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Valadas @Valadas (83) • Portugal 30 Mar 11

Here's my little "love" story. So there's this girl that I met about 5 months ago. We met at school, at the entrance to be more specific. A friend of mine "introduced" me to her. My friend was after her. But they didn't feel...

love story true love

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XiaoLin From the way you talk about you two it seems to me that you still love him a lot. Does he know? If I were you I would let him read what you wrote...

31 Mar 11

kristeena @kristeena (358) • Philippines 16 Oct 10

This statement left a mark in my heart. It was during our "Responsible Parenthood Seminar" when our mentor shared this to us. She flashed a number of pictures of children who seemed to be weird. They have piercing all over their...

children

complain

responsible parenthood

weird children

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XiaoLin Sorry I realize about the many mistakes I make only after posting. It's "to take tham away", isn't it?

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kristeena @kristeena (358) • Philippines 16 Oct 10

This statement left a mark in my heart. It was during our "Responsible Parenthood Seminar" when our mentor shared this to us. She flashed a number of pictures of children who seemed to be weird. They have piercing all over their...

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XiaoLin No, you just ask the normal question people who don't have piercing ask. I would question myself in the same way sometimes, and I was answered that piercing just close when you take them out. Can't confirm it by now, sorry, but I assume it is true, especially...

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kristeena @kristeena (358) • Philippines 16 Oct 10

This statement left a mark in my heart. It was during our "Responsible Parenthood Seminar" when our mentor shared this to us. She flashed a number of pictures of children who seemed to be weird. They have piercing all over their...

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XiaoLin I have no tatoos and no pearcing, apart from a few in my ears, but I find nothing against any of them. I can understand from what you say, suspenseful, that you are past fifty and maybe when you were young the infection problem was much worse than now. People...

20 Oct 10

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chinoxads @chinoxads (255) • United States 19 Aug 10

Right now i have Motorola V3 cellphone, it's old, and i want to change for a Blackberry because with it, i can be connected more often and chat with friends, and can read about the recent news, receive my personal and work emails,...

cellphone smarphone mobile phone

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XiaoLin I'd like to have an iPhone, too, but it's too expensive here in Italy. I would break it in a few days and I would kill myself because of the loss of money... But I have iPod touch and it really is funny to use and full of apps. I'm waiting for iPhone to be...

22 Aug 10

kristeena @kristeena (358) • Philippines 17 Aug 10

Do you have courage to tell a guy you like him? Is it okay to give him a hint that you love him? The elders always talk about that the generation today is far more different than their generation. It seems that the girls nowadays...

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XiaoLin I never learned the classy ways you're talking about... since when I was very young I would be quite direct and confess to the person I liked... and it usually wasn't the right move. They never liked me back. Starting from 18 years old I stopped throwing...

21 Aug 10

dptstretch @dptstretch (120) • United States 8 Aug 10

I'm suprised that there are so few postings on journaling and perhaps I need to look around on the site a bit more to see if I've missed something. I would definately be interested in connecting with a few people here who keep a...

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XiaoLin I know the feeling of writing somethng very private and being afraid someone else would read it. The problem is, sometimes you feel confused and you want to talk to someone to sort out the reasons in your life and so on, and, well you loo around and you can't...

12 Aug 10

dptstretch @dptstretch (120) • United States 8 Aug 10

I'm suprised that there are so few postings on journaling and perhaps I need to look around on the site a bit more to see if I've missed something. I would definately be interested in connecting with a few people here who keep a...

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XiaoLin Thanks for you explanation! Well mine was a diary for sure, and I wouldn't call a journal what I started writing again in these days, too. Even if the content has, ehm, improved a little bit, well, it's still too private. Still a diary, I must day. Happy...

11 Aug 10

Link @BambooPanda13 (867) • United States 8 Aug 10

Have you ever met someone so stupid you start questioning your own intelligence because they are just soo adamant that they are correct and that YOU are the one that is not understanding? Have you ever met someone so stupid you...

stupid people

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XiaoLin This was the best till now. I never heard of such a reply. Well maybe he was joking...? Hope he was.

9 Aug 10

XiaoLin @XiaoLin (289) • Italy 24 Jun 09

I met my husband five years ago, when I had just come back home from China in order to sit the last few exams and graduate, and then go back to China for a few years, as I've always wanted. We started going out as friends, but I...

decision

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travel

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XiaoLin Well, I'm cheering up now... but I left my husband. I'm trying to understand what went wrong not to repeat it againg. As for me and my husband, even if we don't live ogether anymore, we are trying to meet each other sometimes to speak and keep a good friend...

7 Aug 10

XiaoLin @XiaoLin (289) • Italy 29 Mar 10

What's the first step toward happiness? I mean, I recognize I am not happy and I wonder if this is the first step, followed by the true search of what could make me happy and than the real thing, or if this feeling is just...

happiness

unhappiness

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XiaoLin Thanks for sharing your point of view with us... it is another way of helping, too. I also think that trying giving happiness to others also gives it to us, I often put others before myself. The problem comes when this becomes such a habit that people takes it...

7 Aug 10

XiaoLin @XiaoLin (289) • Italy 29 Mar 10

What's the first step toward happiness? I mean, I recognize I am not happy and I wonder if this is the first step, followed by the true search of what could make me happy and than the real thing, or if this feeling is just...

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XiaoLin Well, if I don't really think about it and I go on with my routine, I can live quite well. I like being with friends and I'm a cheerful person. In theese days I'm trying to be happy with what I have, since I'm not sure that what I would want is actually...

7 Apr 10

XiaoLin @XiaoLin (289) • Italy 29 Mar 10

What's the first step toward happiness? I mean, I recognize I am not happy and I wonder if this is the first step, followed by the true search of what could make me happy and than the real thing, or if this feeling is just...

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XiaoLin Hi Kandangtips, I'm glad you can clearly say what happiness is to you, I wish you to achieve your happiness, whatever the form of it. As for myself, I also can be happy for small things and so, but there's always a hidden feeling of sadness. Maybe it's ok...

7 Apr 10

XiaoLin @XiaoLin (289) • Italy 29 Mar 10

What's the first step toward happiness? I mean, I recognize I am not happy and I wonder if this is the first step, followed by the true search of what could make me happy and than the real thing, or if this feeling is just...

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XiaoLin I feel that my life is "perfect" from many points of view, but I changed so much that I don't recognize myself anymore, and I don't like it. I think freedom is too big of a word to say that I don't have it, but, well, I don't feel at ease doing things I...

29 Mar 10

XiaoLin @XiaoLin (289) • Italy 29 Mar 10

What's the first step toward happiness? I mean, I recognize I am not happy and I wonder if this is the first step, followed by the true search of what could make me happy and than the real thing, or if this feeling is just...

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XiaoLin Thanks Tomitomi, I also like asking myself questions. I spend a lot of time talking to myself and wondering about a lot of things. But, strangely, I wasn't used to ask myself whether I was happy or not. I was quite sure I could feel it without questioning...

29 Mar 10

XiaoLin @XiaoLin (289) • Italy 29 Mar 10

What's the first step toward happiness? I mean, I recognize I am not happy and I wonder if this is the first step, followed by the true search of what could make me happy and than the real thing, or if this feeling is just...

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XiaoLin Hi Myles, I missed you too and it's nice to read you here now. I also think happiness is not the same for all of us, but I am afraid sometimes even if we interrogate ourself about what we want... well, that's not what would make us happy. I must say I am...

29 Mar 10

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