dreamjapan

@dreamjapan (409)

Japan • Age 62

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Weather could affect your feeling or not

kevinll @kevinll (967) • China 28 Jan 10

I don't care more about the change of weather. However my feeling could be affected by weather. On rainy day I can remember some bygone,especially the bad feeling. I feel tired and just want to sleep. If in sunny day I have more...

life

weather

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dreamjapan The weather really affects me. I don't want it to but it does. Today is bright, the sun is out, it's windy but nice. So I have been out putting leaflets to advertise my buisness. But I know when it is raining all I want to do is stay home and read!

29 Jan 10

how old are your children and what activities do you with them for fun?

karma118 @karma118 (294) • United States 22 Jan 10

My children are 3 and 5 and I'm quickly running out of ideas to do on rainy/snowy/icey days! We have done arts and crafts, movie days, family games. I need some ideas and want to know the ages of your children as well. We've done...

activities

children

kids

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dreamjapan Hi, My kids are a bit older now, 18 down to 7. But one thing we would do when the weather was bad was have a baking day. The kids loved playing in the flour, and I have loads of stories of kids dumping a whole bag of flour on the floor, on each other. Also we...

23 Jan 10

Another BABY at my age?!?

koalatbs @koalatbs (2229) • United States 5 Jan 10

I don't know... I turned 40 years old in August and I have one child, a son who is 15. My husband & I have been married for going on 6 years. This is my second marriage but we do not have any children together. He definitely wants...

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dreamjapan I had my first baby just short of my 30th birthday and my 4th just before my 40th birthday. My health has never been great and my pregnancys hard but I wouldn't be with out my kids. A friend of mine had all her kids after 40 years old. She was in an awful...

6 Jan 10

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Let my baby cry?

jhess3366 @jhess3366 (67) • United States 30 Dec 09

So my baby is now almost 4 months old and she cries alot. Even after I have made sure she is A-Ok in every aspect she still cries to be held....all the time. Its my fault because I am at home all day and I cater to her. How can I...

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dreamjapan I think 4 months is too young to late a baby cry it out. I tried it once with my oldest son but he cried for 10 minuetes then I gave in!! I carried him all the time he cried, I bought a baby sling and had him with me most of the time, or my husband had him....

1 Jan 10

Happy new year!How do you feel the coming of new year?

shahalashamo @shahalashamo (166) • China 31 Dec 09

Happy new year,everyone!The first day of 2010 is coming,I am excited.How about you?This morning,I received many messages from my friends.Everyone greet with each other.New year means new life and new hope.No matter how good or...

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dreamjapan Happy New Year! Last year we moved and started a new buisness, so I am very exicited to grow my business this year. Also this year my 2nd son will start high school, my 3rd son will start junior high and my oldest can get his drivers licence! Lots happening,...

31 Dec 09

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What do you do with all these toys after Christmas?

Ambreya3 @Ambreya3 (100) • United States 28 Dec 09

My 10 month old has more toys than he will ever need after this Christmas. What are some ways you help calm your clutter of toys? I'm new to this, ha ha! I know some people give away/donate their old toys to make room for new...

clutter

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dreamjapan Get rid of them!! They multiply and take over the house!! Just joking! I tried all sort of things to get the toy situation under control but nothing worked. Fortually my kids are older (oldest almost 18!) but one thing I did when the boys were babies was to...

29 Dec 09

Are you glad Christmas is over?

CharRay7 @CharRay7 (1549) • United States 25 Dec 09

Surely I'm not the only one that is glad Christmas is over. Why?? Well let's see. Christmas has totally been commercialized. We start hearing about Christmas well before Halloween and by now, I have heard enough. I'm tired of the...

christmas

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dreamjapan I love Christmas. But the past couple of years have been tough. Last year because we (4 kids, hubby and myself) were living with my MIL who turned out to be a very selfish abusive woman. This year was tough because I was trying very hard to make up for last...

28 Dec 09

what you get this christmas?

jensky888 @jensky888 (98) 28 Dec 09

Merry christmas to all!Me I got nothing this christmas =( except my bonus.. huhuh But its okay I made my family happy..Coz i sent them some money to celebrate Christmas eve.. how bout you? can you share us what you get this...

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dreamjapan All I got was a cold! But my kids had a good Christmas which after last year was all I wanted, to see their happy faces!!

28 Dec 09

Do you think that you are a better mother than your own mother???

ruchimom @ruchimom (280) • Australia 13 Dec 09

The reason why I came up with this topic is very simple.My mother was very a very controlling,demanding and a very aggressive woman.I just wanted to grow up quickly because of her.We never had any special mother daughter...

motherhood

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dreamjapan I don't know if it is possible to compare among generations. I think my Mom did the best she could with the understanding of her position as a mother and what that meant. I used to think my Mom wasn't a good Mom but then I realised that she never knew her own...

14 Dec 09

Remembering Mother.....

ponderosa12 @ponderosa12 (21) • United States 14 Dec 09

I was one of those fortunate people to have had a loving balanced caring Mother. As a child , Mom always took time for me no matter what. This has been so helpful to me as an adult. I can remember her studying at the table with...

mom love tenderness memories

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dreamjapan Thank you for sharing such a lovely memory. Sometimes it is the smallest things we remember of our mothers. I lost my Mom five years ago to cancer but I have so many memories of her and I am sharing them with my kids. My Mom loved Christmas time, she would...

