baylvr

@baylvr (25)

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the pain of loving someone who wont love you back

adversitycity @adversitycity (90) • Philippines 22 Dec 06

Isnt it so painful when you know that the one you are loving is just so many miles away from you. He seems so near yet unreachable. how would you bear the idea? it just hurts so much. you can do nothing but wonder why, ask...

love

society and culture

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baylvr I'm going through it right now as well. The one I love... and who professes to love me, divorced two years ago... then turned around and went back to the ex! He's been in and out of that house over and over again... yet each time he goes back! We'll stop...

6 Jan 07

Would you date a married man?

iqalburn @iqalburn (147) • United States 22 Oct 06

One of co-worker which is married has been asking me out, he says his marriage is on the rocks, but he is still married. I like him but I don't want to be a home wrecker.

dating married men

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baylvr DON'T DO IT!! I've dated a married / divorced man for 3 1/2 years of my life. It was the most miserable time of my life! Married men are after whatever is missing at home. No matter how much they tell you they love you... they never leave to actually be...

6 Jan 07

Ghost !! Spirit!!does it exist in real world?Please share your experiences

crimsonrose @crimsonrose (147) • Bangladesh 5 Jan 07

Ghost! A word of surprise,horror and thrill to me since my childhood. But still I am at the same conclusion as I was before in my childhood. Are scientists able to give a reasonable explanation of ghost or spirit... Ghost stories...

ghost

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baylvr I love this thread! I have a personal experience! The house I presently live in has a "spirit" un-living in it! The guy died from an overdose inside this house... to my understanding it was in the bathroom, which is in the center of the house...

6 Jan 07

What causes people to over-analyze situations and how many people do it?

sarahbeth1977 @sarahbeth1977 (384) • United States 5 Jan 07

I'm an over-analyzer. It never fails that I am constantly thinking over situations, trying to figure out the possible outcomes. I have often speculated that it's because I don't want to get hurt, or I want to make sure I'm...

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baylvr I do the same thing! I love this thread! I've been accused of being the only person someone knows that does this! I guess that's why self-help groups are so successful is that you find others who do the same thing you do... so you don't feel so weird about...

6 Jan 07

Indians smell bad?!

akosi63 @akosi63 (331) • Philippines 6 Jan 07

Is it true that Indians smell awful? I'm not heating an argument here but I've read that most Indians smells really bad. They say it has something to do with what they eat. In the university I attended, I had an Indian schoolmate,...

indian

onion

smell

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baylvr EVERY Indian I've ever encountered smells! I don't think it's from their food, the smell I'm catching comes from the lack of deodorant. This doesn't make them bad people... they just have different personal hygeine ideas. I will agree these are some of...

6 Jan 07

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Is Domestic Violence a Learned Behavior?

Deane_2005 @Deane_2005 (1644) • Philippines 5 Jan 07

According to Catholic Charities "Domestic Violence defines as any kind of behavior that a person uses to control an intimate partner."(Catholic Charities) It occurs in every community and Pyschological research identified that...

domestic violence

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baylvr I firmly believe in the phrase "we teach people how to treat us"... so I also believe that abuse of any kind is a learned act. Wether it's something one sees going on in the home as a child, or wether it's pushing someone's buttons to see what response one...

6 Jan 07

I want the divorce but feel immobilized...

splendor777 @splendor777 (1) 29 May 06

I have been separated for a year from my physically and verbally abusive husband. He has confessed to me that he has fathered a child outside of our marriage and that the child is now five years old. We have been married for...

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baylvr If you're "separated"... STAY that way! Since it's been a year and you're questioning if you should divorce or not, I have to assume you're still having some sort of contact with this man... STOPPIT! The only way you'll heal from the horrible things this man...

6 Jan 07

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Cheating and Marriage

LadyWhiteheart @LadyWhiteheart (111) • United States 5 Jan 07

I noticed this is a very common topic of discussion. I myself am in a situation where I am married but seperated due to circumstances I had no control over. My husband has been seeing a girl he works with and has asked him to...

marriage and cheating

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baylvr What a kind spirit you are! The sad thing is you are allowing this to happen. We teach people how to treat us. If you're allowing him to come and spend time with you with a blatant knowledge he's seeing another woman... YOU are sending the message to him...

6 Jan 07

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What do you think?

Thoroughrob @Thoroughrob (11742) • United States 5 Jan 07

I stopped in at school to pick up my older child for a Dr. appt.. I decided to go a little early and check in on my son that has CP. He is nonverbal and in a wheelchair. When I get there, I meet an aide in the hallway. I...

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baylvr First of all if it's a public school you can go in at any time! The principal knows this and obviously was just being a coward. Your next step is the school board or whoever is the administration for the school! Do NOT stop until an offcial step is taken...

6 Jan 07

I am urging for an app for this forum

Yup.Han @YupHan (67) • Chengdu, China 15 Oct 15

Surfing this site with mobile is so inconvenient ,I have suffered from it for weeks.If there ia an app,at least a mobile friendly webpage ,this forum would be better!

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baylvr Surfing this site with mobile is so inconvenient ,I have suffered from it for weeks.If there ia an app,at least a mobile friendly webpage ,this forum would be better!

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Should Big Beautiful Women Avoid the Beach?

ElusiveButterfly @ElusiveButterfly (45940) • United States 30 Dec 06

It gets my dander up when I hear women who are BBW's say that they would never put on a swimsuit and go to the beach or a lake. Why? I ask these questions to those who state this: Do you like to go to the beach or lake? Do you...

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baylvr Thank God for women like you! I too am a big girl and I do struggle with how I look in a bathing suit! But thanks to your post and your inspiration... I think I'll jump out there and wear that swimsuit this coming summer! No! We should NOT avoid the...

1 Jan 07

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What do u think abt the word 'GOD'

foxbrain @foxbrain (203) • India 31 Dec 06

I Believe in him but as a faith, I m not devoted any religion but i have faith in me that keeps me running. What makes I believe ppl are gods, those ppl who care for other, share their supper even when they have very few left...

god religion athesim

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baylvr I do believe in God and attend a Charismatic church regularly. People are not Gods as the Bible says "put no other Gods before me". Sharing ones meal is what the Bible asks of us. Sharing a meal with others is just one way of ensuring God's Blessings on...

1 Jan 07

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