

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