ayu_asks

@ayu_asks (104)

United States • Age 48

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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do you compete with other mylotters?

cefaz_21 @cefaz_21 (2596) • Philippines 12 Sep 07

In terms of number of posts? do you feel more challenged if you feel like you are competing? I have this one friend who is way ahead of me in number of posts and I try to challenge myself and say..hey! you can surpass him..but...

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ayu_asks ehm tats too pressurizing... it would be great if I have lots of posting but if I dont, its ok too! he he heee... .. cheers.. .. myhandbaghaven.blogspot.com

13 Sep 07

Do you believe your parents should be your friends.

CSHINE @SHAMRACK (8576) • India 13 Sep 07

I do hope to extend parents should be like friends as friends do have barriers still we have to give our parents the respect and other diginities different from friends. May be it all depends the better side of family. As more...

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ayu_asks to a certain extend, it would be great if the parent can be like a friend. However there are certain aspects that parents should be the parent and not a friend ~ like setting guidelines.. and giving a good example.... cheers .... myhandbaghaven.blogspot.com

13 Sep 07

What quality do you admire most in people

CSHINE @SHAMRACK (8576) • India 13 Sep 07

We all like and admire when we receive some qualities from others. There are many qualities which lack that gives a dislike to others. Still we all do like certain qualities of people like non smoker, non drinker, good in studies,...

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ayu_asks I like people who are sensitive and can empathize with you and put themselves in your shoes... cheers.. myhandbaghaven.blogspot.com

13 Sep 07

Random acts of kindness.

jillhill @jillhill (37354) • United States 13 Sep 07

As you walk through your day have you done a little ramdom act of kindness lately? Have you held a door for someone or help them when they dropped something or anything like that? Today I held the door for an older couple. She had...

elderly

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ayu_asks I have not done anything, because I've been feeling low past few days..... rgds... myhandbaghaven.blogspot.com

13 Sep 07

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Blog geared towards women...

gmakesmoney @gmakesmoney (2923) • United States 13 Sep 07

I've created a new blog that is called The Curvalicious Movement that is geared towards empowering women to love their bodies and embrace their natural curves. It's brand new but will soon feature fashion for fuller women,...

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ayu_asks Nice webbie, altho some of the buttons I can't see... cheers.. myhandbaghaven.blogspot.com

13 Sep 07

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What is one of your favourite places to eat outside the home?

Amy @artemis432 (7474) • Abernathy, Texas 12 Sep 07

What is your favourite place to eat - this can be a relatives, a favourite picnic place or a restaruant. Please describe it and tell me why its your favourite. I personally love picnics - especially by midnight - anywhere with...

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ayu_asks My favorite food has always been KFC. In general i like to eat out bcoz it saves me the hassle of cuttint/peeling/washing/cooking/washing again. My favorite meal is take-out KFC and have it at home in the comfort of my home... heee.... cheers......

13 Sep 07

Is getting another cat the best way to forget the pain of your cats loss .

zabawaus @zabawaus (1730) • United States 13 Sep 07

Every time when i lost one of my cats i feel like i lost one of my best friends or someone from family. Now i have 3 cats and one of them is already 6 years old. He is my sweetheart and i can't imagine what will i do if something...

cats

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ayu_asks It may or it may not. After the passing, would be better to have some calming period to grieve, and after that, should you feel you can manage another pet ~ then yes please do... cheers.. myhandbaghaven.blogspot.com

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What is your favourite time of day and why?

Amy @artemis432 (7474) • Abernathy, Texas 12 Sep 07

What is your favourite part of the day - and is it the same as when you were a small child? Why is it your favourite? I no longer have a favourite I don't think, not right now. I still feel more myself at night, I can think more...

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night owls

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ayu_asks I guess that changes as I grow older he he he.. when i was working I used to look forward to weekend (any time of the weekend) as I do not have to think about work. Now that I am not working, I am looking forward to weekday between 9am to 12noon coz tats when...

