apakabar2007

@apakabar2007 (1693)

Netherlands • Age 53

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Does your spouse constantly talk about your kids

gramskaren @gramskaren (661) • United States 18 Mar 07

and want them to always do better than what they are doing? I get tired of listening to him talk about how they could do so much better than what they are doing. I tell him they are grown ups and can decide for themselves what...

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apakabar2007 Well.....that sounds like my dad. He did to all of us (his children). Sometimes it's just quite pain in the neck hearing him telling us what we must or mustn't do. Of course as parent, he didn't want us to take any hard fall nor do things that we will regret....

3 Jul 07

Spa in Batam

noyida @noyida (795) • Singapore 28 Jan 07

I enjoy to have my body being massage to relax myself from the hectic life in Singapore. I had been going to Batam for Spa to pamper my body. So far I had frequented Mustika Ratu for this. But recently, it is always fully booked...

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apakabar2007 Gosh....I've been to Batam once. But I haven't got any chance to spoil myself with spa...(I wish). I think I'm just to busy looking around for shops...hehehe. Hmmm....if I ever go to Batam again I'll certainly try that.

3 Jul 07

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Hacking of myLOT ID

noyida @noyida (795) • Singapore 29 Jun 07

I received an IM from myLOT friend yesterday. She told me to change my password in myLOT, citing that her ID had been hijacked. Indeed, it is, I had checked on her profile and saw that her profile had been changed. Does anyone...

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apakabar2007 No....I haven't heard about this nor aware that someone try to hacked mylot. Maybe she use someone else computer or share/ public computer and forget to log out. If that the case, then it will be very easy for somebody else to change or messing around her...

3 Jul 07

Happy Canada Day Everyone!

danishcanadian @danishcanadian (28955) • Canada 1 Jul 07

Canada is 140 years old, today, July 1st 2007. Happy Canada day to all, and happy birthday to the wonderful country where I was born.

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apakabar2007 Dear danishcanadian, HAPPY CANADA day to you and to all CANADIAN. Thank you for reminded me about Canada day because I have some Canadian friends, I'll congratulate them too as I'm sure they will throw a party this weekend.

3 Jul 07

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Car Wash - Do you use a car shampoo or just plain water?

ranjeetkolarkar @ranjeetkolarkar (1595) • India 2 Jul 07

For the first time I used a car shampoo for cleaning my car and noticed that it was causing patches on my car. Then I discontinued using any car shampoo and only use plain water from a jet to wash my car. How do you wash you car...

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apakabar2007 We are pretty lazy when it come to washing our car. Maybe once or three times in a year (oeps) when it need to go to the car garage for yearly check up. We dod use the normaal shampoo for our hair and bucket of water and that works just perfect, better than...

2 Jul 07

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Favorite Pie

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 30 Jun 07

What is your favorite pie? My favorite is sweet potato pie with whipped cream. I only seem to get them around Christmas and Thanksgiving. What is your favorite pie?

sweet potato

sweet potato pie

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apakabar2007 Apple pie is among my favorites.....with a lot of whippend cream on top. If there's not whipped cream that I love to have it with a lot of vanilla sauce.....yummmy....yummy........

2 Jul 07

My baby isn't a baby anymore...

misheleen73 @misheleen73 (6037) • United States 1 Jul 07

My "baby" is turning 8 today. I can't believe the time goes by so quickly. I remember being pregnant with his older brother. I am feeling a little sad on his happy day. I am wondering how much longer I will be able to call him Mon...

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apakabar2007 First of all....Congratulations and happy birthday to your "baby". They grow pretty fast, aren't they. Well....I this similar conversation with my husband almost everyday when we see her playing around and at night when we go to bed. Some part of us wanna...

2 Jul 07

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How Long Do You Wait Before Marking Best Response?

Rozie37 @Rozie37 (15499) • Turkmenistan 2 Jul 07

I am a little embarrassed to say that I take too long to mark best response. I went through and did all of them tonight and found that some had been sitting for three months. But in my defense, there are some that are so on...

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apakabar2007 Well, rosie37....you are not the only one. I'm feeling guilty too. It's never been easy for me me sometimes to give best response to just one person. I wish I could give everybody best response mark or at least 3 in every discussion. Since most of them come up...

2 Jul 07

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Do you lock your room when Changing your dress???

Coolgeth @Coolgeth (1215) • India 28 Jun 07

LOL.Just funny..If some one is in your house do you lock your room when you change your dress??? Nope i wont..How abt you????

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apakabar2007 Well...depends, when I'm in my own house and in my own room, I don't lock it. Because our door can only be open from inside. But when I'm somewhere else....I definitely lock my room when I'm changing dress. Certainly don't like unwanted person accidentally...

2 Jul 07

Hot or Cold?

gr8life @gr8life (6251) • Malaysia 1 Jul 07

I am living in a country where the weather is hot throughout the year. I never experienced winter *sigh* I wish to experience snow one day though the fact is that : I hate cold weather. My husband is from a cold country but I...

