cfrdjlilbrat

@cfrdjlilbrat (248)

United States • Age 56

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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TRUST... what is the exact definition?

zjenikka @zjenikka (292) • Philippines 23 Feb 07

In everyone's life, a friend is always part of it. A friend of each other's existence. And when a person gets to have a friend that is more than like a sister or a brother, you call them your BESTFRIEND... right? A bestfriend is...

a friend trust

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cfrdjlilbrat They violated your trust. That is plain to see. The question i have for you is this.. can you forgive? i was in a similiar situation. My younger sister needed somewhere to stay so she came to stay with me and my boyfriend... a lil while later they were...

23 Feb 07

... am I not being a good mother..?

tristansmommy @tristansmommy (33) • United States 23 Feb 07

I'm a new mom with a 5 month old son. I'm feeling a little hurt when other mothers boast about how they are exclusively breast feeding their child. And it bothers me, because I did try, but it just didn't work for me. They make...

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cfrdjlilbrat All children are different and all have different needs. i am a mother of three and all did things at different times. i breast fed my daughter until she was hospitalized at 3 weeks old and i had to stop. i breast fed my second child, a son, for all of two...

23 Feb 07

The dirtiest word in the English language (British!)

smuggeridge @smuggeridge (2148) 21 Feb 07

I'm in a bad mood. I know that this site has had its downs and at times i have considered quitting but this tops it all. I just found out that who'm i thought was a quality and well respected member of this site has been spreading...

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cfrdjlilbrat Everyone should be proud of their heritage. When one forgets where they came from, they lose their roots. When roots are gone, it is just a matter of time before existance is gone. Look at a plant... how long can it survive without roots? People are no...

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Prince Harry is off to Iraq

smuggeridge @smuggeridge (2148) 22 Feb 07

Prince Harry is heading off to Iraq to fight for his country. But is it a good idea to let such a famous person go and fight?. Are the Iraqi Insurgents not going to use this as an excuse to increaes attacks on the British army?...

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cfrdjlilbrat Too often we see politicians/rulers of countries make the life and death decisions for their citizens and keep their families out of harm's way. I applaud Harry for stepping up and supporting his country in more than just words, as so many do. While he will be...

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i have still not learnt to say 'NO'!!!!

nutcase222 @nutcase222 (676) • India 23 Feb 07

i want to get over my slopiness,i dont like myself overdoing with people....i find it very difficult to say no to people even when i need to,the result-everybody starts taking you for granted..i have seen people saying no but when...

life

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cfrdjlilbrat you sound just like me.. or rather who i was before i found out who i truly am. i was a mother hen... i always had to take care of someone... trying to save the world as my grandma put it. i could not say no for anything in this world. if i had it and they...

23 Feb 07

Can You Spot the Differences?

MySpot @MySpot (2600) • United States 22 Feb 07

Check this out... See if you can get it or if it will get you! There are two pictures almost identical to each other; you have to find three differences. If you can find three differences, then you are part of an elite...

fun

puzzle

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cfrdjlilbrat haha i knew when i saw the Zoeken in the addy that it was one of the ones that make you jump outta ya skin and i was right. My friends love sending those around at Halloween. Nice start to the day hun, thank you so much.

23 Feb 07

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Are You Left Brained OR Right Brained?

MySpot @MySpot (2600) • United States 19 Feb 07

personality test

result

thinker

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cfrdjlilbrat Right Brain 56% Left Brain 44% Seems to follow pretty much the same pattern it always has when i have taken these. Sometimes the numbers are reversed.. meaning sometimes i'm slightly higher on the left brain side than the right. i guess it depends on the...

23 Feb 07

is AMERICA a super power in TRUE sense ???

cool_prem @cool_prem (64) • India 16 Feb 07

friends after the disintegration of USSR bipolarity of world has almost come to an end. now AMERICA seeme to enjoy the position of a superpower. do u guys feel that AMERICA is superpower in TRUE sense or u feel that still there...

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cfrdjlilbrat America does not rule Iraq. That is not the purpose of America's presence in Iraq. It is to give the Iraqi people the right and knowledge to run their own country. As far as being a superpower.. what makes a superpower? I feel that America is more in a...

