bamakelly

@bamakelly (5191)

United States • Age 56

Joined myLot 16 years ago

Live and let live

Discussions (495)

bamakelly's Discussions

This controversy of the Miss California and gay marriage....

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 13 Jun 09

I have heard about this controversy back when it started and first I ignored it. When I later starting getting the idea of what it was all about the first question that came to my mind was why?! Why did they have to ask a...

controversy

upset over pageant

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Someone else scolding your child

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 12 Jun 09

How would you feel about someone else disciplining your child without your approval? Have you ever been in a position where someone else took over the reigns for you an you weren't happy about it. I might not be able to handle...

child

pulling in the reigns

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Misbehaving children in public

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 12 Jun 09

I was wondering what your take is on how to subdue children that are misbehaving in public. Say in a store, outside or otherwise. Have you ever had an incident where you needed to take your child out of the store for a while...

disciplining child

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4 people

Still looking for new friends?

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 9 Jun 09

I have a question pertaining to how you decide if you are going to look for new friends. Do you ever have friends that have been there for a while but then you decide that it is time for some new ones? Would you ever ditch the...

new ones

old friends

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2 people

Sustaining a pet's life

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 8 Jun 09

I have a question pertaining to sustaining a pet's life that is at an elderly or feeble age and is not doing well physically. I do not personally have this problem in my life however I know there are those that will go to great...

sustaining

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To not live poorly

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 8 Jun 09

I have always believed in the idea that there is no shame in being poor only in behaving poorly. With this concept I have found over the years that while not having a lot of money or in some cases where some are destitute, you...

esteem

not to live poorly

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Anyone know of a legitimate customer service position?

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 8 Jun 09

I am a stay at home mother and I am on the computer when I can trying to earn some extra money. So far myLot has proven itself time and again and they are trustworthy with paying me into my account. Of course I am usually...

customer service

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1 person

Where are you in five years?

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 6 Jun 09

I was interested to know where you think you might be or what you might be doing in five years. Do you think that you will still be living the life that you are living in five years? And if you will be then will you be satisfied...

five years

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Forgetting the hurtful feelings

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 4 Jun 09

Have you ever had a good friend that you were close to but you weren't really able to confide in them about too much for fear of being judged? How do you deal with a good friend that spends time with you and seems to appreciate...

friend

sharing

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Whatever gets you through the day

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 4 Jun 09

I was posing this question to get an idea of how you get through your day when you have worries or challenges to deal with. Whatever the struggles we have I believe that we need to count our blessings. I usually have some...

blessings

worries

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4 people

Any relationship can be normal?

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 3 Jun 09

I realize that there is controversy these days over homosexual relationships and the fact that gay marriages are becoming legalized. This is a subject that has been up for some argument for some time now. I am just trying to...

acceptance

marriage

relationship maturity

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Proud to be a member of myLot

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 2 Jun 09

I had raised a question not so long ago here pertaining to myLot being viewed as a type of part time job. I seemed to receive quite a bit of replies in regards to it. Some of you had admitted that it does seem like a part time...

proud worker

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7 people

A paragraph of your autobiography

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 2 Jun 09

I was wondering if you were able to summarize your life at this point into one paragraph how do you think that you are seeing things? Do you wish that there were things you could change or wish you could go back in time so as to...

autobiographical writing

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Your insight from reading self help books

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 2 Jun 09

I have dabbled with some self help books in my time and over the years I have come away pretty much inspired. I usually like to choose these types of books because of the experiences in my life time. I am in my early forties...

books

inspired

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How long are your visits to your friends?

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 1 Jun 09

I was wondering if you usually have a set amount time put aside to visiting certain friends that you have. Do you feel that there is a certain time frame that should be allowed for a friendly visit? In other words do you ever...

friends

visits

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A wife's sense of entitlement

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 1 Jun 09

I have a question to the wives out there although it could include husbands if they can relate to this. I feel that a wife should have an entitlement of being taken care of by her husband to some degree. I can understand that...

entitlement

wives

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Wanting to speak your mind?

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 29 May 09

I feel that it is only human to have a time in your life where it is at the point to speak your mind. I am forty one years old however but I still don't have the assertiveness to come out and say what I really think. After all,...

mind

speak

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Being happy is a state of mind?

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 28 May 09

I was wondering how many of you members here truly believe that being happy is a state of mind. In other words do you try hard to achieve happiness through materialistic ways or just by being spiritual and counting your...

maintaining happiness

mind

people

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4 people

What is the one morning chore that irks you most?

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 27 May 09

I was wondering to all of you out there that are housewives or even if you are a person that works outside of the home. If you happen to be the main care taker of the house I was wondering which daily chore is it that you have...

daily routine

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Enjoying snacks with coffee

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 22 May 09

Are you the type of person that likes to have something like a snack along with your coffee or do you just wake up in the morning and just want to drink a cup and that is all? There are some days when I am happy to just drink a...

cakes

coffee

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6 people