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apakabar2007 Well gr8life....grass not always greener on the other side. If I have the choice, I prefer also in between. Not to cold and not too hot. Just enough. Winter didn't always fun as it sounds. Same goes for spring, summer and autumn. Every seasons has its own...

2 Jul 07

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radio /tv

koolkatkool @koolkatkool (96) • India 9 Jun 07

hey ppl do u prefer wistening radio or watching tv...

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apakabar2007 When I´m at home, I prefer watching TV than listeing to radio. But when I´m on the road....I prefer listening to radio as watching TV in the car or bus gives me headache.

2 Jul 07

wht to do wen u r sad

koolkatkool @koolkatkool (96) • India 30 May 07

wht do u do wen u r sad ..i usually eat..choclates ice cream... is there any better way to deal wid stress, or to deal wid problems widout putting on weight....

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apakabar2007 Of course there are plenty of healthy way to deal with stress....some says go to the gym, do some fitness, jogging, swimming, or go fo a walk...and many more. As for myself, window shopping is help me when I´m sad. Because then I´ll busy looking at shops...

2 Jul 07

which was ur favourate toy/cartoon when u were akid?

koolkatkool @koolkatkool (96) • India 3 Jun 07

i loved alladin infact i liked all the cartoons also all kinda of doll i had a barbie doll house wow i those days were awesome .. wht ab tu

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apakabar2007 When I was a kid, I love most of disney cartoon character. Such as donald duck, goofy, mickey mouse,etc.....and also those 1001 stories....but I don´t collect nor buy any of them. I just buy the magazine instead. So I can read them over and over and over....

2 Jul 07

Danger on Public Toilets

Hazel Funcion @Zelmarq (12607) • Cebu City, Philippines 29 Jun 07

Three women in North Florida turned up at hospitals over a 5-day period, all with the same symptoms. Fever, chills, and vomiting, followed by muscular collapse, paralysis and finally, death. There were no outward...

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apakabar2007 Thank you so much for sharing this information Zelmarq, I really have no idea. Even in the airoplane....oh my goodness. From now on I have to double check the restroom doesn't matter where, as I don't want any member of my families catch this. Have they found...

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Dumpling Festival

Lee Ka @kaka135 (14931) • Malaysia 20 Jun 07

It was Dumpling Festival yesterday. It's a day where Chinese celebrate a ancient China hero. We always make dumplings during this day, I guess that's why in English it's called Dumpling Festival. My mum always make the...

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apakabar2007 Wauw...sounds interesting. I haven´t heard this such festival before. But I can tell my dad and I will love it since we love dumplings. Me too don´t know how to make them but normally we always buy them from chinese restaurant....hmmm, yummmy !!!!

2 Jul 07

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Do you mind the height of the person who you are going to date?

youless @youless (112586) • Guangzhou, China 1 Jul 07

Frankly, I do pay attention to it. I always prefer I date with a man who is at least taller than me 15cm. I don't know why, maybe it makes me feel security. If we have similar height or he is just taller than me a little, then...

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apakabar2007 Personally, I prefer the man I date taller than me or equal in height. I´m quite small so I can´t imagine if my date smaller than me. And my husband is much taller than me.

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What do you usually do during summer break?

argie713 @argie713 (1809) • Philippines 22 Jun 07

What do you usually do during summer break? Do you stay at home? Or go to a beach? Look for a summer job? There are lots of stuff you can do during summer break. I just stay here at home during summer. I get enough rest so I...

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apakabar2007 First choice.....definitely going to the beach. My family loves to go to the beach whenever we have the change and nice weather. But if we think to many people headed to the beach at the same time then we'll just stay home, do some clutter organizing...(hmph)...

1 Jul 07

do you eat uncooked meat???

austere @austere (2812) • Philippines 26 Apr 07

i mean, in our country we have this foods called "kinilaw" this means that meats are eaten raw.. but they are thoroughly cleaned and we put spices on it and vinegar! we do it for fishes and pork.. sometimes we add cocnut milk to...

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apakabar2007 People here love to eat one specific raw fish called "haring" and spinkled it with chopped onion. I tried once but I can't seem to swallow it. So I stop before to far. I tried to eat japanese sushi and some of them I can handle.

1 Jul 07

Do you prefer to go to cinema on weekend or weekday?

serena_wai @serena_wai (970) • Malaysia 1 Jul 07

My friends used to ask me along for a movie on weekend and I don't really enjoy weekend movie for several reasons. 1) The Cinema normally fully booked, you have to line for a long queue and normallay nice middle seats are...

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apakabar2007 Since I have 4 years old daughter. Here, she's only allow on specific day and time to go to cinema that meant for children. Which on wednesday and sunday. Both my husband and I won't/can't leave without her nor leave her behind with a nanny. So either we all...

1 Jul 07