elansim

@elansim (9)

New Zealand • Age 60

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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dreadlocks

billgatexp @billgatexp (912) • United States 7 Apr 09

some say anyone born with dreadlocks is somewhat devilish but i really think its a joke and cant be true.. people turn their hair to dreadlocks these days as part of fashion and i would like to know your opinions about...

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elansim some say anyone born with dreadlocks is somewhat devilish but i really think its a joke and cant be true.. people turn their hair to dreadlocks these days as part of fashion and i would like to know your opinions about dreadlocks... do you like or dislike...

7 Apr 09

Internet Affairs - Have you had one?

HeavenUnaware @HeavenUnaware (1757) • United States 27 Jan 07

Have any of you married people met someone online by accident, started talking as friends and then realized that you had alot in common.. then before you knew it, you were having an online relationship or affair with them? What...

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elansim I met someone online 4 years ago, we started chatting in a chat room, and moved to private messaging. We were both married at the time, my marriage fell to pieces about a year after we met, he is still married and I would expect his spouse never to find out....

11 Mar 07

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Long distant relationships?

beautifulleyes @beautifulleyes (1265) • India 23 Feb 07

I've been speaking with a guy for over a year, and we're super close, to the point where we e-mail eachother everyday. BUt he lives in US, but theres still the attraction between us and we chat and talk. Can a long distance...

long distance

relationship

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elansim I have had a long distance relationship with a man in America for the past 4 years, we have met once in that time, we are committed to each other and have sorted out most hurdles there has been to overcome. But every day I miss him and there has been times its...

10 Mar 07

Move More

ajit25 @ajit25 (1008) • India 7 Feb 09

Make it a daily challenge to find ways to move your body. climb stairs if given a choice between that and escalators or elevators. Walk your god; chase your kids; toss balls with friends, mow the lawn. Anything that moves your...

exercise

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elansim Make it a daily challenge to find ways to move your body. climb stairs if given a choice between that and escalators or elevators. Walk your god; chase your kids; toss balls with friends, mow the lawn. Anything that moves your limbs is not only a fitness tool,...

7 Feb 09

Best Lovers

butterfly10954 @butterfly10954 (55) • United States 3 Mar 07

What nationality of man makes the best lover and why?

love

lovers

sex

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elansim Not New Zealand men, they are clumsy and have terrible staying power I always seek out americans because they at least say 'thankyou'!!

3 Mar 07

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Moms, how old are you children?

mckinneymommie @mckinneymommie (3) • United States 2 Mar 07

Hi to all the mom's here on mylot. I'm new and don't know the ropes, but I'm so open for any discussions about the kiddo's. I was wondering, from the moms, how old are your kids? Mine are all teens. Jacob is the youngest, he's...

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elansim Hi, I am new too and still feeling my way around, I have 6 children aged 19, 16, 11, 10, 7 and 5. My eldest left home last year and I felt it was the right time for him to go so it wasnt too hard but I do miss him.

2 Mar 07

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DO YOU BELIEVE IN CYBER RELATIONSHIPS?

AMW1982 @AMW1982 (57) • United States 6 Nov 06

Do you believe in cyber relationships and why? I dont think so, cause you have not met the person in person.

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elansim I dont think you need to meet someone in person to know them if they are being completely honest. You can learn so much about a persons soul and all that is left to find out about them is how they truly look, their mannerisms, etc.

2 Mar 07

Do you keep your dog/s inside the house or outside?

Bee1955 @Bee1955 (3882) • United States 1 Mar 07

Many people have different opinions or customs. When I was young, we kept our German Shephard and Airdale outside all the time in their confy doghouses in our fenced in yard. Only when the temps became too low for the straw in...

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elansim Before we got a dog, I said I would have it sleeping outside, and not an 'inside' dog, but we ended up getting a beautiful older Golden retriever, and was told he was an inside dog, he sure is, he sleeps in everyones way, he sheds hair over everything, it even...

2 Mar 07

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