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LadyWhiteheart @LadyWhiteheart (111) • United States 5 Jan 07

I noticed this is a very common topic of discussion. I myself am in a situation where I am married but seperated due to circumstances I had no control over. My husband has been seeing a girl he works with and has asked him to...

marriage and cheating

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baylvr I'm not saying sleep with other men. I'm saying completely turn your back on him until he proves he's worthy of you. You're still giving him all your love and support... yet at the same time sending him a message that this is a situation you will tolerate....

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adversitycity @adversitycity (90) • Philippines 22 Dec 06

Isnt it so painful when you know that the one you are loving is just so many miles away from you. He seems so near yet unreachable. how would you bear the idea? it just hurts so much. you can do nothing but wonder why, ask...

love

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baylvr I'm going through it right now as well. The one I love... and who professes to love me, divorced two years ago... then turned around and went back to the ex! He's been in and out of that house over and over again... yet each time he goes back! We'll stop...

6 Jan 07

iqalburn @iqalburn (147) • United States 22 Oct 06

One of co-worker which is married has been asking me out, he says his marriage is on the rocks, but he is still married. I like him but I don't want to be a home wrecker.

dating married men

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baylvr DON'T DO IT!! I've dated a married / divorced man for 3 1/2 years of my life. It was the most miserable time of my life! Married men are after whatever is missing at home. No matter how much they tell you they love you... they never leave to actually be...

6 Jan 07

crimsonrose @crimsonrose (147) • Bangladesh 5 Jan 07

Ghost! A word of surprise,horror and thrill to me since my childhood. But still I am at the same conclusion as I was before in my childhood. Are scientists able to give a reasonable explanation of ghost or spirit... Ghost stories...

ghost

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baylvr This is the best explanation of the Christian belief on ghosts I've ever seen! I'm a NEW Christian and just don't understand the view on ghosts... now I do! Thank you!

6 Jan 07

crimsonrose @crimsonrose (147) • Bangladesh 5 Jan 07

Ghost! A word of surprise,horror and thrill to me since my childhood. But still I am at the same conclusion as I was before in my childhood. Are scientists able to give a reasonable explanation of ghost or spirit... Ghost stories...

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baylvr Fantastic comment! This all has me wanting to get on the net and read more about it!

6 Jan 07

crimsonrose @crimsonrose (147) • Bangladesh 5 Jan 07

Ghost! A word of surprise,horror and thrill to me since my childhood. But still I am at the same conclusion as I was before in my childhood. Are scientists able to give a reasonable explanation of ghost or spirit... Ghost stories...

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baylvr I too have read alot on the internet about them... it's very exciting! But can also be very spooky! A friend of mine and I used to go "hunting" and take pics. The internet says that churches are some of the most haunted places on earth. I believe that...

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crimsonrose @crimsonrose (147) • Bangladesh 5 Jan 07

Ghost! A word of surprise,horror and thrill to me since my childhood. But still I am at the same conclusion as I was before in my childhood. Are scientists able to give a reasonable explanation of ghost or spirit... Ghost stories...

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baylvr I love this thread! I have a personal experience! The house I presently live in has a "spirit" un-living in it! The guy died from an overdose inside this house... to my understanding it was in the bathroom, which is in the center of the house...

6 Jan 07

sarahbeth1977 @sarahbeth1977 (384) • United States 5 Jan 07

I'm an over-analyzer. It never fails that I am constantly thinking over situations, trying to figure out the possible outcomes. I have often speculated that it's because I don't want to get hurt, or I want to make sure I'm...

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baylvr I do the same thing! I love this thread! I've been accused of being the only person someone knows that does this! I guess that's why self-help groups are so successful is that you find others who do the same thing you do... so you don't feel so weird about...

6 Jan 07

akosi63 @akosi63 (331) • Philippines 6 Jan 07

Is it true that Indians smell awful? I'm not heating an argument here but I've read that most Indians smells really bad. They say it has something to do with what they eat. In the university I attended, I had an Indian schoolmate,...

indian

onion

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baylvr EVERY Indian I've ever encountered smells! I don't think it's from their food, the smell I'm catching comes from the lack of deodorant. This doesn't make them bad people... they just have different personal hygeine ideas. I will agree these are some of...

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Deane_2005 @Deane_2005 (1644) • Philippines 5 Jan 07

According to Catholic Charities "Domestic Violence defines as any kind of behavior that a person uses to control an intimate partner."(Catholic Charities) It occurs in every community and Pyschological research identified that...

domestic violence

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baylvr I firmly believe in the phrase "we teach people how to treat us"... so I also believe that abuse of any kind is a learned act. Wether it's something one sees going on in the home as a child, or wether it's pushing someone's buttons to see what response one...

