claylewisthirdy

@claylewisthirdy (24)

Philippines • Age 47

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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What do you think is better, to expect the worst or to think positively?

lovelyn_medrano @lovelyn_medrano (3070) • Philippines 7 Oct 09

Are you looking too far? Most of the people said that we have to look ahead-- plan our future, dream and act on it. But do you often feel discourage when things don't turned out the way we wanted? Sometimes what is happening is...

planning

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claylewisthirdy Well for me, choosing both will be good because if you are positive to whatever you plan for the future and it turns out you get the worst of it, at least you won't be that disappointed cause it's like you expecting it and you are positive that every bad stuff...

8 Oct 09

Do you talk about your exes?

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 7 Oct 09

Some people believe that what is in the past should stay there, so there's no reason to discuss it. Others feel that your past makes you who you are today, so in order to truly know someone, you need to know their past. Which...

conversation

exes

relationship

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claylewisthirdy Talking about our exes doesn't mean we still love them. we usually talk about them when we are with other girls comparing notes about men and thier likes. Also when something reminds us of them like music, characteristics, voices and a lot of things. Though...

7 Oct 09

husband and another woman

indahfth @indahfth (11161) • Indonesia 6 Oct 09

shocked and sad, when she saw her husband came home, by bringing a woman. the woman who had been disturbing the household. chest felt tight and hard to breathe. had tears coming out, but I tried to hold. I am confused what...

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claylewisthirdy Have you asked yourself what you have done for having such a heartbreak from the person you promised to live and love in sickness and in health till death do you part? Sometimes we may have done things in routine that we forgot to put some spices and news...

6 Oct 09

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kids and spanking

bounce58 @bounce58 (17387) • Canada 5 Oct 09

I just read somewhere here that kids that get spanked often have problems growing up. Is this true? The way kids act these days I feel that they just need a little spanking. When I was growing up, spanking was the punishment of...

kids

punishment

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claylewisthirdy They said that you get spanked by spanking. Punishing kids like spanking is not really a good thing to do with kids. Most of the kids who get spanked all the time they commit mistake tend to be bullies while growing up. I'm also guilty of this act since I...

6 Oct 09

Should people be FORCED to be organ donors after they die?

Taskr36 @Taskr36 (13963) • United States 5 Oct 09

I'm asking this because a friend brought up this topic on another forum and the responses honestly scared me. Now my friend is an ER nurse, and she just had a patient live thanks to a heart donated by a 17 year old that died. In...

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claylewisthirdy For me no. It's a choice a person has. But if I'll be ask to be an organ donor, I would gladly say yes, because it would be a great help for those who need it in order to live. And it's a fulfilling act to be of help when your also dieing right? What is the...

6 Oct 09

Pregnancy before marriage

vopols @vopols (204) • Philippines 6 Oct 09

Good Day to all of mylotters. I had a friend who is very young only 19 years old and she got pregnant.She is having a relationship with her boyfriend both mentally and physically in spite of taking protective measures she had...

pregnant before marriage

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claylewisthirdy Well, in your friends case, I think her parents have the right to know about her condition. Whatever she had done, you cannot do otherwise but to seek help from her parents since she's still young and I assume she haven't finished her studies yet. Taking...

6 Oct 09

Are you in favor in living in first before getting married?

mrssator2002 @mrssator2002 (281) • Philippines 6 Oct 09

Well my sister do, she's in favor of living in first before getting married. Marriage is another stage of relationship from being boyfriend and girlfriend, another stage of getting to know each other. Because it would be easier...

living in

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claylewisthirdy Well I am in favor of living in together first before we get married. There is this thing called the seven year itch. I heard like 3 cases on this matter. They broke up on thier seventh year because they can't understand each other anymore. I went to mass way...

6 Oct 09

Every penny of the first salary must be used to treat friends out: do you agree?

manong05 @manong05 (5027) • Philippines 6 Oct 09

It is sometimes said that the first salary calls for a celebration and it must be spent to treat friends or family out. This is a show of appreciation and sign of good luck. I find this idea ridiculuos. It is wiser to use it to...

celebration

first salary received

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claylewisthirdy I don't agree with this kind of saying...I mean it's kind of a tradition that for the first salary to be spent to treat family, loved ones or friends. But I don't think it's wise to spend it to the last penny. Maybe a portion of it will do. It's not easy to...

6 Oct 09