arlera

@arlera (86)

Age 56

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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How nice life without work??

victorkrish @victorkrish (1614) • Malaysia 10 Aug 12

Sometime i felt that life would be nice if we just spent the time with our family member. However we cannot run from the real life which is include all of the daily in our life. Do your ever felt same as me too?

life without work

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arlera hi,im feeling the same way these days i just dont feel like going to work,i just wish i could stay at home,but thats not possible.i really need to be away from this place for a while

10 Aug 12

Are you use phone for messaging and call purpose only??

victorkrish @victorkrish (1614) • Malaysia 8 May 12

Do you think phone is mainly purpose for messaging and call? Sometime people use to phone to playing games, surf internet,and some other? what you think?

phone

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arlera hi, i think phones have taken over,i wonder how we actually lived before when their werent cell phones,i find mysely going crazy if i cant find mines to send back a message,or lets say i forge it at home i feel like i cant function which is really not goodi...

9 May 12

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Adopt a child, what you think?

victorkrish @victorkrish (1614) • Malaysia 4 May 12

Adopting a child is such good indeed, as people very mentality persons that could adopt a child. As a mature person they are wiling to adopt a child, For instance Angelina jolie.. hmm,!! What you think about this??

adopt a child

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arlera hi,i think adopting a child is a huge responsibility and u have to be quite sure about this because u cant do it and then want to change your mind,children are a joy, u must however hve lots of patience,i never knew what it was to really love someone until i...

4 May 12

Make money by watch video.

victorkrish @victorkrish (1614) • Malaysia 3 May 12

Recently i am seeking a site like youtube, pay per view. If someone get into my website, and watch the video, and i get paid. Any like that?? Could you suggest me to get paid if someone watch my videos? I wanna upload the...

pay per view

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arlera hi, one of my friends actually tried that this week,he goes by 'urian 5'so what he did he started uploading videos ,he actually made one to and he also heard that if you upload them and u get alot of views youtube actually contacts you and ask u advertise for...

4 May 12

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Looking old is dosen't matter

victorkrish @victorkrish (1614) • Malaysia 3 May 12

Do you felt "im getting old",? Aging is that a panic issue or just think a part of life and no need to worry. Do you have any special comment regard this?

aging

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arlera hi,its funny u should talk about that,i recntly had those thought going through my mind this week,i was feeling like im getting old,and when u look at pictures sometimes it shows,and it is a panic issue at first,but then their isnt much u can do so its best u...

4 May 12

Do you say "sorry" in every fault you've done in your partner?

mobhomeir @mobhomeir (7558) • Philippines 3 May 12

Hello again guys, I was wondering how many of us who cares for a relationship (husband and wife or sweethearts) would care to say sorry in every mistakes done on both sides.Well, it is most likely no problem with sweethearts...

married life

wrong doings

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arlera hi, im a person who will always say sorry if i was wrong,but what i have noticed my partner he may say it but its as if u have to beg him to.whats so wrong about saying sorry to the person you love rather than feeling youre to big to apologize its a small...

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Can money buy everything?

Curlann @annierose (21571) • Philippines 1 May 12

Money seems to be the thing that everyone seems to be obsessed of but can money buy everything? For me, money can buy anything but not everything. It can buy a house, but not a HOME. It can buy a clock, but not TIME. It can buy...

money

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arlera hi,i agree totally yes it can buy us all the materials things,which would give us some measure of happiness,but it really cant buy u the important stuff

2 May 12

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Would you collect junk and sell it afterwards?

Resy King @resy21curapika (2131) • Pasay, Philippines 29 Apr 12

I've done it before. And why should I stop? It's awkward but nice. One thing that keeps me going there to the junk shop selling paper stocks and PET bottles is that in a littile way; I'm saving the environment. And why not turn...

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arlera hi if you are making money from it well good for you,

30 Apr 12

Husband looking at other girls

ajithlal @ajithlal (14716) • India 28 Apr 12

I was walking through a shopping place. I see a young couple walking and I notice that the boy was looking after other girls and looking the body shapes, etc. I saw the girl noticing it and also seeing a little sadness in her...

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arlera hi, i dont like the idea of being with your partner and they are looking at someone slse as to check the person out i find that to be very insensitive,and not carig at all about how the other person is feeling.

30 Apr 12

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Have you ever wondered on possibility of going back in life !

alienstar @alienstar (5142) • India 30 Apr 12

If there was a Time machine where we can go back to old times, how nice it will be to meet some people of the older generation isn't it? have you ever thought on these liens? i have read an article recently which was very...

