bongsu

@bongsu (24)

Malaysia • Age 53

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Do You Remember Your First Teddy Bear? Still Have That with You?

wondericequeen @wondericequeen (7876) • Hong Kong 3 Oct 07

*smiles* I wasn't really raised that girly during my childhood and I didn't actually get a Teddy Bear till I was a teenager *laughs*. My mother bought me a white one during Christmas and I was indeed surprised. At that time, I...

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bongsu I still remember my first teddy bear, Teddy Ruxpin. It is an animatronic teddy bear produced in 1985 by Worlds of Wonder. It would move his mouth and eyes as he read stories via a build in audio tape deck at it back.

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Earning Methods By Using Technology

Pammoo Raj Ratan @pammooratan (4668) • India 1 Mar 17

There are several earning methods used by several people. They used their minds for supporting bussiness. And anytime I'd luck favourable them they reach to their desired income. Are you agree?

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bongsu There are several earning methods used by several people. They used their minds for supporting bussiness. And anytime I'd luck favourable them they reach to their desired income. Are you agree?

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Do you let people mentally or emotionally abuse you?

sharone74 @sharone74 (4837) • United States 8 Jan 07

Are you so afraid of hurting someones feelings that you let them hurt yours over and over again because confrontation is not one of yur strong suits. Or because you feel that standing up for yourself is just not worth the effort...

confrontation

emotional abuse

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bongsu I'm not afraid of hurting someones feeling if they repeatedly hurting me. By confront them, this will give a signal you don't like their manner and the way they treat you. Why taking care of other people feeling by hurting your own feeling? There more lot of...

8 Jan 07

Could you live without buying anything new for a year?

ElusiveButterfly @ElusiveButterfly (45942) • United States 8 Jan 07

Yesterday there was a couple being interviewed on a television show. They vowed not to buy anything new. I cannot recall how long they said they would do this. They are reusing items, recycling, and using freecycle programs to...

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bongsu I don't I live without buying anything news. In this world, we need to buy new thing to ensure economy keep on cycling. Furthermore to reuse something, we still need to something inorder to maintain/repair our reuse parts. What I think we only able to reduce...

8 Jan 07

If you were given a choice....

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 7 Jan 07

If you could choose to have someone hand you $10,000 free and clear OR $100,000 for you to spend on other people, charities, etc. Which would you choose? Honestly, it would be really hard for me to pass up the $10,000 becuz...

keeping the money for yourself

money

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bongsu Depend on situations. If I'm broke, sure I'll take this $10K. But if my financial is OK, giving all $100K to other people, charities, etc will be better. Sure we will get the returns. "How you treat the people are what people will treat you"

8 Jan 07

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My depression is killing my marriage.

Peaches1122 @Peaches1122 (470) • United States 6 Jan 07

I am deeply in love with my wife of 2 years. She is my soulmate. I am in a deep depression since I lost my job a few months ago. I am not doing a good job of dealing with this depression. I am on meds but maybe they need...

depression

marriage

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bongsu Since you just lost your job, it better to start to find a new one or grabs any job available while waiting to get the suitable one. The more you do nothing, the more you'll do the thinking, the more depressed you are. Since you are considered internet user,...

8 Jan 07

How Can I Make Money Online

Jonathan Nash @JonathanNash (121) • Thailand 7 Dec 16

Hi Everyone, With so many ways nowadays of making money online I am not sure where to start. I am looking for tips and advise on making money online. Does anyone have any fail safe ways of making money online?

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bongsu Hi Everyone, With so many ways nowadays of making money online I am not sure where to start. I am looking for tips and advise on making money online. Does anyone have any fail safe ways of making money online?

7 Dec 16

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Is bush insane enough to do this?

thatcrazyqbanita @thatcrazyqbanita (3312) • United States 7 Jan 07

Now that we have killed countless numbers of soldiers in Iraq, and we continue to fight in Afghanistan, soldiers are running out, Bush's plan was idiotic and has failed, but he is so stubbornly persistent he refuses to accept his...

draft

war

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bongsu I'm sure there are hidden agenda why your President stubbornly refused to pull back american soldiers. Who are very stupid to take care other people country by killing own citizens in name of democracy and justice. Why only certain countries your President are...

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Money-saving tips?

SplitZip @SplitZip (1488) • Portugal 7 Jan 07

These days we're all about spending, spending, spending! Do you have any good tips to save money or make it stretch? They can be anything you want, as long as they are NOT ILLEGAL :) Speaking of ILLEGAL, there used to be this...

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bongsu One of tips that I practice is to keep the balance of all syillings at the end the day and don't touch until end of the year or during emergency only. These help saving some money without you know about it. Another tip is to write all groceries you want to...

