Deja88

@Deja88 (113)

United States • Age 36

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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i get ABUSED at home...what should i do?

PiperCharmed @PiperCharmed (457) • Australia 24 Feb 07

i live in a house with my mother, two brothers and my mothers boyfriend. for a long time he has been hitting me. its not always hard enough to leave a bruise but sometimes it is. i love my mum so much and know she loves him, if...

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Deja88 And maybe...just maybe your brothers are being abused too. Do they know about it?

25 Feb 07

i get ABUSED at home...what should i do?

PiperCharmed @PiperCharmed (457) • Australia 24 Feb 07

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Deja88 Im positive your mom would understand...what mother wants to truly be with a man who abuses her children? She might be hurt but she could stop it if you gave her the chance.

25 Feb 07

Death penalty...right or wrong?

PiperCharmed @PiperCharmed (457) • Australia 13 Feb 07

i don't really think the answer is the death penalty...i think life in prison is the way to go. i mean if you put a murderer to death you are no better than he/she... Do u think the death penalty is right or wrong?

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Deja88 I think the death penalty is wrong. Thinking about it is just as bad as doing it. Wouldn't that be the case there? Basically, you're the person whose killing this person by giving them the death penalty.

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Would you date an inmate?

Thomas73 @Thomas73 (1467) • Switzerland 13 Feb 07

If you like muscular torsos, crew cuts and tattoos, and still haven't got a date for Valentine's Day, go and check out www.hotprisonpals.com. Some of America's most desirable felons are lining up to send you love letters, poems...

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Deja88 Well, I write to 3 different inmates. I think everyone deserves a second chance. I enjoy it and I like the idea of puting a smile on someones face. If I were interested in someone enough and felt like something more could become of it, of course I'd date a...

24 Feb 07

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Man gets 17 months in jail for stealing a soda :/

shywolf @shywolf (4514) • United States 24 Feb 07

I think that it's sad that a man just recently got 17 months jail time for stealing a soda (this man also was homeless and known to be mentally ill) while it seems like criminals with much harsher crimes are going free, or...

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Deja88 The man was homeless? Well, at least now he's being fed 3 times a day and has a roof over his head. Seriously...he's probably better off there than he is in the streets, think about it.

24 Feb 07

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Job

ownado @ownado (1679) • Portugal 18 Feb 07

Hi there. Did you ever thought you were going to work in what you work nowadays when you're a kid? I ask this because I'm sure there's lot of people around here that said they were going to have some kind of job that they don't...

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Deja88 Honestly, I'm doing exactly what I thought I'd be doing growing up. Being a cashier at a grocery store lol Hope I don't retire there.

18 Feb 07

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opinions on husband situation

sarah6153 @sarah6153 (57) • United States 18 Feb 07

well, my husband and I have been together for approx. 3 years and have one two year old son. he has an unruptured brain aneurysm and could fix it through a coiling procedure where they go through the artery in his groin all the...

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Deja88 I'd go through with having it done. Doctors are very up to date with what they're doing and not very often do you hear of a person dieing in surgery. At least with the surgery he has a chance of living. :) But like I said, doctors know what they're...

18 Feb 07

Do you worry about the lyrics in songs today?

KrazyK8 @KrazyK8 (190) • Canada 17 Feb 07

I recently head a song that sang "B***H Stop Calling Me" and I was very disturbed by this. I thought to myself, if this is they type of stuff that kids today are listening to over and over everyday how are they going to grow up to...

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Deja88 I think the parents shouldn't allow them to have that sort of music in their house. Not much else you can do about it being played just don't allow it to be in your house. In a way, you can't blame the music though. Kids know right from wrong...I don't think...

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do you collect books?

noah2413 @noah2413 (404) • United States 17 Feb 07

does anyone here collect books? What i mean is that is there anyone who keeps a lot of books that he/she never looks back too but, you tend to your collection? I have lots of books i keep on my special bookshelves, and i keep only...

