alotoli

@alotoli (28)

India • Age 43

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Do you volunteer?

Withoutwings @Withoutwings (6992) • United States 20 Jan 07

Where and why?

activism

volunteer

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alotoli Back home where I stay we do lots of volunteerings, for the Churches as well as for the Youths.Where? We go to Jungle and river and etc for hunting, collecting wild fruits and leaves and veggies, fish,hunt for crabs etc lol. Why? For fund raise, fete, campaign...

10 Feb 07

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Do you volunteer?

Withoutwings @Withoutwings (6992) • United States 20 Jan 07

Where and why?

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10 Feb 07

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How to help out orphanages??

cultoffury @cultoffury (1283) • India 2 Feb 07

Today one of my friend with her family went to an orphanage and her brother who is working in a company sponsored for a lunch for all the children in the orphanage. It sounded really nice. Even I want to help them out. But I am...

relationships

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alotoli We share the same sentiment there. Wanting to help but not being able to do so is really disheartening. But those children, like everyone who has adviced you here have said, doesnt need money alone. They need love and support from us, if you can spare some...

10 Feb 07

Guys,what do you think of hairy women? To the girls,how do you get them off?

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 8 Feb 07

I myself is a hairy woman, i mean not the facial hair but my arms and legs are hairy(although not the long hair type) and i usually feel uncomfortable about them. When i wear shorts or skirts, i would shave my legs so it would be...

hairy

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alotoli lol Hairy women! Some few lucky women doesnt have armpit hair but its not totally smooth.They do have some few strands which can easily be plucked. You cant do anything about those superfluous hair unless you want to undergo laser treatment,but if you dont...

9 Feb 07

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Christian or Hyprocrite?

deberooney @deberooney (418) • United States 7 Feb 07

I am haveing a real hard time with my husband. I am afraid for him. He is very angry with the church as a whole....let me explain... My son has a mild for of Autism and we enrolled him into a Lutheran school in Sept. Things went...

christian

christianity

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alotoli I know what Im going to say here might hurt some sentiments but I've faced some problems too though I wont put it to detail. Some people sure know how to make us loose Faith in a minute! I live in a small town with varities of Christians in it! Hypocrites I...

8 Feb 07

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I don't want to get Married!!!

archiee @archiee (322) • India 7 Feb 07

its difficult for me to think of marrying anyone. it just takes pain only for a girl to leave one family and to join another. its just like " OLD WINE IN A NEW BOTTLE" its difficult to adjust, listening to your inlaws, adjustments...

adjust

husband

marry

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alotoli Well, I dont suppose Marriage is necessary if you dont want to! I dont want to get married either and the same goes to my Sisters. Lol I know it may sound bizzare, but we have four of us girls in the family but none of us thinks about getting married, not that...

8 Feb 07

Say to yourself every morning................ what about u .??

santwana_veddika @santwana_veddika (2018) • India 3 Feb 07

i always said to me :- Today is going to be a great day! 1) what do u say yourself every morning ?

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alotoli I never thought about saying anything to myself in the morning! I'll try your line next time ;-) The first thought that comes to my mind in the morning is brushing my teeth. I know it'll sound stupid and weird, but I hate brusing my teeth! ( I brush daily...

6 Feb 07

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How Long Does It Take You To Get Ready in The Morning????

cabergren @cabergren (1181) • United States 5 Feb 07

I have a girlfriend and it takes her about 2 hours to get ready in the morning. That is just crazy. She has to get up so early just to get ready for work. And it's not like she looks like a model when she is done. It usually takes...

makeup

morning

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alotoli lol...I dont know what I do, but like your girl I take atleast 2 hours to get ready in the morning. But mind you its not because of make up or dress, blame it on time for ticking away faster than it would do while you're working! :-) lol@not like she looks...

6 Feb 07

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I wish Sade would record new music...

blucrush83 @blucrush83 (126) • United States 9 Dec 06

...how about you?

sade music

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alotoli yeah me too, she's got an amazing voice.

5 Feb 07

Do you cry when u feel sad or depressed or keep it in your mind...???/

avs189 @avs189 (1030) • India 3 Feb 07

Many mylotian members would be wondering why I am asking such a trivial question...I jsut wanna know how do you express your sorrow or when u feel down or hurted by someone ...do you feel that crying means you are mentally...

crying

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alotoli Well...I mostly keep my feelings suppressed,its kinda hard for me to reveal all my thoughts to anyone and I usually dont cry infront of anyone unless Im totally angry, but when Im alone and I think about all those 'Things', I could cry a gallon! :-) If some...

