elokps

@elokps (138)

Indonesia • Age 52

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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How years old do you want to get married?

boa9966 @boa9966 (34) • China 12 Apr 10

Have you ever imagined your family life? Yes,I have!That must be happiness and intersting,I can prepare food for my honey,because I like cooking so much,especially cook for my family~ But how years old do you want to get...

get married

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elokps I wanted to get married in 27 years old because it's an ideal age to build a family especially for woman considering woman will get pregnant and born babies so it relate to woman's health. But too bad until now I still not get married. I don't know if it's ok...

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Is it okay to fall in love with someone younger than you?

hunterkim_07 @hunterkim_07 (458) • Philippines 11 Apr 10

This is from a girl's perspective because it's the usual scenario for the guys. But for girls, is it a big deal when we fall in love with a guy younger (2 years or more) than us? What are the disadvantages and advantages? Who's...

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elokps For me it doesn't matter haveing boyfriend younger than me. My boyfriend now is 14 years younger than me but until now we still enjoy our relationship and we happy with that. At first I always tried to reject him but he kept convince me that he doesn't care...

14 Apr 10

Have you smiled today?

mimpi @mimpi1911 (25464) • India 6 Apr 10

I wont ask, how you are or are things good with you. I would just want to know, have you smiled today? I feel, that's the most important thing that gets us going and nothing pays us more than a genuine sweet smile. It has...

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elokps yes of course I smiled today. I smile everyday in my life because I love to do it. Today my first smile was with my house owner. I rent a room at a house and I always meet my house owner in the morning when I go to work. I said hi to her and keep smiling when...

9 Apr 10

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What is your favorite past time?

allenbucks @allenbucks (289) • Philippines 23 Jun 09

What did you usually do when you have nothing to do? Well if I have nothing to do, my favorite past time is playing basketball. It's my favorite sport. It's a good exercise to your body. And not only that, you can also meet new...

past time

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elokps when I have nothing to do sometimes I will ride my motorbike and go around city and sometimes go out alone to movie and dining. But when there's nothing to do while I'm so lazy to go out then I will read book and listen music loudly in my ear.

9 Apr 10

secret thing to do to make him/her calling you back even texting you:)

anitarei321 @anitarei321 (548) • Japan 5 Apr 10

is about a month that i don`t know nothing about my closed friend,he is gone as smock i call him he not answer it i send text message i don`t get nothing.i am so worry,angry,mad,sad,lonely i miss him some how just need to know...

secret

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elokps It also happened to me once with my ex boyfriend. Suddenly he didn't contact me ,no call or send text message. I tried many times to call or send him message but he ignored me, he never answered my call or text. I was so sad,angry and didn't what to do , I...

9 Apr 10

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love

dr0czh @dr0czh (53) • China 6 Apr 10

I need help. these days I feel depressed because I haven't find the job yet.It's one month since I quit my last job.I am losing my confidence and I don't wanna meet my friends and go out to play.and I offen quarrel with my boy...

love

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elokps just relax and take it easy. in life sometimes we down and sometimes we up. I think you are in down now but it's ok you have to accept this condition and start pray to God. You have to keep stay contact with your friends, go out with them and play with them....

9 Apr 10

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Weekends

frissph @frissph (130) • Philippines 26 Feb 10

How do you spend the weekends usually? I spend the weekends as time for rest and with my kids. Most of the time I'm during weekdays and I can only fully enjoy my kids during weekends. I also sleep a lot during the weekends...

weekends

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elokps because I still not married and not have kids,on my weekend I mostly spend it with my friends , my parents , my brothers and their family. I go to movie with my friends and sometimes alone, go to coffeeshop, bookstore, mall, dinner with friends or family and...

2 Mar 10

How will you know if you have found the RIGHT one?

hunterkim_07 @hunterkim_07 (458) • Philippines 1 Mar 10

How will you exactly know if the RIGHT one has already arrived in your life? Haven't been in a relationship though, that's why I want to know some opinions. Thanks.

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elokps we really don't know who's the right one for us because sometimes you feel that he is the right one for you but as the time passes by and you know the real him and you not match with him anymore ,so do you still think that he is the right one for you?

2 Mar 10

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When having karaoke party, do you sing or just listen and cheer?

dragonangel @dragonangel (551) 28 Feb 10

I love music and there are times when I enjoy having karaoke with my friends.I like the thought of it but I usually find myself more as the listener and the cheerer.I like it that way as I enjoy listening to my friends hitting...

music

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elokps I enjoy having karaoke with friends by singing , listenginand cheering. Sometimes I sing alone and sometimes I sing together with friends. Even our vocal not goood but we really enjoying karaoke. Cheering my friends when they are singing is also enjoying and...

