XiaoLin

@XiaoLin (289)

Italy • Age 43

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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she was stinking.

divyangshukla @divyangshukla (400) • India 20 Mar 11

yoday i was travelling in train and there was big rush in train.i was standing near to door and holding a high handle and there was a girl standing next to me she was also holding handle.and she was having bad odour.i tried to...

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XiaoLin When it happens to me to be near someone stinking I just try to tolerate it and breath as less as I can, I feel ashamed evenm to move to seme other place because I am afraid the person who smells bad would feel uneasy about it... Maybe I'm a little bit too...

21 Mar 11

101 Years old - and still going strong :)

hellcord @hellcord (673) • Romania 14 Nov 09

Here's a video of an Ayahuasca Ceremony, performed by an amazonian shaman, at the ripe old age of 101 years http://exposureroom.com/members/dotDV.aspx/assets/198e5637e5104439ba85f081e77af71d/ Now I don't know...

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XiaoLin Hi Hellcord, did you manage to go and try Ayahuasca? I'm sort of interested in knowing about how it works. I'd like to talk to someone who had these experiences with the shamans. Thanks for opening the discussion and sharing the video Lin

20 Mar 11

Do you still believe in promises?

lloydbelleza @lloydbelleza (1227) • Philippines 4 Nov 10

At this modern day, it is so hard to believe into something until it actually happens. Probably because of the hurt of broken promises that we actually become scared of believing that they do come true; that we sometimes feel...

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XiaoLin I try not to make promises, usually, because I'm always afraid I can't keep them. And I started not believing in people making promises to me. That is untila a few months ago. I'm starting having faith again, and that is because of aperson who is helping me a...

5 Nov 10

how can you tell your friend that a guy is not good for her?

sophie2charm @sophie2charm (35) • Philippines 21 Aug 10

This situation started when a newly-hired guy in our office became close to my friend. All the while we all thought that there is nothing anything wrong in seeing them together. But as time passed on, we noticed that my friend...

relationship

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XiaoLin I'm afraid there's nothing you can do other thasn being close to her if she breaks down or something. If you say something against the guy you could ruin both your and their relationship. Just listen to her if she wants to talk about her problems with him, and...

21 Aug 10

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running out of love??? true or not

jhyan007 @jhyan007 (467) • Philippines 21 Aug 10

..do you believe that there is such thing as running out of love? can people really stop loving someone they "used" to love?...if that is true, wouldn't it be right to say that what they feel for that someone is not really a...

out of love

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XiaoLin I'm one of the "run out of love" person. I did love my husband, I thought we were happy together, than something happened and I sealed myself, feeling like nobody could understand me, not even him. And he couldn't, actually. Because we hadn't been talking to...

21 Aug 10

lovers working in the same place...

bokal2703 @bokal2703 (802) • Philippines 24 Jul 10

I just watched a korean drama series entitled PASTA. The movie was about the head chef who made a rule that romance will never be allowed in his kitchen...he even fired someone because of it...but then he fell in love with the...

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XiaoLin Well, it depends on how the two involved can be professional even if they are in love with each other. It's not easy to keep private life separated from work. But it's too radical to say that love must be forbidden at work. I'd love to see the drama, though....

19 Aug 10

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Reading on website

junior07 @junior07 (972) • India 31 Jul 10

Hi Friends, We often found so many websites which have classic, novels, drama and good short stories. Do you know such sites run by good writers, I know about one of such sites, go through the following...

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XiaoLin I tryed the site you suggested but it looks like it's under construction, still. Does anyone know about other similar sites? It would be nice to read something different sometimes. Thanks

19 Aug 10

Prolonged bottle feeding

kristeena @kristeena (358) • Philippines 19 Aug 10

I have 6 and 7 years old children both are still dependent from bottle feeding. Although they are eating complete meals from breakfast to dinner, they always ask for milk in their bottles. I know that we are to blame with their...

bottle feeding

children

milk

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XiaoLin I can't find anything bad in drinking milk in their bottle util they like doing it. At least it is a way to be sure they do drink milk, since I've heared of children stopping drinking it if not that way. In some time they will start making comparison with...

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How do you deal with stupid people in your life?

Link @BambooPanda13 (867) • United States 8 Aug 10

Have you ever met someone so stupid you start questioning your own intelligence because they are just soo adamant that they are correct and that YOU are the one that is not understanding? Have you ever met someone so stupid you...

stupid people

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XiaoLin Well I must say sometimes I'm so absorbed in my houghts myself, that I could be one of the people considered stupid about practical things. The problem is I realize what I said or did afterwards, and I get really embarassed about it, so I don't even have the...

9 Aug 10

Keeping a Journal

dptstretch @dptstretch (120) • United States 8 Aug 10

I'm suprised that there are so few postings on journaling and perhaps I need to look around on the site a bit more to see if I've missed something. I would definately be interested in connecting with a few people here who keep a...

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XiaoLin I don't know the difference between keeping a diary or a journal... I guess I can say I used to write down things that happened to me during the day, thoughts and hopes, together with worries and sad feelings. I used to call it diary, and I kept it since...

9 Aug 10

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Wider parking space just for women !

Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!! @krupesh (2608) • India 8 Apr 10

China has introduced car park just for women which is a bit wider compared to the normal ones.Here is the link for that...

women

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XiaoLin Well, I have to say that i DO have some little problem in parking my car when the space is not very wide, but I usually succeed in some ways. It is a little bit insulting to declare women need bigger parking spaces. Some of my female friends drive even better...

9 Apr 10

Would you take in a stray cat?

therealyez @therealyez (45) • Denmark 31 Mar 10

In the village where I live, we got a lot of stray cats. They don't have a real home but they seem to trust people. For a while ago a female cat started come to my house. We gave some food and it came by mere and more often. My...

stray cat

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XiaoLin I've never had a cat, and I can't say I don't like them but I prefer dogs. I just can't trust cats because I don't understand them, so I never try to pet them if I'm not assured by the owner that they are used to it and they would never bite or harm me. When...

1 Apr 10

My mom learning computers

besthope44 @besthope44 (12123) • India 27 Mar 10

Friends, my mom is 60 years old and she is now learning on computers. She was always surprised to see me working on computers and sit at back of me to see what i do. One day, i just asked her, if she wanna try. She was wondered to...

computers

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XiaoLin I tried to teach my parents how to use my previous laptop, since their old computer was so old that it was impossible to connect it to the net. I was going abroad and I wanted them to use skype to get in touch, so that they could see me and feel assured I was...

27 Mar 10

Have you decided to study again?

Downwindz @Downwindz (2537) • Netherlands 4 Mar 10

Hello my fellow MyLotters Some people have finished thier studies, but yet decided to start studying again. Maybe this have various reasons, a desire for more knowledge, troubles finding a job with the current education or many...

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XiaoLin Well, I'm Italian, graduate in Chinese Languace and Culture 5 years ago. After my dregree I tried to look for a job but all I could find was being a secretary that sometimes would have had to speak Chinese. I wanted to be a translator or a teacher, so I went...

4 Mar 10

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