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In the relationships

ezzrssi @ezzrssi (11188) • Italy 16 Feb 07

do you like to have the power? or do you like to be powered?

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cfrdjlilbrat i am a natural submissive which means that i give up my personal control/power to a Dominant. i am happiest with this kind of relationship. i do not like being in an authority position.. it is very hard on me to have any kind of authority.

16 Feb 07

911 Conspiracy

pondadog @pondadog (101) • United States 14 Feb 07

Its been 6 years and it seems we need to be reminded of what happened...or what really happened. Who thinks 911 was an "inside job" and that Bush/Cheney know a whole lot more than has ever been told...? I mean , look at the...

911

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cfrdjlilbrat If you doubt any of it, i suggest you take the time to read the 9/11 commission report. As for whether it happened or not.. i have a friend who was in the south tower when it was hit and another whose son was in the pentagon when it was hit and he suffered 3rd...

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Do you think that people living in the USA should have to learn English?

NYSheDevil @NYSheDevil (25) • United States 14 Feb 07

I live in Queens, NY and encounter tens of people every day who don't speak a word of english. Not just people who recently immigrated here, but people who have lived here twenty plus years. All they know how to say is, "I don't...

english as a second language

immigration

speak english in america

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cfrdjlilbrat Have you ever heard the phrase "when in rome, do as the romans do"? It means speak as they do as well. i would never move to another country and demand they learn to speak my language. The US is the only country i know of that requires native born citizens to...

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Your proudest moment as a parent?

joey_matthews @joey_matthews (8354) 13 Feb 07

For those who know me here. You might already know that i'm pretty much a very proud parent. a little over the top but you know i'm proud of feeling like this! (i've done it again) sorry! hehe =) What's your proudest moment as...

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cfrdjlilbrat one of my proudest was when my daughter was in her senior year of high school and had to write a paper on who her hero is and why and who her best friend is and why and then compare the two. She said i was her hero and her best friend and how could she compare...

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Controversial Discussions!!!

dragonflyfli @dragonflyfli (5528) • United States 14 Feb 07

yum. i love em! I think some people are the type to speak of the things that others dont dare speak about. I dont think people should be getting angry about this. Instead, share your thoughts and feelings and the debate is on. If...

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cfrdjlilbrat i love a good debate. The problem comes when it becomes personal. Personal comments should never enter an intelligent debate. Use facts. What is personal about that? Why attack someone just because they have a different viewpoint? Why try to harm them in any...

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Age Difference: Does it really matter?

LightninStrike @LightninStrike (5915) • Saint Vincent And The Grenadines 13 Feb 07

We all know about people who get involved in relationships with persons that are way older or younger than them. What do you think about that? is it a good idea? will they have enough to share? much controversy about this one i...

age difference

love

relationships

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cfrdjlilbrat Well, again i can only respond from personal experience. At 16, i was dating a man who was 26. We ended up marrying and having a beautiful daughter before he died 2 years later. i still miss him and it has been over 19 years since his death. Anyone that says...

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thank YOU!!!

tigerdragon @tigerdragon (4297) • Philippines 12 Feb 07

i would like to say thank for the people who are not open minded with the answers they got with their questions and all the outcast who vandalize their answers just to get one cent. i thank you for making my 9star to an 8star....

reputation

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cfrdjlilbrat As you can see, my star has taken quite a beating lately. They will have their spiteful revenge i suppose. It seems small-mindedsness is prevalent on mylot. i stayed off of here for a few days simply because i could not stomach some of the things they said....

13 Feb 07

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if your spouse will DIE, WOULD YOU STILL LOVE HIM/HER?

ela2pso @ela2pso (364) • Philippines 12 Feb 07

that was really a question to all couples...

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cfrdjlilbrat i was made a widow at 18 years old.. a month before our second anniversary and my 19th birthday. i am now 38 years old. i have never stopped loving him nor mourning him. i doubt i ever will. While i did raise our daughter alone, she has no doubts about our...

13 Feb 07

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