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Jaimee31 @Jaimee31 (50) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

what if you found out that your loved is still talking and being sweet with the EX? and you found out that they still have plans for each other? would you leave the person you love or wait till she leaves you? this is my case as...

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chinggay73 I don't even let my hubby see his ex everytime she comes home from abroad cause I feel that she has designs on him, even if he doesn't intend to take her up on her plans. Make sure that they do have plans to get back together and confront your partner about...

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chinggay73 @chinggay73 (45) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

I friend of mine quoted today : " If you can't have the one you love, then love the one you have. " Do any of you believe in this saying? Any opinions on this?

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chinggay73 Well, you might not have a choice in who you do love, but you can 'try' to make yourself love the person you're with, right? Or maybe start with liking that person first, then who knows, it might grow into love.

20 Jan 07

chinggay73 @chinggay73 (45) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

I friend of mine quoted today : " If you can't have the one you love, then love the one you have. " Do any of you believe in this saying? Any opinions on this?

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chinggay73 Hahaha. I told my friend that too. It is better to try and reciprocate the love you are getting than to hope for something you might never have. Easier said than done though, I think. ;)

20 Jan 07

chinggay73 @chinggay73 (45) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

I friend of mine quoted today : " If you can't have the one you love, then love the one you have. " Do any of you believe in this saying? Any opinions on this?

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chinggay73 I agree with it being hard to do since you can't really dictate what your heart wants. :)

20 Jan 07

bryanbrixxx @bryanbrixxx (49) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

There is so many kind of games. You can play a role playing game. A mission game or a game like you have a group of clan and fight with the other clan as your enemy. Or a game you have a single avatar and fight with the other and...

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chinggay73 Hehehehe...Flyff just got added to Level-Up games' roster due to the merger of the company with Netgames. I paly another MMORPG of the said company, Rose Online. So so addictive. Hehehe.

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chinggay73 @chinggay73 (45) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

I friend of mine quoted today : " If you can't have the one you love, then love the one you have. " Do any of you believe in this saying? Any opinions on this?

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AmberLynn @ScribbledAdNauseum (104628) • United States 26 Apr 20

April 26th 12:37 PM EST What I watched Last night I rented and watched 1917 which I really enjoyed. The story grabs you from the very beginning, and you feel as if you are actually back in 1917 and dealing...

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chinggay73 April 26th 12:37 PM EST What I watched Last night I rented and watched 1917 which I really enjoyed. The story grabs you from the very beginning, and you feel as if you are actually back in 1917 and dealing with the war efforts. It is...

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infamousaunty @infamousaunty (241) • United States 13 Jan 07

I have many male friends. I have not slept with any of them and none of them, to my knowledge and I assume, cares to sleep with me. I have many female friends who feel that when they marry a man, the rest of his life is over...

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chinggay73 I've had close male friends since highschool. The problem with these friendships are that they sometimes fall for me, I don't fall for them and I tend to move away due to the awkwardness of the situation after they spill their guts out to me, or at least try...

19 Jan 07

gypsylady28 @gypsylady28 (945) • United States 18 Jan 07

I can't seem to get my husband to help me much with any of the chores around the house. I'll ask him why he doesn't help, and he says he works all day, week, etc. I work also, although I only work a 32-36 hr. week. But I also...

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chinggay73 My husband helps me out a lot. I work nights, so when he's not busy during the day, he keeps the kids out of my hair so I can rest. He also helps me do the grocery shopping and he does most of the general cleaning duties ( I'm allergic to dust ).

19 Jan 07

smints8985 @smints8985 (1594) • United States 17 Jan 07

Do you believe that age just a number? Or do you honestly think that maturity comes with age?

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chinggay73 I do not think maturity comes with age since a lot of people do not act their age. Some younger people can be pretty mature and some older people can be pretty childish. Maturity probably comes with experience and understanding.

19 Jan 07

chinggay73 @chinggay73 (45) • Philippines 18 Jan 07

Life as we know it, will always dole out duds and winners. It's how we percieve such handouts that usually dictates how we live our lives. A lot of people have it so good, and yet they are unhappy because they want more. They do...

