ashantiadj

@ashantiadj (41)

United States • Age 34

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Do you make your children do chores?

MirandaKay @MirandaKay (231) • United States 6 Aug 10

I am a firm believer of making my kids do chores. I think it gives them a sense of responsibility and teaches them how to care for the inside of their home. I know some parents that do not make their kids do anything to help out...

chores

kids

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ashantiadj I don't have any kids, but when I do, they will have chores. agree with you 100% when you say that it teaches them how to take care of the inside of a home. I know several people that don't know how to fold sheets properly. Some parents are afraid of seeming...

6 Aug 10

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Todays redemption was a FAIL

tap0991 @tap0991 (2766) • United States 6 Aug 10

First they posted the redemption is live 5 minutes before they opened up ptzplace. Second I think they did not even have all the prizes. Like they just had gift cards and paypal open. Third my girlfriend got in almost instantly...

fail

lockerz

redemption

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ashantiadj I had the same problems. Lockerz disgusted me so much, I am considering going on Fiverr and saying "I will give you my Lockerz account, ptz and all, for five bucks". There is no way there were prizes even in that redemption, because I clicked the link when it...

6 Aug 10

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Do you forgive your friends who left you alone when you were in serious trouble?

yiyun_h @yiyun_h (183) • United States 6 Aug 10

I had a life time friend who I always put her needs above myself (which was wrong I realized now). I devoted too much to her. And recently years I was in all kinds of challenges: mentally and physically, career wise, financial,...

friendship

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ashantiadj You must think about the type of friend you are dealing with. There are two types of people I will talk about. The first is the person who pretends to be your friend, and they are... when everything is going well for you- or going bad for them. They will...

6 Aug 10

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Do you sometimes have trouble saying NO to a person?

m_perez @m_perez (506) • United States 6 Aug 10

I really think I have trouble saying No to people. Every time someone asks me for a favor and if I say no..then they start begging and that's when I give in and say yes. I think I'm a really a big pushover when it comes to...

friends

people

saying no

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ashantiadj I use to have a very big problem saying no, especially when asked to do favors for people or let them borrow or use my things. I just figured, "why not?" But when someone asked to see my phone to call for a ride one day, and they ran off with it (stealing it),...

6 Aug 10

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do you want to be rich or comfortable?.............

Linda4ualways @Linda4ualways (2282) • United States 6 Aug 10

They say that no question is a silly one right so I was wondering, which would you prefer? I myself would prefer to be comfortable. It says in the Bible that it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a...

the love of money

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ashantiadj I'd rather be rich. There is only so much miscomfort I could have when I could purchase anything I needed to be comfortable. As far as the camel saying, I figure I'll take my chances, because people without money can go to hell. If I suffer eternal damnation,...

6 Aug 10

Who Hacked Facebook????

danishcanadian @danishcanadian (28955) • Canada 5 Aug 10

Something really effing weird is going on with Facebook today. One of my best friends, a humourous but serious man,appeared to post something on my wall today, some ad for a free ipad, or something I thought it was totally weird,...

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ashantiadj That's interesting. I thought those random ads were only sent by those whose accounts went unused for a long time. Now even I have something to worry about. I've never had the password problem, then again I change it regularly anyways because my friends are...

6 Aug 10

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Older women with younger men -- yay or nay?

moonchild117 @moonchild117 (1987) • Philippines 6 Aug 10

Guys, are you okay with dating older women? And girls, is it okay for you to date a younger man? And I'm not just talking about a year older or younger. Like, 5 years and beyond. My sister's 32 and she seems to be playing sweet...

dating

older women

younger men

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ashantiadj I personally do not like to date younger men, but I do not have a problem with it. I don't have a problem with anyone else doing it either. I think the possibility of love decreases when you set up limitations of who you're willing to give a chance, whether...

6 Aug 10

Are Gadgets Taking Over Our Lives??

jurseygurl @jurseygurl (22) • United States 5 Aug 10

Really, are gadgets taking over our lives? The other day I was driving to the grocery store and I was at a stop light so I was looking around enjoying the beautiful day. As I looked around I noticed not everyone was looking up and...

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ashantiadj I think that gadgets are taking over our lives. For some people, their phones are their lives. Always talking, texting, surfing the net, listening to music, playing games.. it is getting very dangerous (texting and driving). Unfortunately, I do not think there...

