crystal8577

@crystal8577 (1466)

United States • Age 47

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I need some suggestions for my MP3 Player

ljbinkop @ljbinkop (744) • United States 5 Feb 09

Anyone out there an 80's fan? I'm always looking for some good suggestions for my MP3 player to download. I also listen while I MyLot. Thanks for the help! To give you an idea of the type of music I like, you can look at my...

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crystal8577 I LOVE the 80's. Anything by Duran Duran, Def Lepard, Bon Jovi, Aerosmith. I also love Ozzy, Eagles, Poison, Cyndi Lauper, Madonna, Dexy's Midnight Runner, Cinderella, Reo Speedwagon. I could go on all day

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Would you tell.. I love you..?

freeflow @freeflow (8) • Philippines 5 Feb 09

if you fell in love with someone who's already committed, already have kids but not married yet, would you tell that person that you love him/her? if you did and then ask him/her if he/she can love you back and that person...

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crystal8577 This can be a catch 22. I guess you have to look inside yourself & see what you think is best. They are not married so that means there is a chance for you to be together. Telling someone you love them is professing your feelings. That does not mean you have...

5 Feb 09

Easter Eggs?

AbbeyB @AbbeyB (670) • Spain 3 Feb 09

Do you give easter eggs? Is it a big thing where you live? Do you think it is all a way to get more money out of us and do you think the true meaning of easter has gone? If you ask any kids these days what Easter is about most...

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crystal8577 Easter to us is about family time & yes the Easter bunny. Yes, I do an egg hunt for the girls. They also each get an easter basket from us & also a number of them from everyone else. It is up to the individual family to decide how comercialized things become...

5 Feb 09

Television viewing

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 5 Feb 09

Would you consider cutting of television viewing for just one day where your toddlers or small children are concerned? I do believe that some of those shows can be educational however some things the children...

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crystal8577 Just because something is on does not mean she is in front of it. If something catches her interest then she will stop & watch for a bit. She just got done "writing" (she just turned 2) a letter to me. She has two older sisters who are 10 & 8 so she learns a...

5 Feb 09

Are you a proponent of "date nights"?

aprilj1231 @aprilj1231 (288) • United States 4 Feb 09

I try to make arrangements once every two or three months for a childless date night. Don't get me wrong, I love my kids....but well trying to have a romantic dinner out or at home is well impossible when you have three kids. Our...

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crystal8577 I am neither for or against them. I have 3 kids also so it is hard to find someone who will take them all. I don't allow anyone but fmaily to watch them. When we do go out to eat together if we talk it seems to be about the girls, or his job. He is also a type...

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How do you feel about censorship?

Lindery @Lindery (853) • Latvia 2 Feb 09

Are there times when the news should be censored?

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crystal8577 I think people hide behind the 1st amendment to much & also freedom of the press. How many times have we seen something reported that turned out to be false? I have seen people make up stories just to have a story. Or them take a detail & run with it. I am...

5 Feb 09

do you multitask??

bookreadermom08 @bookreadermom08 (5614) • United States 5 Feb 09

I am just curious, since some people can do it without thought and some cant even imagine getting through one thing at a time... there are days that I will get 3 things done at once.... then there are days that seems near...

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crystal8577 I am a mom of 3, I could not survive without multitasking. I will play on the computer & write a letter or watch tv. I also do dishes in between that or laundry or whatever else needs to be done. My husband is also amazed that i can just tune the kids out.

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do you have to enroll your child to a workshop during summer?

additionalincome @additionalincome (91) • Philippines 5 Feb 09

workshop is a tremendous help for our kids, but if we don't have spare money to enroll them during summer, I think , we should come up with alternative home summer activity that would enhance their skills, even at home , like...

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crystal8577 My daughters go to school year round. Their only month off during the summer is July. We have to spend that time getting ready for the next school year (school ends at the end of June & the new year starts at the beginning of August). We got to visit my...

5 Feb 09

What is your plan for your VALENTINE DATE?

Gwapako_28 @Gwapako_28 (2140) • Philippines 4 Feb 09

How i wish i have a partner. But unfortunately, i dont have any boyfriend right now. I am planning to date myself in watching David Pomeranz concert this coming February 14 here in our city. I wish i could. How about you? What...

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crystal8577 We have 3 kids. We do not go out on Valentine's day as it is overcrowded & expensive. We will be at home with our girls & order Chinese food & watch a family movie. I got my girls a few small gifts.

