aralashma

@aralashma (19)

Age 36

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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How old are you going to get married?

gengeni @gengeni (3308) • Indonesia 17 Jan 11

Marriage is sacred, once we get married can not be undone / divorced, although divorce could happen. Well, before we have to think long-married, preferably, How old were we supposed to get married?

get married

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aralashma For me the age is not important, the most important is the preparedness of entering marriage. In Scientific, they say you should get married from 18-25 years old because it is the ages that you think of a perfect happy family and also you feel the love. For...

17 Jan 11

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Money or love?

didi13 @didi13 (2926) • Romania 16 Jan 11

What would you choose? A man with money who do not feel any affection or a bit poor that you love him?

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aralashma I never think that love will come to me soon so I will choose career because I can save money from it. However, from your statement I will think harder between the two. The best thing that you need to consider are: 1. Kind 2. Faithful 3. Commitment 4. Have...

16 Jan 11

Is parenting as easy (or difficult) as you thought?

la_chique @la_chique (1498) 16 Jan 11

I've always had an opinion on other people's parenting teqhniques but especially in recent years I've tried to bite my tongue more. I realise more and more that parenting can often be trickier than the theory. I dont have kids yet...

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aralashma I can say that it is harder than what we all thought. I'm not a parent yet but I can say that being one is harder. From the baby born till it became an adult you will not stop to be come a parent, that's how my mom teach me. You will sacrifice a lot for a...

16 Jan 11

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How often do you use it?

mytravelaroundglobe @sanjay91422 (2725) • India 16 Jan 11

I am talking about the mirror, many people use mirror every time. I use to use the mirror and still I use it sometimes. I have cut my hairs small and I no longer want to use mirror to comb my hairs. I like the camera, my webcam...

camera

mirror and me

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aralashma I don't use it mostly, only if I comb my hair after shower or sometimes when I go out.

16 Jan 11

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Friends may come and go but let the TRUE ones remain...

celeste2224 @celeste2224 (160) • Philippines 16 Jan 11

I have this saying since I was in college and I hold on to this until now that Friends may come and go but let the true ones remain. I have met friends along the way, through hard and good times and I have met some who have stayed...

friendship

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aralashma I agree to you. Friends this days never stays for long, specially if you just met them. Most true friends stays if both of you have been together for years and experience the same things or can understand each other.

16 Jan 11

Do you like seeing chinese films? Why ?

Tonytian @Tonytian (35) • China 16 Jan 11

We a lot of chinese people just watch American movie in their life,because they are full of special skills and technology .Meanwhile ,they are full of romance and comedy! What do you think?

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aralashma I like seeing Chinese not films but drama. They create a romantic, comedy drama. It is really entertaining.

16 Jan 11

Shame

rifnee @rifnee (1713) • Indonesia 16 Jan 11

How do I overcome shyness and low self-esteem? Is it a disease?

shyness

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aralashma Hi, no it's not a disease. I myself is shy and have a low esteem, however I overcome it a little when I got a job in a call center. You can also overcome this little by little by joining social network which involve verbal communication person to person.

16 Jan 11

Surviving with in laws and being true to yourself

desertsong @desertsong (94) • Philippines 15 Jan 11

I have actually lived with my in laws for a year now and I don't get to be comfortable with them. Eventhough I live in their house I always show them who I am, even my terrible side. I don't care if they'd make me stay out of the...

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aralashma I can say that it is really hard. My mom experience the same way because my dad is the eldest of all the siblings so they stay with my grandmother. Same as you, or even worse, they fought with my mom and sometimes occurred in violence. After a few months we...

15 Jan 11

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should i give up?

juniorstringbean08 @juniorstringbean08 (455) • Philippines 14 Jan 11

hi friends. i have a girlfriend with a very strict family. they didn't like me at all. for two years, i felt rejection over and over. they even threatened my girlfriend that if she didn't get rid of me, they will not allow to...

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aralashma If your going to ask me, it would be more appropriate for both of you to lay low for a while. You need to prove that you love her by showing her family that you care about their opinion. Maybe they think that your a bad influence to their daughter. You need to...

15 Jan 11

where to run if your feeling empty and hopeless

krieyszel @krieyszel (330) • Philippines 13 Jan 11

Where should we run if we feel complicated to our self.I, I don't know where I should able to express out my anger and hatred.I am very desperate I can't understand myself.I feels like empty and useless I can't even understand my...

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aralashma I can relate to what you are saying. I myself felt something like that, but the difference is some of the problems, I have, I can tell my sisters about it. That's why it lessens the pain. Sometimes it depends on the problem your sharing. If you felt down...

14 Jan 11

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Does it annoy you when people kiss at public?

reco13 @reco13 (605) • Philippines 13 Jan 11

Many times I have heard my friends complaining or getting annoyed when they see couples kissing at public places. But for me, I really don't get annoyed with this habit. Maybe, it also depends on the couples. I like seeing people...

kiss

public

relationship

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aralashma If seeing couples kissing each other in public bothers them a lot, why bother staring at them. What's the purpose of talking about it, if it doesn't have anything to do with you unless you wanna try it. Will they be the one to be hurt when people say things...

14 Jan 11

Marriage, is it "lifetime guarantee"?

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 13 Jan 11

Once in a wedding ceremony, I witness my good friend reading out loud of his vow, and his ex - spouse vow. They will love each other until the end of the day, or end of the world. No matter sickness or collapse of the Earth. Maybe...

friends

love

marriage

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aralashma It depends on the people who made the vow. Some people still last long because they love and care for each other. Some couples stay in being married because of responsibilities and commitment. Some are for pleasure that when you don't meet their expectations,...

14 Jan 11

Which of these destinations would you rather travel to?

puccagirl @puccagirl (7294) • Israel 13 Jan 11

Okay, so I am planning a honeymoon this year, and I can't seem to decide where I would rather go, and neither can my fiancee. So let me ask you MyLotters: Which of these destinations would you rather travel to, for a...

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aralashma If your honeymoon is set on a summer season you can choose between Caribbean and Greek Islands. Because most of the great spots there are beaches. You will not enjoy dipping in the water if the weather is cold. If you like historical places, you might as well...

14 Jan 11

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