Sensei

@early3 (60)

Philippines

Joined myLot 13 years ago

www.earlynnezulueta.com

Responses (19)

Sensei's Responses

What Makes A Discussion 'Likeable'

jaishankar @else34 (13515) • New Delhi, India 21 Jan 16

What should I do? Should I like and comment on a discussion just because the initiator has been liking and commenting on my discussions?Or,should I like and comment on a discussion only if it impresses me?

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initiator

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Sensei You are not being forced to like or comment to any discussions that you read here. If it impresses you and you feel like you have something to share or contribute then go for it! If you like the topic, the comments then click the "like" button but if you have...

22 Jan 16

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Do You Prefer Money Or Gifts For Birthdays?

Gudheart @gudheart (12659) 21 Jan 16

I have a slight dilemma as it is my niece's birthday on Friday and my Nephew's birthday in February. I know they would obviously prefer toys because they are both very young, but part of me wants to give them some money too to but...

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Sensei For me both. Why? If the birthday celebrant is still a kid it is much better to buy them with toys or things that they need the most and will be appreciated later when they grow older. Things that are useful to them that they can keep and cherish the giver....

22 Jan 16

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it's normal to have arguments over money?

alina @swissheart (6482) • Romania 14 Jan 16

we moved together last year in march and up until now we haven't had any problem when it comes to money now I don;t understand what the hell is wrong with my boyfriend but he's acting all weird. he expects me to do all the...

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Sensei Better to have a heart-to-heart talk with your boyfriend and discuss with him what you think and feel. By doing this you will be avoiding further discussions that may lead to an endless arguments.

15 Jan 16

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Taking on odd jobs if there are any

maxen07 @maxen07 (882) • Philippines 14 Jan 16

People I met online would say that economy in the US is not doing great as they used to. To the eyes of someone like me who live in a developing country, if you can pay other people to do odd jobs for you then you're doing fine. I...

work from home

money

earn money

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Sensei Nowadays money is really hard since oil prices are going down and so some basic commodities are soaring high. What I can share with you is why don't you try doing surveys online. There are a lot of legitimate sites that are free to register. Additionally,...

15 Jan 16

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How do you inspire your children to study?

Metatronik @Metatronik (6199) • Pasay, Philippines 26 Mar 12

Do you explain to your kids regarding the significance of studying in school? How do you motivate them to study? How do you explain to your kid that he/she is studying in school in order for him/her to learn and he/she is not...

children

study

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Sensei Yes, I motivate and encourage them the importance of education. One method I used was play and learn technique. Playing at the same time learning. You must be creative enough to teach them fun activities that will entice them to participate.

26 Mar 12

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Will you take careof your parents when thery're old and gray?

eljayo @eljayo (1105) • Philippines 26 Mar 12

Hi guys!for those who have parents its time to think about this stuff. Our parents were the first person who took care of us. Until now that I am a already professional my parents still look after me,like cooking for me,texting...

geriatric

parents

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Sensei Of course! Think of it this way...sooner or later we will also grow old like them and being their children we are responsible to take good care of them in return. We owe them what we are now. We will not grow up to be responsible individuals without their...

26 Mar 12

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I lost my appetite :(

zaahro @zaahro (748) • Indonesia 11 Jan 12

I don't know why but in the last three days I don't eat like usual. It is holiday and I am alone in my boarding house, I just don't want to move my body to reach the food. I am not in a good mood to swallow the food, I don't even...

food

health

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Sensei Why not take vitamins or any food supplements that will enhance your eagerness to eat food. Being alone sometimes is one of the reasons why you have lost your appetite.And being busy is another one because your mind is pre-occupied by a lot of things that you...

12 Jan 12

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money can it spoil friend ship?

surya389 @surya389 (19) 11 Jan 12

hi.I am in a very embaracing situation.I gave my friend some money while he was in need and after that i forgot it.after somedays i was in urgent need of money i informed him before hand itself ie. before 7 days.that i need my...

friend

friendship

money

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Sensei Yes. You will know a person's character when it comes to money especially when its payback time. Some people forget that they owe somebody once they get what they need from you. Although not all but majority. They say money is the root of all evil only if you...