6 Jan 07

splendor777 @splendor777 (1) 29 May 06

I have been separated for a year from my physically and verbally abusive husband. He has confessed to me that he has fathered a child outside of our marriage and that the child is now five years old. We have been married for...

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baylvr If you're "separated"... STAY that way! Since it's been a year and you're questioning if you should divorce or not, I have to assume you're still having some sort of contact with this man... STOPPIT! The only way you'll heal from the horrible things this man...

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LadyWhiteheart @LadyWhiteheart (111) • United States 5 Jan 07

I noticed this is a very common topic of discussion. I myself am in a situation where I am married but seperated due to circumstances I had no control over. My husband has been seeing a girl he works with and has asked him to...

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baylvr What a kind spirit you are! The sad thing is you are allowing this to happen. We teach people how to treat us. If you're allowing him to come and spend time with you with a blatant knowledge he's seeing another woman... YOU are sending the message to him...

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Thoroughrob @Thoroughrob (11742) • United States 5 Jan 07

I stopped in at school to pick up my older child for a Dr. appt.. I decided to go a little early and check in on my son that has CP. He is nonverbal and in a wheelchair. When I get there, I meet an aide in the hallway. I...

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baylvr First of all if it's a public school you can go in at any time! The principal knows this and obviously was just being a coward. Your next step is the school board or whoever is the administration for the school! Do NOT stop until an offcial step is taken...

6 Jan 07

foxbrain @foxbrain (203) • India 31 Dec 06

I Believe in him but as a faith, I m not devoted any religion but i have faith in me that keeps me running. What makes I believe ppl are gods, those ppl who care for other, share their supper even when they have very few left...

god religion athesim

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baylvr Yes you misinterpreted the line... what the line means is how can you please God if you don't even believe in him? That's where the Faith comes in... for without Faith in God, what are you seeking? You can dance around doing good deeds... but if you don't...

2 Jan 07

Yup.Han @YupHan (67) • Chengdu, China 15 Oct 15

Surfing this site with mobile is so inconvenient ,I have suffered from it for weeks.If there ia an app,at least a mobile friendly webpage ,this forum would be better!

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baylvr Surfing this site with mobile is so inconvenient ,I have suffered from it for weeks.If there ia an app,at least a mobile friendly webpage ,this forum would be better!

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foxbrain @foxbrain (203) • India 31 Dec 06

I Believe in him but as a faith, I m not devoted any religion but i have faith in me that keeps me running. What makes I believe ppl are gods, those ppl who care for other, share their supper even when they have very few left...

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baylvr You certainly can use God as a crutch... if you're crippled! You're absolutely right too about there needing to be more love and kindness... these are also concepts straight from the Bible. Christians believe there are many paths to choose in life... as God...

1 Jan 07

foxbrain @foxbrain (203) • India 31 Dec 06

I Believe in him but as a faith, I m not devoted any religion but i have faith in me that keeps me running. What makes I believe ppl are gods, those ppl who care for other, share their supper even when they have very few left...

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baylvr Foxbrain... your misinterpretation of what was printed is exactly why so many turn from God. This is exactly why people need to find a good Bible based church and hear the Word preached by those who have attended seminary and special classes and who are...

1 Jan 07

foxbrain @foxbrain (203) • India 31 Dec 06

I Believe in him but as a faith, I m not devoted any religion but i have faith in me that keeps me running. What makes I believe ppl are gods, those ppl who care for other, share their supper even when they have very few left...

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baylvr beautifully said!!

1 Jan 07

foxbrain @foxbrain (203) • India 31 Dec 06

I Believe in him but as a faith, I m not devoted any religion but i have faith in me that keeps me running. What makes I believe ppl are gods, those ppl who care for other, share their supper even when they have very few left...

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baylvr So when someone says, "I love you" to you... if they can't put something tangible in your hand, you blow them off as lying to you? Or do you have "faith" that what they say is true without having to SEE it? We live by Faith, not by sight...

1 Jan 07

foxbrain @foxbrain (203) • India 31 Dec 06

I Believe in him but as a faith, I m not devoted any religion but i have faith in me that keeps me running. What makes I believe ppl are gods, those ppl who care for other, share their supper even when they have very few left...

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baylvr God IS perfection. He made us in His image. There are no mistakes made on God's part. You need to keep in mind, God never fails, our "gift" of free will allows "the destroyer" the Devil to step in and "kill, steal and destroy". When we turn from God, he...

1 Jan 07

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