claylewisthirdy

@claylewisthirdy (24)

Philippines • Age 48

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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What do you think is better, to expect the worst or to think positively?

lovelyn_medrano @lovelyn_medrano (3070) • Philippines 7 Oct 09

Are you looking too far? Most of the people said that we have to look ahead-- plan our future, dream and act on it. But do you often feel discourage when things don't turned out the way we wanted? Sometimes what is happening is...

planning

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claylewisthirdy Well for me, choosing both will be good because if you are positive to whatever you plan for the future and it turns out you get the worst of it, at least you won't be that disappointed cause it's like you expecting it and you are positive that every bad stuff...

8 Oct 09

am I crazy?

claylewisthirdy @claylewisthirdy (24) • Philippines 8 Oct 09

Because of the heartaches and all,I felt like, I'm going crazy sometimes. Depression sometimes eats up my system and I'm easily irritated. I burst up with just a small conflict that if I just want to,can be resolve without a...

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pregnancy out of wedlock

claylewisthirdy @claylewisthirdy (24) • Philippines 8 Oct 09

The first time I got pregnant with my boyfriend,I got mixed emotions. I felt happy at the same time nervous. Happy because at last I'm going to have a baby and nervous because we are not married. I am just worried what my parents...

my pregnancy

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being a mother

claylewisthirdy @claylewisthirdy (24) • Philippines 7 Oct 09

When I was younger than today..I've always dreamed of being the best mom in the world. Motherhood is one of the most wonderful thing that ever happened to me. It made me love my mother more. It made me more mature and responsible...

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Do you talk about your exes?

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 7 Oct 09

Some people believe that what is in the past should stay there, so there's no reason to discuss it. Others feel that your past makes you who you are today, so in order to truly know someone, you need to know their past. Which...

conversation

exes

relationship

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claylewisthirdy Talking about our exes doesn't mean we still love them. we usually talk about them when we are with other girls comparing notes about men and thier likes. Also when something reminds us of them like music, characteristics, voices and a lot of things. Though...

7 Oct 09

fell in and out

claylewisthirdy @claylewisthirdy (24) • Philippines 7 Oct 09

I fell in love for a couple of times already. Most of it, broke my heart into pieces. And still I get up and moved on. First time was like painful, the next barely and the next after next it was bearable. It was like I felt numb...

painful to fall

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this is me

claylewisthirdy @claylewisthirdy (24) • Philippines 7 Oct 09

I don't call myself liberated as others think I am. I just love challenges. Like the my fashion sense, it takes guts to wear stuff that does not conform to the norms our conservative people. I was collecting boyfriends when I was...

myself and i

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husband and another woman

indahfth @indahfth (11161) • Indonesia 6 Oct 09

shocked and sad, when she saw her husband came home, by bringing a woman. the woman who had been disturbing the household. chest felt tight and hard to breathe. had tears coming out, but I tried to hold. I am confused what...

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claylewisthirdy Have you asked yourself what you have done for having such a heartbreak from the person you promised to live and love in sickness and in health till death do you part? Sometimes we may have done things in routine that we forgot to put some spices and news...

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I love writing

claylewisthirdy @claylewisthirdy (24) • Philippines 6 Oct 09

I have been writing my personal journal since high school,and I'm proud to say I still have a copy of it since I was in junior high. I've written poems long and short. Some of it were made into songs by my cousin who had a band. I...

the writer in me

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thats what sisters are

claylewisthirdy @claylewisthirdy (24) • Philippines 6 Oct 09

I have three sisters and a brother...three of us are married and the youngest girl is still single. I can say that my best of friends are my sisters. When one is hurt,sad or happy or whatever state she might be, we all feel the...

sisters bond

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a lover?

claylewisthirdy @claylewisthirdy (24) • Philippines 6 Oct 09

I'm not a girlfriend nor a wife.I'm a lover. I have been a flower girl then a bridesmaid, to a maid of-honor, a matron of-honor but never the bride. Maybe I am just destined to be lover of men who needs to be loved before they...

