carlissa32

@carlissa32 (64)

United States • Age 43

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tell me will you go against parents in any condition...as with me..hmm...!!!!!!

amit_shehwag @amit_shehwag (836) • India 10 May 07

now if i have to marry with my girlfriend..i have to go against my parents...as they are not ready for this..and i am not permitted...its a critical situation for me...and i am not able to decide whether i should go against my...

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carlissa32 For a man leaves his father and mother to become one with the wife of his youth. You love your parents this I know but your parents dont sleep with you and your parents CANNOT fulfill that one thing that your future wife can.... Romantic love and intimacy. You...

10 May 07

After Five Years of Relationship - Now Marrys Another

mypeace @mypeace (393) • Nigeria 10 May 07

This is case of a guy dating a woman for 5 years and they have concluded plans to marry. They claim to love themselves and the guy has a good paying job. Unknown to the guy that his girl has been dating and planning marriage with...

wedding invitation card

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carlissa32 Cut your losses and LET HER GO if that is what she's choosing. She actually did you a favor.That simply means that she was not the one for you. Seek counseling to help you move on through the process of your loss but in the end its all about a choice and she...

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best gift

rfincool @rfincool (30) • Australia 10 May 07

what is the best gift that guy could give a girl?

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carlissa32 Affection and respect

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best option

reubenace @reubenace (94) • Philippines 9 May 07

If you will be given a chance to choose for a lifetime partner what will you choose the one with a very good looks or the one who have all the riches?

relationships

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carlissa32 If thos are my only two options then I wouldnt make a choice cause to be honest i would not want either.

10 May 07

do you still believe in courtship?

zer0charly @zer0charly (5614) • Philippines 9 May 07

its funny to hear my grandmother and my parents stories when they were still young..they always told me that if a guy likes a girl,he should first court her and made some sacrifices..(serenades them,doing some household...

courtship

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carlissa32 I believe that is the reson why many marriages and relationships are failing today, why there are so many young single parents now. Because of lack of courtship. I'm representing the younger generation and they seem to have no clue what the word courtship...

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What do you value the most in a person?and in your other half?

LightninStrike @LightninStrike (5915) • Saint Vincent And The Grenadines 9 May 07

I am talking about the feature or virtue that all of you appreciate the most in another person you interact with. And then i get more specifical and i refer the question to the person you live with or you love etc. What does that...

life

love

relationships

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carlissa32 Absolute must haves in my relationship and which I value in my current relationships is A sense of humor A man with heart and dignity A man with strength I'm a very strong woman who has a lot of heart and sense of humor. I need to have someone with that...

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Have you kept in contact with your First Love???

gwendovere @gwendovere (1279) • United States 2 May 07

Or are you still with the person? I have a friend who's about 44 years old & just in the last couple of years, she got back together with her high school sweetheart!!! I think that's so sweet. Like a storybook ending. Do...

boyfriend

first love

girlfriend

highschool sweetheart

love

true love

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carlissa32 Actually i wish i had've kept in contact with my first love. We lost contact many years ago I just found out that he's getting married and has a 6 year old son.

10 May 07

Does Shyness make u embarressed any day..?

koolraj_inlove @koolraj_inlove (842) • India 27 Apr 07

i am not a shy person anymore,i have lost my best friend, my love and my friends due to my shyness and i really feel embarrassed.but now i have regained all my friends and best friend but not love.

love

relationship

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carlissa32 I'm a very shy person myself and shyness doesnt stand in the way of true love. Look for love and eventually you'll find it may even find you. Mine did.

10 May 07

Do you think that there is a soulmate somewhere for everyone?

reaperz @reaperz (1266) • United States 25 Apr 07

This i think is really true! There has to be a soulmate for everyone! I think god created us to be destined to someone out there. But, do you think that there is a soulmate somewhere for everyone? Why?

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carlissa32 I dont personally belive in soulmates or love at first site However i do believe that a person can become just right for you or your soulmate through time. Time is what makes love grow. Through time comes understanding of and with the person that you love....

10 May 07

break up through phone or sms?

ethlene_c2h6 @ethlene_c2h6 (241) • Philippines 25 Apr 07

i have friends who ended their relationship with just a phone call or a text message. is it ok if your boyfriend/girlfriend breaks up with you through phone or txt?

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carlissa32 I personally think thats a cop-out if you're going to break up with someone at least be decent enough to do it in person and for all of the non confrontational people out there write a letter and hand it to them in PERSON

10 May 07

break up through phone or sms?

ethlene_c2h6 @ethlene_c2h6 (241) • Philippines 25 Apr 07

i have friends who ended their relationship with just a phone call or a text message. is it ok if your boyfriend/girlfriend breaks up with you through phone or txt?

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10 May 07

do you have a themesong? what makes that song so special?

joimarquez @joimarquez (1836) • United States 22 Apr 07

I have a themesong for myself and my exboyfriend. The song "how to deal" by frankie j. In this song He talks about choosing his career over the woman he loves and he's hurting whenever he sees his love of his life dating another...

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carlissa32 My fiance and I have so many but i believe if i had to guess it would be R.Kelly "Forever" That song played in our home every night before we went to sleep. Ironically, 2 weeks later he proposed.

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Which asset of your body does your beloved likes?

sallukhan420 @sallukhan420 (84) • Pakistan 18 Apr 07

Which asset do you think your boy friend or girl friend like of yours,which attracts him or her the most?

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carlissa32 thats exactly it my ASSet lol he's very attracted to alot of things but that it what he likes the most.

10 May 07

define love...

daryljane @daryljane (3406) • Philippines 11 Apr 07

what does love means to you ..is it like the bible where its so profound and but really hard to follow, things they say during wedding and forget them months after, endless as they call it, things like unconditional and...

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carlissa32 Love is hard to define some people defines it as actions some people define it as a feeling. i define it as a feeling you get based on actions that have been given.

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love online

billyboi @billyboi (47) • Philippines 20 Apr 07

I can't believe myself when I fell in love with someone I haven't met yet. I met the person online and somehow we had this relationship, a committment if you call it that way... and in just 2 weeks can you believe that i fell in...

online heart

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carlissa32 well actually I do believe it is possible. That is how I met my current fiance. The funny thing about it is . I wasn't online looking for love. He started a conversation with me in the chat room and we've been together ever since. Its been 3 years now going on...

10 May 07

D you believe in.. "if you really love him/her, let him go"

gail_7184 @gail_7184 (66) • Philippines 20 Apr 07

Will you let go of the one you love if he/she ask you to leave him/her because he/she don't want to be the one to dumped you...

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carlissa32 Certainly... because if they are not happy then why be with someone who you don;t make happy. Also when you finally "let him/her go" an interesting thing begans to happen. You're actually allowing them to grieve and in the grieving process they began to focus...

10 May 07

Do you want to get married?

vetsmom_rgv @vetsmom_rgv (1083) • United States 7 May 07

If you are married, did you want to? or pushed into it? Are you happy?

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carlissa32 I was married at the early age of 18 at the time it was something that I wanted to do. At the age of 20 I was divorced. Would I remmarry. Absolutely only this time I won't rush into it.

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Wife should obey his Husband. Any comment?

hrangte @hrangte (286) 1 May 07

Myself I want my wife to respect me and to care and love me. Life without respect is life without fame.

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carlissa32 A wife should "honor" her husband and a husband should "honor" his wife. Obey is something that a child does with a parent and unless its incest(hopefully not) then the word "obey" shouldn't even be a part of their relationship.

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