achiek_5

@achiek_5 (41)

Malaysia • Age 42

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How Many Here Are Married? If Yes, For How Long?

KrauseHome @KrauseHome (36448) • United States 19 Jun 08

I have the priveledge of being Married now for almost 9 1/2 yrs. now. In a lot of ways, it seems like only a short time, and as the days go by, I am more in Love with my husband than the day we got married. This is my first...

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achiek_5 me..just married for 1 year and 3months. Still new huh...compared to others who already married for more than 20 years. Lot more for me to come.

20 Jun 08

What makes you fall for someone?

drsparkle314 @drsparkle314 (529) • New Zealand 13 Jun 08

Is it his/her good looks? Is it his/her smile? Is it the way he/she talks? Is it his/her personality? etcetera etcetera... what's your story? what's your opinion? please share it here...

falling in love

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achiek_5 hmm..let see..his good look, his smile, the way he talk, his personality, his attitude, his caring after me, his family, the way he look at me...makes me melt..hahaha...

19 Jun 08

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Do you easily fall for someone?

drsparkle314 @drsparkle314 (529) • New Zealand 13 Jun 08

How easily do you fall for someone?

falling in love

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achiek_5 I fell for someone easily, that is why i had lots of relationship..haha..then hurt myself, but still can control myself..how can you feel love if you don't try, right??? That was before i get married, now my love is only for my husband.

19 Jun 08

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Scared to fall in love

bianca0531 @bianca0531 (427) • Philippines 13 Jun 08

My relative keep asking me if I had already a boyfriend. I say no because I don't have enough time for such a nonsense. The truth is, I'm just scared to fall in love and enter into a relationship because I am afraid of getting...

falling in love

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achiek_5 Don't be afraid...once u fall in love u'll regret u don't feel it earlier. Agree with other commentors, love is a risk. But if u choose the right person it won't be hard. For me, love is like a chocolate..though love is much much better than it..once you bite...

18 Jun 08

How do you show each of your kids you love them the same?

kittenmc @kittenmc (464) • United States 18 Jun 08

Maybe not in the same way, but let them know you don't love the other more than the other. Sometimes as I mother I have a hard time showing this to my kids. I can't treat them the same because they are so different and they are...

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achiek_5 hmm how can i say...i just hv 1 child so i don't know how i'm gonna act soon. to show my children that i love them all the same. I'll read through all the comments and they will be my guide soon.

18 Jun 08

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What makes you cry?

dharma1 @dharma1 (35) • United States 16 Apr 08

I think It would be interesting if we all shared a little about what really hurts us. For me I cry when I'm frustrated with myself. I cry when a friend or loved one gets hurt. I sometimes even cry when I'm angry. What makes you...

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achiek_5 i cried when my dad died, my mom died...had a fight with my husband, frustrated with someone..angry..smtimes when happy..i cry too.

17 Jun 08

Everybody Poops??

wahm805 @wahm805 (76) • United States 16 Jun 08

Ok ladies this may be a little too much TMI, but I'd like to know how many of you have had experienced the worst fear I have...pooping while delivering your child. I'm due to give birth in 2 weeks and I think I'm more worried...

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achiek_5 hehe..as for me, the doctor put a liquid that will make me poops immediately after that. She put it after she broke my waterbag and after i had poops they push me to the labour room.

16 Jun 08

pregnancy

vidhyagowri @vidhyagowri (1973) • United States 6 Jun 08

How was your pregnancy. Mine was great. Of course I had few complications like high blood pressure during my 8th month because of carrying twins. But on the whole, it was a great experience

pregnancy

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achiek_5 mine was really great. Not much complication, all went smoothly..only the 1st three months, morning sickness..huh, so tired of that.

16 Jun 08

Did you get stretch marks when you were pregnant?

beccarose @beccarose (121) • United States 18 Mar 08

I haven't gotten stretch marks yet I don't think, I'm 5 months so far. I keep thinking that I get them but its just from me scratching my belly lol. I've just now been starting to use the cocoa butter because before my stomach...

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achiek_5 i got my stretch marks when i was pregnant..on the 9th month it appeared, before that no strecth marks at all. Maybe because my belly grew big fast..hehehe..