6 Aug 10

Do you think you have someone who CARES for YOU alot???

thepankajnegi @thepankajnegi (492) • India 5 Aug 10

Hi mylotters..do you ahve someone who can do anything for you and love you like mad...it may be you father , mother , brother sister or any relative ..may be your lover..do they make you feel special ...and how much love you...

friends

life

love

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ashantiadj I care for me a lot. I care for myself more than I could care for anyone else, and no one could care about me as much as I can. Of course, God is the exception, but there is no human that is an exception. Maybe one day there will be. But for now, no.

5 Aug 10

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Please, I need help...

spazz435 @spazz435 (322) • United States 5 Aug 10

Okay, so my story is is that a year and a half after I was born, my biological father left my mother for another woman. So, today is my seventeenth birthday, and who is it that is the last person I find out to have wished me a...

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ashantiadj I think that you should talk to your father, at least once. Why? Simply so that you never regret not doing it, and you never have to ask "What if..?" If after that first conversation you feel like he doesn't deserve to be in your life or anything like that,...

5 Aug 10

It finally happened.

2004cqui @2004cqui (2812) • United States 5 Aug 10

My 20 and 25 year old sons became slugs. They cannot pay the measly amount we ask every month and refuse to lift a finger in our home. "I don't have time." Ya, but they can go on trips and to the amusement park? I threw them...

parenthood

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ashantiadj I do not have a clue what sort of legal action they could take. I hate to hear that they act this way, but perhaps being kicked out is what they need. With no one to support them, they will be forced to support themselves and become more responsible and...

5 Aug 10

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Do you watch Reality Tv programs?

ctrymuziklvr @ctrymuziklvr (11057) • United States 5 Aug 10

I have to admit I'm just about addicted to Reality TV but my favorite was the Bachelorette with Ally and I'm so happy she chose Roberto. For a couple of minutes at the end when he was on his way to meet her for the last ceremony...

bachelorette

reality tv

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ashantiadj I watch reality television shows. I know that ones I watch are of little intelligence or substance, but I tune in anyways. I used to watch the Real World. I don't really care for cooking reality shows but I am a fan of Hell's Kitchen. I used to love watching...

5 Aug 10

Am I Being Morbid

lilkitty15 @lilkitty15 (115) 4 Aug 10

I mentioned to a friend the other day that I had written a list of things I wanted to do/achieve in my lifetime (so effectively before I die). She told me not to think like that and that it was a horrible idea. I personally didn't...

before i die

list

morbid

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ashantiadj That's not morbid at all. That's normal, to me, anyways. People regularly set goals, the only difference is instead of a certain date, your deadline is simply before you die. How is that planning your death, when you have no clue when you will die? I don't...

5 Aug 10

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is it really worthful to give your time on internet for earning

rahularya @rahularya (65) • India 10 Feb 10

i usually give 2-3 hours daily on internet for to earn some money..do u feel its worthful.and also if you have any good site where i can earn some good amount then please tell me.

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ashantiadj i honestly don't mind. Before, I was doing everything on the internet for free. Searching and earning? Veiwing ads that I'd see on any other website? Getting money back for trial offers? I think it's worth it.

4 Aug 10

I hate it when watching a movie with family and there is a hot scene.

smilepleeeaz @smilepleeeaz (784) • India 3 Aug 10

I dont know whether it happened with you ever or not, but this thing irritates me a lot. So many times when i am watching some movie with my younger bro or parents sometimes, some hot scene comes and I feel really embarrassed...

watching movies with family

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ashantiadj My family doesn't really make a big deal out of it, at least as far as I can tell. If a hot scene comes along, we just keep watching as if were any other part of the movie. I think it's because we feel that if we make a big deal out of it, the younger children...

4 Aug 10

Anti Virus Protection Programs

irishmist @irishmist (3814) • United States 3 Aug 10

Yesterday I got a nasty virus or trojan in my laptop, and it was disguising itself as windows security alerts. I would not let me do anything, I could not even restore or check to see where it was hiding. I finally got fed up and...

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ashantiadj I have heard good things about Avast but never got them myself, though I should because my current AntiVirus has expired and I don't really feel like paying for it again if I don't have to. Just thought I'd but this out there.. http://www.geekpolice.net/...

4 Aug 10

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Disabled Children

nightrose1981 @nightrose1981 (40) • United States 3 Aug 10

I was just wondering how many of us there are that have taken our children out to the store and have had someone try to tell you how to disipline your child when they know nothing about the situation? I have an Autistic child with...

children

disabilities

life

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ashantiadj I know EXACTLY how you feel. I have a younger brother with sever autism, and he is prone to jumping around and screaming in excitement at random times, or randomly make loud noises, which is especially troubling while at church or places like the library....

4 Aug 10