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lila0812 @lila0812 (54) • Indonesia 11 Jun 11

Some people do not believe their own capabilities. In order to reach their goals, they need magician assistance. This is happened in almost every countries, especially when people need more power and do not believe in their God....

black magic

god

magic

power

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Bernard9 Nothing is impossible, I haven't seen black magic as such because I believe most magic is sympathetic magic. By sympathetic magic I mean that if you believe something truly, with your whole being then it will come to pass. Obviously, if you try to believe...

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Babygirl1984000mx @Babygirl1984000mx (218) • Canada 17 May 11

When you are completely stressed I mean totally at your breaking point. How do you deal with that? What do you do? I'm asking this because sometimes with 2 kids I get to these points and I normally just cry for a minute and then...

children

lifes lessons

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Bernard9 I have learned to use the 'Four Fold Breathing technique', if you are not sure about this look it up on line. First you need a couple of minutes alone. You breathe in for a count of ten, hold your breath for a count of ten, release for a count of ten and then...

17 May 11

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kaineyb123 @kaineyb123 (38) 15 May 11

i need HELP with a dilema i have here goes at work they have been deliberately sacking people..for NO reason i have overheard management speaking on how to get peopl out of the door the dilema i have is i was asked to help...

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Bernard9 Can you take it directly to the MD?

16 May 11

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eli_berry25 @eli_berry25 (5) 15 May 11

Do the people that appear in our dreams have any meaning behind them. If I dream I'm with my best friends, minus one of them, does that mean I care less about the minus one? If a particular guy keeps reappearing in dreams - is my...

dreams

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Bernard9 I think that dreams, the people you see in them and the situations you see them in are all metaphors for your life. Like the bit about your friend missing in the dream. Could this mean that you are missing something in your life. Perhaps a quality or knack...

16 May 11

jackgone @jackgone (50) • China 14 May 11

Rose is one of my best friends.when she was at college i have been at work.so it is easy to know I can earn money but she can not.so she borrowed $300 from me the other day.She told to me that she has problem in living as she has...

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Bernard9 I was just commenting on another discussion here more or less about the same sort of problem. The question you have to ask yourself is:- Is your friendship more important than the money? The money you had spare at the time and you did not miss it. I...

15 May 11

tigeraunt @tigeraunt (6326) • Philippines 14 May 11

hello mylotters, i was reading and i came to read an article about finding your late-in-life love. i was thinking, what are the odds? while conventional wisdom would have you believe that love or lust only happens to younger...

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Bernard9 I will forgo the penny:-) I think the big problem here is that when you have lived with someone for a long time and they either divorce or die then there is a mountain to over come. Are you going to feel guilty finding another love? Do you think your...

14 May 11

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Seppy1984 @Seppy1984 (2145) • United States 14 May 11

Hello, everyone I know its been a while since I have been on. But I need some very much needed advice. Well my husband and I have been seperated for a while now. Alot of due to lack of communication and drifting apart. For the...

connection

seperation

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Bernard9 Relationships and marraige are about a commitment to live together. It is hard to leave someone who you love. The thing is, if you get together again are you going to drift back to your old ways or are you going to renew your commitment to work together?...

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hpalm710 @hpalm710 (87) • Philippines 12 May 11

I am known to many to have a strong personality. People would not see me sooo affected with almost everything. I always tell people that life is too short to not stay happy. But most of the times, I keep on telling myself, "Smile,...

be happy

emotion

weakness

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Bernard9 No I do not think it is healthy. The best thing too do with anything like that is to talk it through with a friend. It is only by bringing it out into the open that you realise what it is that is causing the pain and also gain a different perspective on...

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jahernandezrivas @jahernandezrivas (11288) • United States 13 May 11

There are certain things people refer to when it comes to life like certain quotes one of them that sticks in my mind and I have never been able to figure out what people really mean when they say it is " I'm or she or he or are...

life

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Bernard9 Mid life crisis means that you realise that there is a point in your life where you wonder if you have made the right choices in life. It is a point where you feel that if you leave it any longer then it will be too late to change your life, partner. It is...

13 May 11

ludyvel04 @ludyvel04 (311) • Philippines 13 May 11

I've noticed some people getting a hard time with picking their partner in life. Some wants to get married but haven't find the right person for them. Some got their parner but still undecided on getting married. So, when is the...

marriage

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Bernard9 Sorry I forgot to add. You will know when he/she is right and when to get married. Do not worry about it, it will happen when the time is right.

13 May 11

ludyvel04 @ludyvel04 (311) • Philippines 13 May 11

I've noticed some people getting a hard time with picking their partner in life. Some wants to get married but haven't find the right person for them. Some got their parner but still undecided on getting married. So, when is the...

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Bernard9 I do not know about anyone else but I knew when I was ready to get married, I remember going home with one ex and she announced to her parents that we were getting married. I nearly fell through the chair and the floor. She had said nothing to me before...

13 May 11

Sammy224 @Sammy224 (50) • United States 11 May 11

I am not sure were to post this so I will post it here. So I have dreams while I am sleeping like most people but sometimes I can tell if it was a dream or if these things really have happend. Like things from when I was a...

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Bernard9 If you were going crazy then you would not be asking that question :) I remember vivid dreams from my childhood that I am sure were real except when I look at detail within the reality of the dream/reality I am not so sure. I have also experienced taking...

12 May 11

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happycaprice @happycaprice (403) • Philippines 12 May 11

Tomorrow is Friday the 13th. My earnings have recently updated into ?.13 . 13 -- that number! Who said it was an unlucky number anyway?? My friend said that 13 is actually a lucky number. My seat number when I was taking a...

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Bernard9 I think 13 is a lucky number to. My pin number in work is 13 as well. They asked if I wanted to change it and I said I would keep it. I have been there seven years so far without major mishap. What I have come to realise is that we are lucky or unlucky...

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dpk262006 @dpk262006 (58678) • Delhi, India 12 May 11

Hi friends! Here is an old saying – “You cannot afford to lose your temper, if you are wrong and you cannot afford to lose your temper, even if you are right”. Does it mean that we cannot get angry on anything and...

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Bernard9 I think you will find that anger is an irrational response to something. You are locked into one way of thinking and are then unable to think straight, you lose the ability to think rationally. It leads to a no win situation because when you get angry you are...

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megamatt @megamatt (14291) • United States 9 May 11

Last year, I had to get a new computer, because while I could get it fixed, it was like the third or fourth thing that went wrong with it in the past six months. Therefore, I was on the road to spend more money getting it fixed...

fresh machine

new computer

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Bernard9 I should have added it does depend on the cost of repairing the computer. Another point I should have added is not to switch a computer off without shuting it down properly first. This is a major reason why hard drives fail. The arm that reads and writes...

12 May 11

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angelo315 @angelo315 (232) • Philippines 12 May 11

If you will take a look into my posts, there are many typographical errors, lots of wrong grammars and you may consider it uninteresting discussions. I am sorry, I am just a neophyte. My husband encouraged me to join myLot and I...

mylot user

neophyte

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Bernard9 Do not worry about typographical errors and grammar it is nice to get it right and you will learn over time but the important thing is the exchange of ideas. Not only that but the sense of a universal family who have had similar problems or have similar dreams...

12 May 11

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