16 Jun 08

Breast feeding of child - Do you?

snakequeen @snakequeen (1299) • India 15 Jun 08

Breast feeding of the child for at least two months immediately after childbirth is generally advised by many doctors,since it is very good for the health of the child, as also the mother. But,nowadays, many do not follow this...

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achiek_5 i'm breastfeeding my baby, it is good for baby and me too. My baby is healthy, now he is already 3 month, i plan to breastfeed him until 2 years.

16 Jun 08

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Is having three kids, too many kids?

cream97 @cream97 (29087) • United States 17 May 08

First time, I checked, 3 was only considered a few...1,2,3 are a few...456 are considered some....7,8,9 and above is considered several... So why is having three kids too many? I know it may be of financial issues, but still that...

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achiek_5 well..i'm planning to have 5-7 kids because i love kids. If only three, when they grow up, further their studies i'll left only with my husband, so when i have lots of kids, if some further study there still left other kids at home with me.

15 Jun 08

Having Children

Blake420 @Blake420 (10) 12 Jun 08

What do you think the ideal age for having kids is?

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achiek_5 For me, i think the ideal age is 24 or 25..i gave birth to my 1st son when i was 25..after i finished my 1st degree and had a job and a little savings. So i can manage the family well.

15 Jun 08

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Hate

shy_gal @shy_gal (235) • Malaysia 21 Sep 07

Do u hate someone before? What you will do if really hate her because she cheat you and your family? When u try to give her another chance, who knows she still cheating you!!! So should give her another chance? Or just forget this...

people

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achiek_5 yeah..just forget it and forgive him. Your life will be peaceful when u forgive someone. If you still meet him just ignore him.

15 Jun 08

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your past relationship

Krisaea @Krisaea (114) • Philippines 15 Jun 08

Hi! I just want to hear others side about this topic. Would you treasure the past relationship? I my opinion, no matter how good it was but it's better to leave it and closed the door behind it. A person can't move on if he/she...

past relationship

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achiek_5 it's not easy to forget actually..but for me, i still remember my last relationship but it just the memories, smtimes make me smile. Not meaning that my relationship now is not good, it just hard to forget but still i know my status right now.

15 Jun 08

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How old were you when you had your first boyfriend/girlfriend?

TinaCL @TinaCL (429) • United States 14 Jun 08

How old were you when you had your first boyfriend/girlfriend? I had my first boyfriend in sixth grade. It was very cute and innocent. We just walked around the playground together and held hands. It was nothing serious. We were...

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achiek_5 My 1st boyfriend..my 1st luv was at the age 12...we never have a serious relationship but we know how we felt to each other, weird huh..

15 Jun 08

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how long does your fight last with your husband?

pradysgirl @pradysgirl (246) • India 14 Jun 08

we have very long fights over trivial matter, sometimes it goes for few weeks , the longest being 2 months. A record of sort!!! it is usually my husband who makes the first move to say sorry. how about yours? what makes you...

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achiek_5 hmm..i don't remember the longest fight but usually we only can stand for 1 day not talking to each other. I just gave birth so when i was pregnant, as u know hormones was not stable so we had lots of fight just because simple things. Same goes when i was...

14 Jun 08

boy or girl?

kaezy_kulet @kaezy_kulet (2465) • Philippines 13 Jun 08

what gender do you want your first born to be? i want to have a girl as my first born child i like dressing them up and a girl is always handy inside the house doing some household chores..how about you guys?

baby

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achiek_5 My 1st baby is a boy. Don't really care actually boy or girl as long as the baby is healthy. Furthermore, if the 1st baby is boy, so he is the brother and can look after his siblings well...my opinion la.

14 Jun 08

What was your first car?

bellaofchaos @bellaofchaos (11538) • United States 25 Apr 08

So you remember when you got your first car? What was so special about it? Did you have to pay for it or did mom and dad pay for it? What are the fondest memories that you have of your first car? Oh and what what the...

automobile

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achiek_5 my 1st car a.k.a my 1st baby..really miss him, bought with my mom money but mothly payment with my money. Though it just a 2nd hand car but really mean a lot to me. Lot of memories..but i had to let go him because of not enough money to pay since i further my...

12 Jun 08

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