5 Feb 07

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Do you like shopping for new clothes?

kutchi @kutchi (12320) • Pakistan 4 Feb 07

Do you like shopping for new clothes? What piece of clothing do you spend your money on the most? Why? Do you think it is important to be in fashion?

clothes

fashion

shopping

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alotoli I love going for shopping,but most of the time I get confused as what to buy. I end up buying slip ons and junkies otherwise I come home buying nothing at all. That is the reason my sister shops for me :-) I dont suppose its important to be in...

5 Feb 07

Clothings...What kind of Clothings do you like??

goldenboy20 @goldenboy20 (555) • Philippines 22 Jan 07

What kinds of clothings do you like? me i like simple and yet attractive clothings..Oftentimes i wear t-shirt in green color because that is my favourite color. what about you? give me your answer and your reasons...

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alotoli hmmm...If only I could go back to the Victorian era. I just love those victorian dresses! I love the 80s style too, but right now Im comfortable with Jeans and tees...nothing beats them:-) I dont wear formal clothings... its suffocating!I love black,...

5 Feb 07

How many pairs of jeans do you own?

beachcomber @beachcomber (141) • United States 3 Feb 07

More importantly how many do you wear? I now own 16 pairs, I wear 3 pair all the time. Why? It's hard to say, I just like the way they fit. I do have 2 pair that I save for going out. Not just wearing around the house. How...

clothes

denim

jeans

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alotoli Jeans...Flares are out so I gave out all my flared Jeans and now Im left with four straight cuts. fits like gloves:-)You dont have to save Jeans for special occations...as long as you have right accesories to match 'em up and some nasty tops to top it off you...

5 Feb 07

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Does the weather affect your mood?

rachelcaron @rachelcaron (1679) • United States 2 Feb 07

Does the weather outside affect your mood and how you feel? I know it does for me. When it is sunny outside I usually feel great and am in such a great mood. When it rains for many days I get irritable. I remember there was...

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alotoli Summer or Winter It doesnt change my mood...it just changes my body temperature, but one thing for sure that gives me the creeps is WIND!Nothing can scare me like a strong bellowing wind with its eerie Wooossshhh sound...

3 Feb 07

What do you hate about laundry?

lilttownmommie @lilttownmommie (1473) • United States 24 Oct 06

What is the one thing that you hate the most about doing laundry? I hate socks!

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alotoli lol... Denims- Love wearing it, cant do without it, but can do without washing and brushing it. Towels- Basic necessity,I hate washing its thickness!! Blankets- Hallelujah!!! Heavier by 20kgs when soaked! Bed spreads-Ever tried washing?:D Socks and...

3 Feb 07

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working mom and house-husband... what can you say?

fianne @fianne (1057) • United States 2 Feb 07

my mom is now working for our family since mdad lost his job plus the fact that he's getting old. any says here that my dad should work coz he's the head of the family, we all understand his situation that's why my mom did the...

dad

mom

work

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alotoli Its an old controversy that men should be the earner and women should stay home, cook, clean and et al.I dont see why at this age anyone should be thinking that way...it sounds so orthodoxical and outlandish! My Mom was more of an earner than my Dad for...

3 Feb 07

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Do you love you job or you are just there for the money?

alindahaw @alindahaw (1219) • Philippines 2 Feb 07

A friend of mine popped this question a while ago and it got me wondering. A lot of people around the world are forced to stay with the job that they hate simply because they believe that they could not find another one better....

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alotoli Well, me I tried working some many odd jobs, but I could never cross a week before resigning:-)Happened once too many. My last job was working in BPO and I broke myself a record by working for 5 months. I quit because my Team Leader was such a tyrant and I...

3 Feb 07

who is more religious?

iya_alena @iya_alena (11) • Philippines 3 Feb 07

Is the poor people or the rich one?

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alotoli What made u think that religion is based on Poor or Rich (as in ur term)? Let this be ur 'mantra'- "Make me not rich for I may forget you, but make me not poor that I might steal"

3 Feb 07

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