lover

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money and the world

claylewisthirdy @claylewisthirdy (24) • Philippines 6 Oct 09

Each one of us needs money in order to buy, eat,shop, travel and just anything we do, it uses money. That is why I joined mylot so I could earn extra money and at the same time share my thoughts to the people registered in this...

money

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my wonderful family...

claylewisthirdy @claylewisthirdy (24) • Philippines 6 Oct 09

There is nothing perfect in this world. But for me, My family is perfect. My parents while we we're young taught us the value of hard work and independence. They teach us how to stand on our own and make way to where we want to be...

a family that stays together

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kids and spanking

bounce58 @bounce58 (17385) • Canada 5 Oct 09

I just read somewhere here that kids that get spanked often have problems growing up. Is this true? The way kids act these days I feel that they just need a little spanking. When I was growing up, spanking was the punishment of...

kids

punishment

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claylewisthirdy They said that you get spanked by spanking. Punishing kids like spanking is not really a good thing to do with kids. Most of the kids who get spanked all the time they commit mistake tend to be bullies while growing up. I'm also guilty of this act since I...

6 Oct 09

Should people be FORCED to be organ donors after they die?

Taskr36 @Taskr36 (13963) • United States 5 Oct 09

I'm asking this because a friend brought up this topic on another forum and the responses honestly scared me. Now my friend is an ER nurse, and she just had a patient live thanks to a heart donated by a 17 year old that died. In...

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claylewisthirdy For me no. It's a choice a person has. But if I'll be ask to be an organ donor, I would gladly say yes, because it would be a great help for those who need it in order to live. And it's a fulfilling act to be of help when your also dieing right? What is the...

6 Oct 09

Pregnancy before marriage

vopols @vopols (204) • Philippines 6 Oct 09

Good Day to all of mylotters. I had a friend who is very young only 19 years old and she got pregnant.She is having a relationship with her boyfriend both mentally and physically in spite of taking protective measures she had...

pregnant before marriage

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claylewisthirdy Well, in your friends case, I think her parents have the right to know about her condition. Whatever she had done, you cannot do otherwise but to seek help from her parents since she's still young and I assume she haven't finished her studies yet. Taking...

6 Oct 09

Are you in favor in living in first before getting married?

mrssator2002 @mrssator2002 (281) • Philippines 6 Oct 09

Well my sister do, she's in favor of living in first before getting married. Marriage is another stage of relationship from being boyfriend and girlfriend, another stage of getting to know each other. Because it would be easier...

living in

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claylewisthirdy Well I am in favor of living in together first before we get married. There is this thing called the seven year itch. I heard like 3 cases on this matter. They broke up on thier seventh year because they can't understand each other anymore. I went to mass way...

6 Oct 09

Every penny of the first salary must be used to treat friends out: do you agree?

manong05 @manong05 (5027) • Philippines 6 Oct 09

It is sometimes said that the first salary calls for a celebration and it must be spent to treat friends or family out. This is a show of appreciation and sign of good luck. I find this idea ridiculuos. It is wiser to use it to...

celebration

first salary received

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claylewisthirdy I don't agree with this kind of saying...I mean it's kind of a tradition that for the first salary to be spent to treat family, loved ones or friends. But I don't think it's wise to spend it to the last penny. Maybe a portion of it will do. It's not easy to...

6 Oct 09

its ood to stay single

claylewisthirdy @claylewisthirdy (24) • Philippines 6 Oct 09

For me it's good to be single, with dependents that is. Like me I am single but I've got kids to play with and laugh with everytime I'm down and lonely. Husbands or partners are for me, a hassle. I'm the kind of person who loves...

single is cool

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earning a degree

claylewisthirdy @claylewisthirdy (24) • Philippines 5 Oct 09

I've wanted to be a journalist. I want to be a reporter in a newspaper or T.V. anchor but I wasn't able to enroll to the course since my mother won't allow me to get journalism,instead, I enrolled on an education class. Somehow, I...

enjoy college life

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