beabenitez

@beabenitez (153)

Philippines • Age 64

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Cause of breakup with boyfriend published in Facebook

dorisday1971 @dorisday1971 (5657) • Philippines 24 Jan 10

I have a friend who recently broke up with her boyfriend(or should I say was left behind by her boyfriend). This may not be none of my business but since she published the breakup issue in Facebook, I came to know...

facebook

relationship

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beabenitez it depends on the content how she publish it, i guess.if it is too personal and there is someone who is inflicted by negative words and criticisms i guess that is not right..but if she tells it in a nice way and others will be benefited by it i guess that...

25 Jan 10

Do you hate public areas?

Chrissy @Java09 (3075) • United States 21 Jan 10

Do you hate going a bus,touching public door knobs?I hate public things because they carry so much germs!what about you?what do you not like about public.It is gross to see gum on the sidewalk,people spit on it,and walk on the...

dirt knobs

germs

yuck

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beabenitez i do not hate those things or those areas. but i am aware that is the dirtiest place that we could be or we could hold on...so if i can i avoid using such facilities like public toilets, holding public stairs or door knobs i really do so (especially i do not...

22 Jan 10

Am having trust issues?

megaplaza @megaplaza (1441) • Nigeria 21 Jan 10

Everyday people wants me to trust them but i hardly do. This is something am afraid of because people can be green snake in a green grass, i know sooner or later i need to start trusting. Maybe this has to do with my childhood,...

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beabenitez i do trust people but only into some extent initially. i give them the benefit of the doubt if i can trust them. that way i will avoid judging people that they are capable of doing such things that eventually lead to distrusting. in due time that i fully know...

22 Jan 10

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How often do you think about death?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 21 Jan 10

My mom don't want to talk about death, because she has this kind of thinking that when you talk about death, it might come and happen to you at that moment. So she forbid us to talk about it. But I don't see it that way, there's...

come

death

talk

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beabenitez yeah rarely caregarden... sometimes it sounds creepy but the truth is we are all going there...so its not bad talking about it. at least we can prepare are loved ones what to do in our coprse and our will. seriously by going deep if we are prepared, the soul...

22 Jan 10

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A Little Personal Story Of My Life Right Now.

Hanan_x3 @Hanan_x3 (294) • United States 20 Jan 10

I guess I need somewhere to type this. I just want to write down the story of my life. I can't tell anyone this so I'm just going to post it here in front of all the myloters. It all began when I started learning about the...

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beabenitez in this life u can do all u want in a proper perspective and in a proper time...prepare for the future that u want while u are still with your parents but right now follow them because you are still not on your own. you are right, education is the best tool so...

21 Jan 10

Taking care of our eyes...

donsky14 @donsky14 (5947) • Philippines 20 Jan 10

Hey guys, just curious...what do you guys do to take care of your eyes? I think my eyes are getting blurry from too much computer and cross stitch. I can't really avoid not being in front of the computer, cause my job requires...

eyesight

health

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beabenitez donsky i am a reflexology graduate though i do not practice it professionally... so i know some basic massage that i can share with you. we have some reflex point around our eyes, from above the eyes to the eyebrows, below the eyes until the cheekbone area...

21 Jan 10

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Should I be the first one to make a move?

pentagan12 @pentagan12 (757) • Philippines 21 Jan 10

This is really a question that confuses me right now. Whether to make a move or to stick to my pride. Well let me share with you just a brief story about me and my boyfriend. Every time we have an argument, it's always me who...

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beabenitez self value is always important pentagan. if you value yourself more... then others will value you too. we as a person always know the truth if it is a false pride or it is an integrity we should have in ourselves. analyzed and decide for yourself because it is...

21 Jan 10

Compliment makes life brighter

kathy714 @kathy714 (128) • China 21 Jan 10

I attended a seminar about public relations recently. Compliment is an important way to build good relations with others. We were asked to carry out an experiment wich I would like to share with you. We were given some flower...

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beabenitez yeah true kathy, it helps a lot if it is a sincere compliments u bestow to a person,...it really motivates.in all walks of life, rich, poor, young, old, man, woman really needed encouragement if you want them to maximize their potentials ...no doubts even...

21 Jan 10

What do you think of waterless or no-flush urinals?

cianoy @cianoy (513) • Philippines 9 Jan 10

Are you aware of the environmental benefits? Comment on this article: How Does a Waterless Urinal Work? Piqued by curiosity because I mentioned waterless urinals in a recent post about urine as a fertilizer, I decided to...

environment

urine

water conservation

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beabenitez good post cianoy!!! its very informative, helps me a lot. because i see a lot of them here in our place on nearby roads for emergency peeing of most men. what i felt is that it is so unsanitary since i didnt see any water used in it, now that i know how it...

20 Jan 10

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Beauty Does Matter

gracefuldove @gracefuldove (1668) • Malaysia 14 Jan 10

Don't we feel jealous when we see a Venusian of a beauty/ Tall,beautifully endowed features and a most charming face. They get the best boys. They can pick their jobs. Even in colleges, professors and lecturers drool over them and...

beauty

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beabenitez yes in reality that is happening, but that is only a temporary pass to get what u want, i may say. because if u have beauty without a brain is a clown to be considered for me. at work it really helps u initially, then by using ur brain it will be easy to get...

18 Jan 10

Does sickness hit you harder the older you get?

jakill @jakill (835) 5 Jan 10

I've been banging on about feeling ill all over the holiday period. Actually it all started a week or so before when I began coughing and found that the slightest effort really wore me out. It made my Christmas preparations really...

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beabenitez yeah that is true... that is why when we are older we should encourage ourselves to exercise and to watch what we eat...if we can do without it during younger days..its different now...we should be more cautious if we want to avoid as such.

18 Jan 10

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Do you purchase things from traffic signal?

Sreekala @Sreekala (34312) • India 18 Jan 10

Hi friends, I have been noticing when waiting in a traffic signal for the turn of green, people are busy in selling things like newspaper, magazines, toys, cloths duster, gloves etc. Sometimes they are coming into bus too for...

sales in traffic signal

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beabenitez as for me,i did not buy foods in between traffic signals especially if foods are open or may come out dirty. as much as possible i do not encourage them to sell any items in that short a time...its critical for both parties the seller and the buyer. for the...

18 Jan 10

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I am just back after watching the Solar eclipse today.Its unbelievable.....

Roseo8 @Roseo8 (2947) • India 15 Jan 10

Today I had the good luck and the honour of watching the most spectacular site I have ever seen or ever witnessed...The Solar eclipse of 2010.It was announced well in advance that the eclipse would be visible fully from...

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beabenitez good on u rose, ur lucky to have it in ur place. though i am interested on solar eclipse, i have no time to pay attention to it because i am to busy that time...i know it is a rare phenomenon and u are very lucky indeed.

18 Jan 10

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risking lives/killing people worth it just to have a position in the government?

jazel_juan @jazel_juan (15746) • Philippines 24 Nov 09

For those living in the philippines, you must have heard about the news regarding the massacre in Cotabato..where a clan was killed on their way to file for candidacy and their suspect was their rival, also a clan that was also...

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beabenitez they are psychotic beast!! all people involve in that killing... normal thinking people would never do that...and sadly they occupy space in our government...anyways most of the politicians here in phillipines i supposed, are psychotic!!...look what...

18 Jan 10