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Deja88 I have a few books I'm collecting. I started collecting them in middle school. Our English teacher gave us a scholastic bookform to order from. I have 5 of the 20 books. I intend to use amazon to find the others. They're a series called "Heartland" .. about a...

18 Feb 07

True Tear Jerkers---What Movies Made you Cry?

mzbubblie @mzbubblie (3839) • United States 17 Feb 07

I love watching movies and there are some movies that I just can't help that makes me cry...Yes I'm one who will cry at the movie theathers or even at home if the movie touched me... Movies such as The Shawshank Redemption,...

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Deja88 There's been so many movies that made me cry. All the Kings Men made me cry. Best political movie I'd ever saw. I liked the Green Mile as well...The Notebook made me cry...Passion of the Christ made me bawl my eyes out. I cried from beginning to end. Million...

17 Feb 07

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I'm not getting paid this month....

reinydawn @reinydawn (11643) • United States 17 Feb 07

Ok, I have finally come to accept that I will not "earn" enough in Februray to get paid from mylot... Right now, I am at $4.08 and it's half-way though the month. That means that I should only make a little over $8.00 this month -...

change

payout

reaning

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Deja88 I know what you mean by not having the time to post all day long. :) I don't either. This is the first time I've even been signed into myLot in months. Even then it took me forever to retrieve my password. I still won't post much though. I dont have the time...

17 Feb 07

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Do you color your hair? Do you change your natural color or highlight?

ShadyGrove @ShadyGrove (996) • United States 17 Feb 07

I used to color my hair to lighten it up, especially in the winter, but then I go so tired of having different colored roots . . . I have tried just the highlighting hair color and it seems to be so much easier to color just the...

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Deja88 I've colored my hair lots. Use to color it about once a month. Bleached it several times too. My hair is extremely damaged. But I haven't colored it since about August now. :) I'm gonna try to let all the color grow out of it and try to get healthy hair again....

17 Feb 07

Why are cats drawn to chess sets?

librarian @librarian (181) • United States 12 Feb 07

Whenver you set up a chess set, a cat feels it necessary to check it out. Why?

Deja88 Whenver you set up a chess set, a cat feels it necessary to check it out. Why?

12 Feb 07

teens having babies!

amber8942 @amber8942 (110) • United States 6 Nov 06

Im having one! and im 17....im so happy!

babies

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Deja88 As long as you're happy I guess. Teens having kids nowadays isn't anything new. I'm 18 and don't want kids anytime soon. Probably never. I dont have the patience for them unfortunately. Wish you the best.

7 Nov 06

Do you kiss on the first date?

meyoni @meyoni (352) • United States 5 Nov 06

Sometimes I want too, but I like the excitement of waiting.

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Deja88 Yess, I think it somehow makes things more exciting...:)

5 Nov 06

who's married, who's in a relationship and who's single?

keecou @keecou (188) • Egypt 27 Sep 06

i am single..u?(",)

love

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Deja88 it's a debateable answer....im neither I don't guess.

28 Sep 06

Is it possible to love again once that you loved and failed?

restlessguy @restlessguy (812) • India 16 Sep 06

I just cant get that girl out of memory.Will i ever get out of this depression?

love

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Deja88 Eventually...sometimes it just takes some time to do it. :) I know the feeling tho...just...I think about a particular guy all the time. After years though, its let up a bit. :) ;)

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My sister is a Lesbian and she wants me to tell our parents

MrsFrizzle @MrsFrizzle (1963) • United States 25 Sep 06

My sister recently came out to me and has been dating a female for the last 8 months. Thay are very happy and are considering hjaving a marriage...

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Deja88 Wow, I don't know what I'd do if I had to tell my mom I was lesbian. (Im not by the way) .. but if it happened, I wouldn't even know where to begin. I guess I'd tell em I needed to know I had their support through anything first off...Wait...first off I would...

25 Sep 06

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