12 Jan 12

Online Classes

Flirtykumquat @Flirtykumquat (927) • United States 11 Jan 12

Well last May I decided to go back to school and I have been taking online classes. I should be done this summer with my AA and in the fall I will be attending a university. I like online classes so far because it does not mess up...

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Sensei There is nothing wrong taking classes via online. There is not much difference.All the more it will be convenient for you because you save time and effort going to and from your regular classes in school. Besides, you can take or schedule on your own pace same...

12 Jan 12

how long does it take for a broken heart to heal?

abegail_tupia @abegail_tupia (4) • Philippines 20 Dec 11

it may be for a month, a year or forever. my personal experience gives me a month only. i allowed myself to cry almost everyday but i never forget marking the calendar reminding myself of the days left for me to mourn. the thing...

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Sensei Depends, there are some who took them six months while the others only a month. The deepness of the pain really counts. Its how you accept the pain and the mourning. You can mourn everyday for 24 hours a day so the healing process will be quick. Although there...

21 Dec 11

Can you just sit back and wait for things to happen? Or must you be in control?

vivasuzi @vivasuzi (4127) • United States 20 Dec 11

I'm usually a planner. I like to know the when's and where's of everything we are going to be doing. I can be spontaneous to a point, but in general I like to plan - especially when it involves other people. I get antsy if I have...

occasions

planning

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Sensei As for me, I am both. I wanted to plan like you so that things may turn out for the better with careful planning. What I do is plan ahead, assess, execute and monitor what will happen next. And the wait and see thing, there are circumstances that is beyond...

21 Dec 11

Do you think it's okay to fight?

bnsp09 @bnsp09 (258) • United States 20 Dec 11

I know many couples who do a lot of fighting in their relationship but they love each other more then anything. Do you think it's okay to fight? My man & I have fights and we would never dream of living without each other but when...

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Sensei Don't worry, its okay to fight as long as you do not reach to a point where you will hit each other because this may probably lead to separation. Couples and any other relationships fight and it is normal. In the end everything will turn out alright and your...

21 Dec 11

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His Mom is a Pimp

bingskee @bingskee (5234) • Philippines 20 Dec 11

Heard about this concern on the radio. A 20-yr old son discovered that his mom is a pimp, or a flesh-peddler. The mom is the breadwinner. I was not sure if she is a single mom because the discussion with an expert was already...

flesh trade

pimp

prostitution

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Sensei In this time and age nobody seems to care what kind of a job you have as long as you can feed your family. If the mom has no other means to be employed in a decent way maybe she has no other alternative but to do so. Irregardless of any situation she was...

21 Dec 11

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Are gifts for teachers bribes?

incredibleDNA @incredibleDNA (1742) • Philippines 15 Dec 11

I just found this article and it says that they are making a law that teachers could be in jail, and pay $6000 fine for receiving gifts. I don't think this is appropriate as Christmas is a time for gift and love giving. I think...

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Sensei Giving a gift to a teacher means an appreciation for what the teacher imparted on the students. I am a teacher also and accepts gifts from my students. More or less the teacher knows if the gift given to her is intended for something in return or not. And of...

16 Dec 11

are you a reserved person?

mysticeyes17 @mysticeyes17 (33) • Philippines 16 Dec 11

my friends said that i don't talk much,whenever we have a get together,they always tell that i don't talk about what are the things that keeps me busy or what are my interests as if i'm not open to them that's why they don't know...

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Sensei Individuals have varied opinions and characters. We can choose who to open up with and what. You can be open with them on certain matters but always put a limitation. You can confide with your best friend whatever you think and feel. And maybe you on the other...

16 Dec 11

Relationship without Trust

jhessykhatyhan @jhessykhatyhan (1) 13 Dec 11

Do you think that the Relationship can still be working on even you can't trust that person anymore?

relationship without trust

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Sensei I don't think so. Trust and Respect are two of the most important factors in any relationship be it with our parents, friends or partner. Have a heart to heart talk, it will resolve any current problem.

14 Dec 11