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arlera hi, going back in time would be really super,to live in the times when our forefathers lived and to experience their way of doing things,to live among all those brilliant inventors that would be out of this world.

30 Apr 12

Online Surveys

jewelsam @jewelsam (38) • Philippines 29 Apr 12

I'm wondering if those paid online surveys work? I mean does it really pay you after you have signed as a member and participated to their surveys? I just signed up last night to a paid online survey site. Well, there's no harm in...

online earning

paid survey

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arlera hi, can someone tell me as well if they really do pay u for online surveys,which one did u sign up to

30 Apr 12

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What happened was seriously rude!!!!!!!!!

jamborieman @jamborieman (563) • Philippines 30 Apr 12

Near our house... Some guy left a plastic bag. We just didn't bother it though because maybe it's just trash and the garbage guys would just probably take it away... but after like 8 hours.... it smelled so bad. Smelled like a...

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arlera hi, we really do have some very mean people out there,the time and energy used to drop it off at your place couldnt he just dispose of it in a better manner really poor.

30 Apr 12

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I saw him naked and excited!

Nezavisima Deskata @nezavisima (7408) • Bulgaria 30 Apr 12

I saw him naked and excited happened to you is such a thing. Yesterday I saw a naked man we go way back but never have seen so cm. most accidentally saw his body carved from smooth muscles. The moment I saw him already in my...

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arlera hi.i think it would be a very embarassing situation if we go way back,so you got excited well enjoy.

30 Apr 12

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Do you like to be controlled?

Sreekala @Sreekala (34312) • India 30 Apr 12

Dear friends and mylotters ‘Controlling’ is something nobody can tolerate in any kind of relationship. If it is too much controlling then it may destroy the relationship. Everyone wanted to do things according to...

controlling

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arlera hi, having someone control another i think can be very damaging to a friendship,people need to breathe a little,and b who they are without someone watching their every mood.

30 Apr 12

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Can i have sleeping as a job?

jazel_juan @jazel_juan (15746) • Philippines 26 Apr 12

well just me being silly ( or trying to be silly) well what do you think guys? are there people who are paid to be asleep? coz i would love to have that but then that is also hazardous right? as too much of sleeping is...

jobs

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arlera hi sleeping as a job would be great ,because i love to sleep,to be paid to sleep are u sure their is nothing else involved,if their is such a thing im applying now.;

27 Apr 12

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Does Redemption Have A Limit

PhillyDreamer @PhillyDreamer (3039) • United States 27 Apr 12

I live in a world where criminals commit crimes every day, and many of them are caught and forced to serve their debt to society. After a criminal has served their sentence they are expected to re-enter the world and become a...

redemption

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arlera hi. i think that it all depends on the act that was done,one thing may be serious to one person and to the other it might be trivial,but if you have paid with time maybe you are entitled to come back into society and live a normal life,unfortunately that not...

27 Apr 12

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Would We Be Strong Today If We...

moonlitmagikchild @moonlitmagikchild (22181) • United States 27 Apr 12

would we be strong today if we had never gone through certain things in life? it could be anything such as health, divorce, abuse, etc. mine would be health problems and that makes people say im strong because of all i have gone...

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arlera hi life is a gift,and lots of times the things we experience or go through helps us to learn and make us stronger,at the moment we may not understand y we are going through this,but after time has gone by most times we can use these experiences to help make...

27 Apr 12

The Truth Hurts

CzarinaM19 @CzarinaM19 (115) • Philippines 26 Apr 12

As Stated by Oscar Wilde, "A little sincerity is a dangerous thing, and a great deal of it is absolutely Fatal". In relationship to this theory, lovers would often lie to each other to avoid issues, which is common to couples...

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arlera hi, the thruth will always set u free,the question is sometimes if the thruth is told u may lose everything.its not good to deceive others ,sometimes being to sincere still d oesnt work,life is so complicated and we are to blame,if everyone was honest about...

26 Apr 12

She wants another woman..

Toni @toniganzon (72533) • Philippines 26 Apr 12

No she's not a lesbian! A friend of mine confided to me today that he almost lost his girlfriend because of a silly fight. She wanted to experiment with another woman and he felt so insecure. He thinks that he is not normal...

people

sex

wild sex

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arlera hi,it all depends on the persons involved some couples get a kick out of things like this,i definitely wouldnt.

26 Apr 12

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