arlene05kang

@arlene05kang (277)

South Korea • Age 50

Joined myLot 16 years ago

My son JG and me

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I got a job! but then... decisions decisions..

zeroflashx2 @zeroflashx2 (2491) • Philippines 8 Jun 08

Yesterday, I was thankful to God amidst what happened. I applied for a job and on the first try, I got the job offer. I do need a job as I'm almost on a 3 months hiatus. So there I was, the lucky one among almost 50 applicants and...

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arlene05kang thanks for the BR note...gudluck to all your future plans.

2 Jul 08

What Makes a Good Mother ?

ahdorein @ahdorein (29) • United States 10 Jun 08

I know this is a controversial question because everyone is going to have a different opinion but I would really like to know, what makes a person a good mother ?

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arlene05kang That's a good one. Nobody know who's good or bad mother but their own children. All women who are doing their responsibility to their children to be strong and be independent when they grow up, can be consider as a good mother and the other way around are...

14 Jun 08

What would you do if your friend ask you to help her to scape from her husband?

arlene05kang @arlene05kang (277) • South Korea 26 May 08

Most of Filipinas (including me) her in South korea got married through matching. It takes alot courage to adjust and to survive here in Korea. Specially for the fact that you marry someone you don't really know that much.One more...

friends

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arlene05kang Of course, It's my pleasure to be your friend. By the way, there is one rule about joining a discussion. We have to speak only english because the mylot staffs are not billingual to understand our mother tongue language. Thanks for the comment by the way.

14 Jun 08

What you do first when you arrived home from long day at work??

baleleng2008 @baleleng2008 (917) • United States 10 Jun 08

What do you do first,guys when you arrived home from long day at work?? Are you turn on right away your computer before you do the chores inside the house or fix your dinner? or.... Are you going to clean the house ,fix the...

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arlene05kang Hahahah...that's funny. At least they know that you arrived already, and to alert them to prepare their patience because you arrived already....lol. In my case, I have to clean the house first. Because my son always turn the house into a factory of a mess. But...

12 Jun 08

is marriage punishment for life?

jijomathew @jijomathew (519) • India 10 Jun 08

when i was a young boy i had a dream to get marred but one day i read a slogan in my friend's t-shirt. "not all people are fools some stay bachelor" then i thought the other way,if i got married it just makes my life...

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arlene05kang That's right, it's a sacred thing. Nobody is perfect in this world. When you decided to marry someone because you think she/he is the best for you. Then after a month or years of living together you will discover something that you don't like. In this case you...

12 Jun 08

I Am Tempted Not To Go To Work Today - Do You Take Time Off Without Cause?

ellie333 @ellie333 (21016) 9 Jun 08

It is a lovely sunny day and I have to leave for work soon knowing that I am going to be cooped up in a windowless airless room until 11pm tonight. I never take time off work even if I am feeling poorly but I must admit I am very...

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arlene05kang Sometimes I'm thinking of doing it. But I can't , I'm a teacher and If I'm going to do this my students mother might go on strike...lol.

9 Jun 08

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Baby is crying

snakequeen @snakequeen (1299) • India 9 Jun 08

How do you stop a baby from crying? Or never mind? By showing flowers and start playing? Or by singing, or...

baby

cry

stop

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arlene05kang That's right. If it's an infant, then you have to check the possible reason why the baby is crying. Such as diaper, hungry or something bites her. Other than that you may think that she has a little pain in her stomach. Ask someone who's older than you. But...

9 Jun 08

I would like to be a better listener

jasmine0728 @jasmine0728 (677) • United States 8 Jun 08

I try to be a good friend to my friends.I have 4 very close friends,I couldn't choose between the 4 which would be considered my best because they are all very special to me and I have been their friend for many years. What I...

caring

good friends

my friend

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arlene05kang That's right. Let your friend open up what's her problem is. Just listen and show your heart that you really symphatize about her feeling. When the time she's done talking and ask you for advise then, that's the time to share. Balance your advise. The advice...

9 Jun 08

If you are given the chance to choose what would you prefer, a boy or a girl?

arlene05kang @arlene05kang (277) • South Korea 9 Jun 08

Here's the situation. You already have a four year old son. You and your husband decided to have another child.. If you were to choose what would you prefer a girl or a boy ?

children

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arlene05kang I talked to my sister, i told her that if she gets pregnant and it will be boy then i will give her my sons stuff.Then If i gets pregnant and its a girl she should give me her daughter stuff. Funny isn't it. Thanks for dropping by.

9 Jun 08

If you are given the chance to choose what would you prefer, a boy or a girl?

arlene05kang @arlene05kang (277) • South Korea 9 Jun 08

Here's the situation. You already have a four year old son. You and your husband decided to have another child.. If you were to choose what would you prefer a girl or a boy ?

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arlene05kang That's exactly what's in my mind why I choosed a girl. That's for the comment.

9 Jun 08

"No" Response discussion should be "Zero"...??

chennai_b02 @chennai_b02 (1735) • India 8 Jun 08

Today, I am attack only the "discussion with no responses" If all our us will attack the same for one day, we can make this place very less.. At present if you find it there, a lots of discussions still shows "Zero"...

zero

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arlene05kang It's true but It should be a wake up call for the author of the discussion. It has a zero response maybe because the subject is not that interesting or something else. So the next time you try to start a discussion, consider the idea of what will the community...

9 Jun 08

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If you are given the chance to choose what would you prefer, a boy or a girl?

arlene05kang @arlene05kang (277) • South Korea 9 Jun 08

Here's the situation. You already have a four year old son. You and your husband decided to have another child.. If you were to choose what would you prefer a girl or a boy ?

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arlene05kang that would be nice! Thanks for dropping by.

9 Jun 08

If you are given the chance to choose what would you prefer, a boy or a girl?

arlene05kang @arlene05kang (277) • South Korea 9 Jun 08

Here's the situation. You already have a four year old son. You and your husband decided to have another child.. If you were to choose what would you prefer a girl or a boy ?

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arlene05kang Thanks for the comment.

9 Jun 08

If you are given the chance to choose what would you prefer, a boy or a girl?

arlene05kang @arlene05kang (277) • South Korea 9 Jun 08

Here's the situation. You already have a four year old son. You and your husband decided to have another child.. If you were to choose what would you prefer a girl or a boy ?

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arlene05kang that's my choice too. Since I alread have a son. Children are blessings from god.Thanks for the comment. Keep on mylotting.

9 Jun 08

Are you very particular about your teacher's physical appearance?

arlene05kang @arlene05kang (277) • South Korea 8 Jun 08

Do you mind if your (lady) teacher looks more handsome than you? I had my short haircut style for almost a year now(which we call it sports style here in korea) . The first time I had it, my students were all shocked. They don't...

teacher

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arlene05kang Yes, I am teaching English (ESL). It's a very enjoyable but a little bit stressful profession. But I like it.

8 Jun 08