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cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 28 Feb 10

While writing discussions on the lot today something became very clear to me. My 13 year old daughter is a master manipulator. It all started back in November when I took her to see the house I wanted to buy. While she really...

depression

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cynicalandoutspoken I can't beat her she is bigger than I am. No joke she kicked me in my butt the other day and it hurt me to sit down for like 6 hours. So beating is out but I have taken away her phone that he now pays for while she is in my house. She broke her laptop so that...

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cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 28 Feb 10

Buy a house in the middle of her 8th grade school year in a different school district. Not only will it destroy your daughter it will make your life and everyone else's life in the family a living he11. This is the...

home

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cynicalandoutspoken I'm taking it one day at a time. I know I was a holy terror as a teenager so there is little she can do that I didn't. But I paid dearly for the mistakes I made and I'm trying to spare her the same. I will always love her. I may want to duct tape her mouth...

28 Feb 10

cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 28 Feb 10

Buy a house in the middle of her 8th grade school year in a different school district. Not only will it destroy your daughter it will make your life and everyone else's life in the family a living he11. This is the...

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cynicalandoutspoken If I hated her she would be staying with dad instead of going to Disney with this family in May. Her ticket and hotel stay costs LESS than last months phone bill. But that is not the point. She is okay with her punishment. She knows that she really screwed up....

28 Feb 10

cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 28 Feb 10

Buy a house in the middle of her 8th grade school year in a different school district. Not only will it destroy your daughter it will make your life and everyone else's life in the family a living he11. This is the...

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cynicalandoutspoken Me too. I want a barn...but that is because I want horses. She is afraid of horses. I could make her clean up after horses if I had a barn and horses. Sorry. I went a little bit RainMan there for a minute. I texted her with "Life Sucks. Get a Helmet." She...

28 Feb 10

cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 28 Feb 10

Buy a house in the middle of her 8th grade school year in a different school district. Not only will it destroy your daughter it will make your life and everyone else's life in the family a living he11. This is the...

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cynicalandoutspoken Best response hands down! Thanks so much spalladino!

28 Feb 10

cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 28 Feb 10

Buy a house in the middle of her 8th grade school year in a different school district. Not only will it destroy your daughter it will make your life and everyone else's life in the family a living he11. This is the...

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cynicalandoutspoken Thank You Annie. You took the smileys right out of my mouth

28 Feb 10

cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 27 Feb 10

Let me start off by saying that a less rational woman would have killed their first born and paid the cell phone company in pounds of flesh. I just grounded her. The story goes like this: For my 13 year olds birthday in...

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cynicalandoutspoken The phone is a necessity for her with her after school activities and her father being less than reliable when he is supposed to pick her up so she had a pay as you go phone since she has been 11. She was always responsible with that so I added her to my...

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cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 27 Feb 10

Let me start off by saying that a less rational woman would have killed their first born and paid the cell phone company in pounds of flesh. I just grounded her. The story goes like this: For my 13 year olds birthday in...

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cynicalandoutspoken Thank you. I really needed that.

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cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 27 Feb 10

Let me start off by saying that a less rational woman would have killed their first born and paid the cell phone company in pounds of flesh. I just grounded her. The story goes like this: For my 13 year olds birthday in...

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cynicalandoutspoken I'm not too concerned about the romance because the boy lives on the other side of the continent. I told her she cannot use the phone while she is in the house but I have no say over what she does with it on the bus or at school so that is something I'm just...

28 Feb 10

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cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 27 Feb 10

Let me start off by saying that a less rational woman would have killed their first born and paid the cell phone company in pounds of flesh. I just grounded her. The story goes like this: For my 13 year olds birthday in...

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cynicalandoutspoken Exactly the way I'm looking at it. I feel better taking away her party and not even the least little bit guilty because from May 5th until Mothers Day we are going to be in Disney World. So its not like she is going to suffer too much....that is until I make...