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because an aunt or uncle buys more make them better ?

syankee525 @syankee525 (6261) • United States 3 Feb 09

ok here it is, just because a aunt or uncle buy neices or nephews more make them better then the ones who don't buy things? i know some can go out and just buy things well others can;t be lucky enough to do that because of bills...

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crystal8577 I think the gift of time & love can go a lot further than material things. You can get together with them & have a picnic in the park, bake cookies, have a movie night. I know my girls would rather do something with me than have me buy them something. Toys &...

5 Feb 09

When your family visits

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 5 Feb 09

Are you genuinely happy to see your extended family when they appear at your door? Or do you wish to only see certain family members on occasion? Like Christmas, Thanksgiving,etc.

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crystal8577 It depends. I host a lot of different occassions at my house. That means there are 14 people here. I can get stressed out & overwhelmed trying to do all of the cooking, cleaning & entertaining. I run myself down & am ready for everyone to go home early. I...

5 Feb 09

hsm 3

jiffys_frog_woman @jiffys_frog_woman (4050) • United States 5 Feb 09

For those that are High School Musical fan I thought I let you that this month the 3rd movie is coming out on dvd.........

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crystal8577 Thank you. I have 2 daughters that like it. They saw it in the theatre but I am sure they want the DVD too. I think I will pick it up & give it to them for Easter.

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do you like being elder sister or is it better being younger one?

ammie07 @ammie07 (322) • India 5 Jan 09

what do you think is more better being elder or younger one,i being elder think being younger would be better as my sister always gets what she wants and if she does any mistake she is excused whereas i am not.i guess when a elder...

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crystal8577 I have been the eldest since I was 5. I love it. I have never known what it is like to be a younger sibling. I loved looking after my siblings & making sure they were safe & well. My youngest sisters are 9 years younger than me & 2 of my best friends. I also...

5 Feb 09

Do you wear shoes at home?

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 4 Mar 08

I am not some small girl with 2 ponytails but I do go around my house barefooted. My contention is that since the floor in my house is clean, why should I fuss with shoes? And since I have no intention of slipping, why would I...

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crystal8577 No I wear socks since my feet always seem to be cold.

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You don't lend money to your sister, does that make you bad?

icecroft @icecroft (449) • Philippines 5 Feb 09

Here's the thing.. I have a friend who's got a sister who has a very big credit card debt (due to too much spending). He's given her money in the past already when she borrowed, in fact not more than once or twice. This time...

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crystal8577 No it does not make him a bad brother. It makes him someone who refuses to enable someone's bad habits. I would tell him to not lose sleep over it. I am sure he loves his sister none the less.

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I love someone but ....!!!

webmaster_meven @webmaster_meven (16) • Mauritius 5 Feb 09

Hi guys , hope you are all doing good in mylot.com ! Need you help, i had loved someone since 3 years ago , but she only knows that we are just good friends and no more or less ! I truly and sincerely love her but i don't know how...

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crystal8577 I say go ahead & say it. You have to be prepared it may change things & not always for the best. I have decided to live my life by letting those I love know it. If you don't tell her & something happened tomorrow, chances are you would regret not saying...

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how to know if he is the one (or she is the one?)

rizzarivera @rizzarivera (15) • Philippines 5 Feb 09

it is one of those oh so mushy feeling... you know...when all the other people around you just disappear from the picture...when sparks fly...and you look on each other as if for eternity... just the two of you, for...

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crystal8577 I think it is different for everyone. I also think there are different levels & stages of love. You have to remember also that no matter how much you may love someone, people change over time. I think it is important to make sure that you are comfortable with...

5 Feb 09

Are parents the best teachers ?

tudors @tudors (1556) • China 5 Feb 09

Do you agree or disagree that parents are the best teachers ? I personally think that parents are not the best teachers one can have. I would say, ego first, parents second and school teachers the last.

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crystal8577 I am a bit confused by the ego comment. I do think that parents can be the best teachers. In most cases we are the ones who spend the most time with our children especially before they start school. A good parent will be very in tune with their children & know...

5 Feb 09

Can I breastfeed if I am sick?

my2boys @my2boys (821) • United States 13 Sep 08

I have a cold and I have been breastfeeding my son. I heard that I should not breastfeed if I am sick. I tried giving my son a little bit of formula but he will not take it.

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crystal8577 Unless you are medication that would be harmful to the baby then by all means continue to nurse. I have been nursing my 3rd child for almost 21 months now. I have nursed her when I had the flu & could hardly keep anything down. She spent all of her time with...

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