7 Jan 07

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do you think dependance on computers is right??

nehagarg @nehagarg (93) • India 7 Jan 07

today the dependance upon computers is increasing day by day.people depend upon computers for their daily work and for many people internet has become an addiction..like all other necessities computers have become an important...

computer

dependance

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bongsu Due to depence upon computer, people tend not to meet face to face anymore. Banking, paying bills even doing any business are all by computers and internet. Maybe later on, no more communication by sound. People become mute and not willing to see each other....

7 Jan 07

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I was recently diagnosed with high blood pressure..

jhannon @jhannon (1406) • United States 3 Oct 06

Im only 26 and i dont wnat to be on medication for life..So is there a natural way to make myslef better ive changed my diet and excercise..Im not a smoker or overweight.I guess stressed out some..But what

blood pressure

tired

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bongsu Since you are still young, I adivised you to go check another round or perharps you are nervous. Try to be calm and take a deep breath in a waiting room. Before that take a fish oils due to its EPA and DHA contents and follow by spirulina. By the way continue...

7 Jan 07

Do you use a GPS when you drive?

snowy @snowy22315 (187098) • United States 29 Sep 16

My ex is the type of person he likes to use a GPS wherever he goes, even if it a familiar place. I don't like relying on gadetry to tell me what to do, I prefer to go by printed directions or look at a map. I hate traveling with...

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bongsu My ex is the type of person he likes to use a GPS wherever he goes, even if it a familiar place. I don't like relying on gadetry to tell me what to do, I prefer to go by printed directions or look at a map. I hate traveling with him because he will go by that...

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what do you think about having kids at 21?

italianbella8686 @italianbella8686 (87) • United States 4 Jan 07

Me and my fiance cant wait to have a baby. but were not sure yet because where so young. Howeverhis family is used to having kids at a young age.. his gma was 17 when she had his mother and then my fiances mother had his oldest...

have kids

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bongsu There no wrong to have baby at young age as long as able to take care of your child. But problem is at age of 17, certain people still want to enjoy their life. This result child abuse, divorce which are not good for the family institution. But to have baby at...

5 Jan 07

Is it child abuse or free choice?

sunshinecup @sunshinecup (7871) 5 Jan 07

Is it child abuse when a child is sick, seriously sick and the parents choose NOT to seek medical attention? I have seen this several times in my life and it bothers me, yet I can’t take a firm side on the issue. The reasons for...

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bongsu Let's say the child dies due to parent seek medical attention, are they be charged with manslaughter? Nowaday people also seeking for alternative medication since these can cure certain sickness which modern medicine unable to do so. So there no reason why...

5 Jan 07

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Can it ever be cured

alfieboy @alfieboy (14) • Ireland 5 Jan 07

Looking back on my life, I now realise i've suffered from depression from an early age. This was probably brought on by events out of my control as a young child. It is only recently I have admitted to myself that I do actually...

depression

suicide

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bongsu Try Tai Chi. This ancient chineese martial arts are good to heal your disturbed mind. I sure at your there is a centre that teach Tai Chi. This Tai Chi is also good for your health and mind.

5 Jan 07

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Do strike up a conversation with a stranger while shopping?

ElusiveButterfly @ElusiveButterfly (45942) • United States 4 Jan 07

When I am shopping, I always strike up a conversation with people. It could be the clerks or another shopper. Sometimes people ignore you when you speak to them. I just smile and tell them to have a nice day. How sad it is...

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bongsu It's depend what type of people you are talking to. Perharps when you strike up a conversation, the other people is thinking/worrying on other matters, then he/she don't like to reply. As now a day, there a lot of cheater that try to cheat you once you reply,...

5 Jan 07

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Michigan Crazy Laws

jennifer611 @jennifer611 (2514) • United States 4 Jan 07

Michigan Crazy Laws You may not swear in front of women and children in the state of Michigan. It is legal for a robber to file a law suit, if he or she got hurt in your house. A woman isn't allowed to cut her own...

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bongsu These are human laws that mean people create and run the laws. When there is a problem and to prevent it to happen again, people will create the law without knowing in the future another problem occured due to this law.

4 Jan 07

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Anyone here suffer from Anxiety?

aimee750 @aimee750 (1116) • United States 4 Jan 07

I have always been a person who worried alot. But within the last year the worrying has taken over my life. I am constantly worrying about my kids and my finances and everything else. When I am at work I find it so incredibly...

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bongsu First thing, its quite normal for everybody are worrying about financial, family what so ever as long as we are breathing. Some poem says "We eat to live, not we live to eat". But how we manage the anxiety. If to much worry, it will cause high blood pressure...

4 Jan 07

How did you come up with your user name?

sunshinecup @sunshinecup (7871) 3 Jan 07

Mine is from a nickname my Grandmother gave me. She often said, I had a smile that was as warm as a cup of sunshine. Some how from that I was called, her little sunshinecup. Yep I was spoiled and well loved by her....

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bongsu For my case, since I am the youngest children in my family which in Malay language is "bongsu" that why I like to use this name. Even my friend start to call me "bongsu" since sencondary school.

4 Jan 07