14 Dec 09

How many times do you get up in the morning thinking that it is Great Day

ruchimom @ruchimom (280) • Australia 14 Dec 09

I was wondering how many of us get up in the morning not cranky but just thinking that it is going to be a great day. How many times do you wonder looking outside you window what is so special about today? Or do you think that...

mornings

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dreamjapan Only on days that the kids don't have school. School days are hell here, my kids HATE school but they have to go!! On days when there is no school I get up with a lot of enthusaism and determination to do a lot of things. Life is very precious and I am trying...

14 Dec 09

Do You Like Ironing?

Janey1966 @Janey1966 (24170) • Carlisle, England 14 Dec 09

Third time lucky, the other 2 were rejected. I will keep this brief. Do you like ironing and would you like more time to do it in? I am lucky in the fact that I do not work so I am not tired when I actually start the ironing. If I...

chores

ironing

mylot

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dreamjapan I hate ironing and will only iron what needs to be done. I blame my Mom for this, she ironed everything and I mean EVERYTHING, underware, towels, beding, even the curtains!!! Sunday evenings were her big ironing time, getting school uniforms ready for the new...

14 Dec 09

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My intellegent daughter..

kuloor @kuloor (93) • India 10 Dec 09

She is 7 1/2 yrs old and she is studying in class 2. She got 1st rank at school level and at state level, and 13th rank in national level of NCO(national cyber olympiad) exam... She is very clever and her graspping power is more...

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dreamjapan Congratualations on your daughters achievements. Kids really are a blessing. I have four from 17 to 7 and have enjoyed each stage of their development. But time seems to be flying by and I keep wishing it would stop so I can savour each second more. This...

13 Dec 09

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Birthday Parties

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 12 Dec 09

Well, my daughter turned seven a couple of weeks ago but we haven't had a birthday party with her friends yet because she hasn't cleaned up her bedroom. We told her that she was allowed to have a friends birthday party only after...

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dreamjapan I'm wondering if your daughter knows what she needs to do. I know with my kids, especially my 11 year old and 7 year old if I say clean up your room they look lost. But if I say clearly put your clean clothes in the drawes, books on the book shelves etc it...

13 Dec 09

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How I dream....

sagnik42 @sagnik42 (3592) • India 13 Dec 09

...of a world without any partition, boundaries, discrimination, religion and war. These are the things that cause so much trouble. What do you think? This world is all divided. So much division is never good. Division always...

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dreamjapan I think we start where we are. We become informed citizens of our countries and vote (if possible) for people who can change the world to a better place. We also start in our families, our communities, our schools and places of worship. Each day we try to be...

13 Dec 09

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I'm a complainer!

blue65packer @blue65packer (11826) • United States 23 Oct 09

So I am a complainer! I always have been and as I get older I do more! It is part of me! This why I want to leave Mylot! I feel like I'm the only complainer on Mylot! If you are sick of my complaining don't respond to my...

that is part of me

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dreamjapan Hi, I just had a look at your profile and I don't see you as a complainer. As for doing more complaining as we get older I agree on that. We are the same age and my complaints are piling up, along with the pounds I'll never loose, the pain in my neck (no...

1 Nov 09

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First awful thing my daughter has said!

swilbur85 @swilbur85 (75) • United States 30 Oct 09

I have a beautiful daughter that is almost three. She is learning new words every day. Two days ago I asked her to clean up her toys and she came up to me and said,"Momma Stupid". Okay, this just broke my heart. I didn't even know...

daughter

mom

parenting

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dreamjapan Kids will repeat everything they hear! I live in Japan and never use to cuss (after I lived with my MIL for a year that changed!!). One day my 6 year old son came home from school and said the f word. I was so shocked that he learnt an English cuss word at a...

1 Nov 09

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Lord of the ring- The Movie vs The book

nautilus33 @nautilus33 (1827) 30 Oct 09

Hi, MyLoters! Well, what do you think- is the book more captivating then the film or isn't it? In the movie you can see the effects, the people, the action, but the book is tenser. I want you to share your opinion.

book

lotr

movie

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dreamjapan I loved the book, read all three in four days, just couldn't stop. I think the movie is good except a whole chapter was left out, I guess no choice. One thing that the movie had going for it was the scale of the wars, it is hard to imagine thousands of troops...

31 Oct 09

Are you irritated when people lie to you ?

xinerbeauty @xinerbeauty (32) • China 30 Oct 09

HI everyone ,are you irritated when people lie to you ?Did you lie to some one before ?Under what conditions are you tempt to lie ?When have you actually lied ?Why did you do so ? In what circumstances might lying be acceptable ?

irritate

lies

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dreamjapan I get beyond irritated when people lie to me. My family is in the midst of a crisis because somebody lied to us, asked us to lie for her and then made us out to be the bad guys. I was taught to never lie and that is what I have taught my kids, telling a small...

31 Oct 09

I've Finally Won On The Lottery!

Louc74 @Louc74 (620) 31 Oct 09

Like millions of others, I've played our lottery, week in, week out, since it began (I'm guessing that must be around 15 years now), and apart from the one time I won £93, and a couple of tenners, I've not won my fortune...

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dreamjapan My Mom always did the lottery and never really won, I think 100 pounds once or twice. Here in Japan they have a Lotto 6 which is similar to the UK lottery, I have never bothered with it. But twice a year they have a big lottery where you buy the tickets with...

31 Oct 09

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