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cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 28 Feb 10

While writing discussions on the lot today something became very clear to me. My 13 year old daughter is a master manipulator. It all started back in November when I took her to see the house I wanted to buy. While she really...

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cynicalandoutspoken She calls him her boyfriend but he lives like 900 miles away and they never saw each other but still in her mind they were "dating". The rule in this house is no going out on physical dates until you are 16. She knows that now. Thanks for wishing me luck. I'm...

28 Feb 10

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cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 28 Feb 10

Buy a house in the middle of her 8th grade school year in a different school district. Not only will it destroy your daughter it will make your life and everyone else's life in the family a living he11. This is the...

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cynicalandoutspoken Her father lives .5 mile from us now and when we move he will only be 12 miles away. Her father already agreed the last time we were in court over her that he would not petition to stop a move as long as we didn't leave the county. Well we aren't leaving the...

28 Feb 10

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cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 27 Feb 10

Let me start off by saying that a less rational woman would have killed their first born and paid the cell phone company in pounds of flesh. I just grounded her. The story goes like this: For my 13 year olds birthday in...

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cynicalandoutspoken LoL. I'm actually I read some of his text messages (which is like a mortal sin) but anyway...there was one where he wrote "kises ur nek softly w/ arms round ur waste" Now I understand that when texting you abbreviate and make up words but...

27 Feb 10

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cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 27 Feb 10

Let me start off by saying that a less rational woman would have killed their first born and paid the cell phone company in pounds of flesh. I just grounded her. The story goes like this: For my 13 year olds birthday in...

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cynicalandoutspoken You're absolutely right. Surprisingly though she did not ask or beg or anything for the phone. He did it all on his own. He claims he missed texting her. I know all too well what he is up to. My husband and I just bought our first house...

27 Feb 10

cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 27 Feb 10

Let me start off by saying that a less rational woman would have killed their first born and paid the cell phone company in pounds of flesh. I just grounded her. The story goes like this: For my 13 year olds birthday in...

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cynicalandoutspoken Hi Hatley! I can't believe how much I have missed mylot. lol Unfortunately she can't get a job until she is in 9th grade which won't be until September 2010. But that's okay. Her birthday is going to happen before her bill is paid off. She isn't having a party...

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cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 27 Feb 10

Let me start off by saying that a less rational woman would have killed their first born and paid the cell phone company in pounds of flesh. I just grounded her. The story goes like this: For my 13 year olds birthday in...

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cynicalandoutspoken Hi Cat! I missed you :) And the first thing I did when I got the bill was call "Mr. Oregon heart throb" and speak to his parents. He is in fact a 14 year old underachiever from No Where, Oregon. I think you may be on to something with the "leave the phone...

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cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 27 Feb 10

Let me start off by saying that a less rational woman would have killed their first born and paid the cell phone company in pounds of flesh. I just grounded her. The story goes like this: For my 13 year olds birthday in...

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cynicalandoutspoken He put her on his plan so she has already been informed that she will NEVER have a cell phone attached to my name/bill EVER again. As for the length of time she is going to be punished....I have little choice. PSSA testing starts in April and I can't have her...

27 Feb 10

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p1kef1sh @p1kef1sh (45681) 27 Feb 10

Are you ever troubled by the wind? Does it sneak out at the most inappropriate moments? Do you rumble and squeak like an old boiler only for nothing to happen and then be quiet and placid as a lake in summer when a sudden squall...

windy

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cynicalandoutspoken The more I think about it...We are having bacon and cheese omelets for dinner. My husband is going to be sleeping on the couch.

27 Feb 10

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cynicalandoutspoken @cynicalandoutspoken (4725) • United States 27 Feb 10

Do you tell your partner when you aren't "in the mood" or Do you just lay there and let them go through the motions until they are satisfied? Whichever you choose, how does your partner respond?

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cynicalandoutspoken I find that very hard to believe. About your memory I'm referring. I will not comment on anything you and your wife have licked.

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