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chinggay73 I, too, try to be as optimistic as possible about life and try not to let the snags get me down. I believe that greed can be a motivator of sorts though, not a good one, but still a motivator, to probably do better and to achieve more. As long as you do not...

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chinggay73 @chinggay73 (45) • Philippines 18 Jan 07

Life as we know it, will always dole out duds and winners. It's how we percieve such handouts that usually dictates how we live our lives. A lot of people have it so good, and yet they are unhappy because they want more. They do...

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chinggay73 Hahaha. Yeah, the part of the glass filled with air is the part where dreams reside. I gave the example of a glass because it does explain both sides, one of pessimism and the other of optimism. Seeing things in a good light or in a bad light can make all the...

19 Jan 07

chippy49 @chippy49 (171) • United States 17 Jan 07

I am so sick and tired of women complaining about not getting child support. Does anyone ever think about the man, of course not, it is always me me me. I am married to a man who was married in the past, it did not work out...

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chinggay73 They did make the child together. The child would not have been created had it been only the woman or the man alone. I, however, agree with your stance about her asking for help with a child she herself does not help. They should BOTH work on supporting...

18 Jan 07

contusion12878 @contusion12878 (669) • United States 17 Jan 07

I have been dating my girlfriend for four years now and we arent married. Everyone keeps asking what is taking so long. How much longer is it going to be. etc. I was just wondering how long any of you were with your loved ones...

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chinggay73 My hubby and I were together for four and a half years before we tied the knot. We, however, don't count our anniversary based on our marriage date but rather on our "couple" date, when we started as a couple. So, basically, we've been together for almost 15...

18 Jan 07

kumikosuzuki83 @kumikosuzuki83 (161) • Japan 18 Jan 07

Here in Japan, people say that women are like Christmas cakes - no good after the 25th! My grandparents have been giving me a lot of pressure to get married (or at least find a boyfriend!) recently. I don't think that I'm...

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chinggay73 If you get married because of pressure from your family, then you are doing it for the wrong reasons. Marriage is supposed to be a lifetime commitment with someone you believe you can grow old with and if you're not ready for it, then you're in for a rough...

18 Jan 07

coffeechat @coffeechat (1961) • New Zealand 16 Jan 07

Is golf a game only for rich people?

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chinggay73 From where I'm from, it is. You have to be a member of or know a member of a golfing club here to play. Or you have to be connected to some top honcho of some company or be one yourself to do so. You have to have your own equipment too, which costs an arm and...

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coffeechat @coffeechat (1961) • New Zealand 16 Jan 07

I am looking for the perfect job, where I work the least and earn the most money. All suggestions welcome!

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chinggay73 Aren't we all? Hehehe. I too wish to have the perfect job where I don't have to stray far from home and earn oodles of cash. I believe with the advent of internet based businesses, that is the way to go. Don't you think so gurl? Hehehe. ;)

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coffeechat @coffeechat (1961) • New Zealand 17 Jan 07

We have two children and expecting a third, in a relationship that we have had for seven years. Like all relationships we have our ups and downs, beautiful moments, petty irritations and shared vision. Should we get married? What...

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chinggay73 Hmmmm...a topic on marriage. Well gurl, getting married is a big step, and unless you are 100% sure ( which most of us think we are, but aren't really ) that it is what you both want and aren't doing it "for the kids" or for propriety's sake. That you're both...

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certified_alice @certified_alice (1854) • Philippines 17 Jan 07

Ok here’s what happened: I’ve just heard it on a morning talkshow that Goofy pushed his fan, which is an actress here in the Philippines. According to the two actresses, which are Gladys Reyes and K Brosas they were in a trip on...

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chinggay73 Oh my! Looks like this should be clumped together with that news about Tigger hurting a fan in Disneyland or something like that. Hmmm...seems like Disney characters are getting overworked. Hehehe. But, since they are mascots in Disney, and are supposed to be...

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