2 Mar 10

Do you wash your new clothes?

atleya @atleya (946) • Indonesia 14 Jan 10

After I buy new clothes, it is usually I wear it directly without wash it. Just now, I read an article about the need to wash new clothes before wear it. And I am just aware it. That article I think it is correct. There is...

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elokps yes of course i will wash my new clothes frist before wear it. You know new clothes look like it is clean but in fact that there are many bacteria on it on the way they produce those clothes until on our hand. also in shop there are many people that touched...

19 Jan 10

When was the last time you went swimming?

ladym33 @ladym33 (10979) • United States 18 Jan 10

The last time I swam anywhere was on our vacation back in July at the hotel. When was the last time you went swimming?

swimming

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elokps last time i went swimming when i was on vacation with my friend last year in Thailand. We had good time there and we swam on beach with clean sea water and there are many fishes around us. It's so nice. we also did snorkeling . those all happened last year.

18 Jan 10

if i could turn back time, i would...

donnakristel @donnakristel (1704) • Philippines 18 Jan 10

did you ever wish that you ca hit the pause or rewind in your life? for me, yes, i want to hit rewind. i want to choose better choices and change the decisions i made in my life. -like what course to take in college -like...

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elokps if i could turn back the time i wish i will back when i was in college because at that time i was so much in love with a guy and he also loved me but don't know why suddenly he left me and didn't want to see me anymore. Even when I met him that time he didn't...

18 Jan 10

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Do you still remember your frist date? Were you nervous?

vivianchen @vivianchen (2646) • China 15 Jan 10

Good Day,mylottors, i am curious how old were you when you have your first date? Were you nervous? I remembered mine. I was 16 years old, and this boy has a crash on me, so he called me and asked me to go for a walk in the park,...

frist date

nervous

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elokps my first date was in college with my senior. I didn't know that he liked me because there are many girls around him and some of them are beautiful. I'm not beautiful as them so I didn't notice that he liked me. But suddenly without knowing he came to my hostel...

18 Jan 10

How do you fight your daily stress?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 17 Jan 10

We live in a quite stressful life, and stress is one of our worst common enemy. So, I was thinking on how you fight stress after work? What do you usually do when you get home, do you listen to music, have someone to massage for...

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habits

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elokps when got stressed i usually listen music but mostly hard beat music and dance music and sometimes i also dancing while listen that music. When got stressed much and need someone to talk then i will go to coffee shop with my friend, there we will talk about...

18 Jan 10

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How old where you when you got your first job?

UpsideDownPineapple @UpsideDownPineapple (643) • United States 20 Dec 09

Hi, I'm 23 and I have never had a "real" 9-5 type job, I've just never been able to find one and I make money by writing. It seems like people find it strange that I haven't had a job before but I feel like it's not that big...

job

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elokps I got my first job when I was 24. After graduated from university at 23 it took me 1 year to found a job. I almost desperate because of 1 year no job. I searched job almost everyday that time. Sometimes I searched alone and sometimes I searched with my friend....

21 Dec 09

What have been your happiest events of 2009?

maximax8 @maximax8 (31044) • United Kingdom 18 Dec 09

Mine have been going to Cape Town and the Garden Route in South Africa. Also it was getting my baby daughter. She was born in June and she will be 6 months old this Christmas. I really wanted to pass my practical driving test but...

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elokps my happiest events on 2009 is when i was in love with someone and we had happy moments while we were together but now I'm alone again. We broke up and he left me. But it's okay I also had happiest events with my friends on 2009. I traveled a lot around my...

19 Dec 09

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Do you use internet when you need informations?

codris @codris (781) • Italy 17 Dec 09

hi there everyone,i use internet for a lot of things, expecially to search something interesting and when i need information, in internet we can find everythig we need and much more, the only thing we can do is to choose what are...

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elokps yes i use internet if i need some information . Internet is very helpful nowadays. I like travel a lot and internet help me to find cheap flight , hotel , tour and booking online. Before I go to a place I always browse from internet to find out about that...

19 Dec 09

Do you listen music on mobile?

umer5222 @umer5222 (724) • Cyprus 18 Dec 09

As we know that mobile is very good technology in this century. Many peoples use it for call or text messages. But now these days, many peoples listen music on mobile, For me it is the best tool on the way, I do listen while...

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elokps I do listen music on mobile phone because I still not have ipod or mp4 player . I like listen music while on traveling and on journey also. everyday when I walk to office from home I always listening music from mobile phone because when we go out and listening...

19 Dec 09