13 Sep 07

Marriage regrets

matt24 @matt24 (25) • Philippines 12 Sep 07

Often times when my spose and I fight which is typical between husbands and wives, I ask myself if I regret marrying him. I feel regret alright, but its not the choice to marry him. I guess its just regrets that I couldnt please...

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ayu_asks yeah i do have the same kind of argument with my hubby more often than not. Deep down I know he's the best for me; and sometimes I forgot to be grateful of what I have. However in marriages these kind of thoughts are NORMAL and I believe things always turn out...

13 Sep 07

Buying something new and washing it.

jillhill @jillhill (37354) • United States 12 Sep 07

When you buy something new like towels, sheets or clothing, do you wash them before you wear or use them? My friend will not use anything before she washes it.....I on the other hand do wash somethings but others like rugs and...

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ayu_asks yeah like u, sometimes i wash it, sometimes I dont. depending on how the item looks like when I want to use it he h ehee.... cheers. .... myhandbaghaven.blogspot.com

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What is your hobby and why you choose that?

gr8life @gr8life (6251) • Malaysia 12 Sep 07

Hi friends, I think most of us have something that we love to do. As for me, I love shopping so much that I can't live a day without visiting the shopping mall. A day without shopping feels like incomplete for me. I have a...

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ayu_asks yeah! i love shopping too! Previously when I was working, I shopped less bcoz I had less time to shop. Now that i am a housewife, I ended up spending more in shopping ; and I can say my hubby is not very excited about it.... hee heee......

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I'll rephrase, Do you care that a company only makes half their allowed profit?

LCecelia @LCecelia (1124) • United States 12 Sep 07

I live in North Texas and there is a natural gas utility company here whose CEO was quoted in the Tuesday local newspaper as saying and I quote, "...it earned half of its allowed rate of return," and because of that they "intend...

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ayu_asks sad to say, that is how the major corporation does their business... unless I make more money than them... guess nothing much I can do to change their action... regards .. myhandbaghaven.blogspot.com

12 Sep 07

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Pressureing a Friend's Boyfriend to Propose.....is it Immoral?

Nykkee @Nykkee (2522) • Canada 10 Sep 07

My friend recently had a baby with a man that she lives with but that she is not yet engaged or married to. I worry about her because I know if he ever left it would completely break her heart. This is her second child and the...

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ayu_asks I can see that you really care for your friend and you really want for her wish to come true. Actually I would agree that you do something abt it, but NOT sending a bunch of flowers & ring etc to their house so he'll get the hint. no no no... I think you...

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Do you post a picture every time you respond to a discussion?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 10 Sep 07

This question is both for My Lot members that respond to discussions and those that start them. When you are responding to your own discussions or someone else's, do you always upload a picture with each response? Personally,...

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ayu_asks No I dont. That is because I do not know how to upload a picture on discussion... cheers... myhandbaghaven.blogspot.com

11 Sep 07

I must be beyond gullible! Part 1

Katlady2 @Katlady2 (9904) • United States 10 Sep 07

Over the last few months, I have begun to question my ability to judge whether people are worth having as friends. This one friend of mine (for those of you who've known me for a while, it's the one that went to the comedy show...

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ayu_asks Good friends are really hard to come by. My really2 best friends are only just a handful. But you know in your heart who they are. And everyday, [in fact just yesterday] I discover friends who just would like to make use of you for their own advantage... I try...

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Do women spend more money than men?

joshua_w @joshua_w (501) • Malaysia 11 Sep 07

Just had a thought here. Money. We may argue that it may not be the most important thing and yet it's still a very important part of our lives. We need air, we need food and water, we need love. Yes, but we still need money to...

amplifiers

life

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ayu_asks hee heee.. i think women spend more [number of items] but cheaper price. Men spend less often but their average purchase amount is higher than women... he he he... however! men spends on women more than women spend on men ~ so i think men spends more! he he...

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