gem4678

@gem4678 (220)

United States • Age 40

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My dead best friend is haunting me and I need advice... please, I'm serious...

handsomeitaliano @handsomeitaliano (1050) • United States 7 Sep 08

Ok, please bare with me here, a bit long... I had a best bud I knew since I was a baby, he died two months ago at 21 yrs of age, but I didnt find out until a few days ago (!) cuz we hadn't spoke in ages, some crap happened when we...

slipper

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gem4678 Sometimes they just want closure. You said that you two hadn't talked in a while, maybe he is wanting the closure of saying goodbye. Is there anything specific or special taht the two of you did, maybe a certain handshake or something? If so he may be wanting...

9 Sep 08

Should the baby murderer get the death sentence?

bluespace @bluespace (132) • Canada 29 Aug 08

China Arnold has been found guilty in Ohio of burning her baby to death in a microwave . Do you think she should get the death sentence? I sure do. I think anyone who kills their kids should get the chair.What do you think ? I...

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gem4678 This has got to be by far the most disturbing case I have heard of in a very long time if not ever. What is this dang world coming to, I will never understand it. We are supposed to be compassionate loving caring human race but yet over and over again we hear...

29 Aug 08

What is with Mc Cain's mind in choosing Palin as his running mate?

petiksmode @petiksmode (2983) • Philippines 29 Aug 08

what do you think? it is a surprise for everyone Sarah Palin's name was not mentioned before not until Mc Cain formerly announced who will be his running mate..i was thinking that after hilary announced to whom her support is i...

politics

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gem4678 I don't know a whole lot about her, don't think many people do, but one thing I do think the reporters had a good point on is how in the heck is Mccain going to criticize Obama for his lack of experience which is one of if not his main points, when he has now...

29 Aug 08

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hard or runny? which do you prefer?

dloveli @dloveli (4366) • United States 29 Aug 08

I hate making breakfast for my family. Everybody wants there eggs different. I like the runny yoke. My man doesnt. My daughter wants them scrambled. By the time I am finished, its time for lunch. I love it when we go out for...

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gem4678 We do over easy/ runny in our house, I don't eat the actual egg half the time I just dip my toast, but I do end up dicing the eggs up basically into scrambled for the kids they are still young. But I hate making breakfast too, it seems that by the time I get...

29 Aug 08

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Should Guys Pay Every Time and Everything?

skysuccess @skysuccess (8858) • Singapore 29 Aug 08

This is in the context of relationship. I think this is an interesting topic to go and hope that all of you can contribute your views here on whether the guys should be paying every time and for everything. There's one school that...

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gem4678 It completely depends on the couple, some men feel embarrassed if the woman pays for anything, while some women feel held back when not allowed to pay, so in this day in age it is hard to say. It is very difficult to intermix the old days of chivalry with men...

29 Aug 08

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McCain not able to run for office?

vellibiz @vellibiz (297) • United States 29 Aug 08

theres a technical fault in McCain attempt a president rather one you will never hear, we all know you have to be an American Citizen born on american soil in order to run for president. look up McCain bio and youll learn he was...

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panama canal

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gem4678 I thought there had been rumored issues of where Obama was born but this is interesting never heard about Mccain, but as long as his parents were American I don't think it would matter. Also reading some of the comments you mentioned something about him being...

29 Aug 08

Really need some input

Richard @rbailey83 (1428) • Canada 27 Aug 08

i have a theory of sorts about a possible way to approach my depression with a treatment i have already done, but i want to know if it makes sense. please be honest because if it doesn't i can continue to look at other things...

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gem4678 I don't mean to overstep my boundaries here, but my feeling on depression has always been that the only way to truly treat and "correct" depression is to face whatever it is that is making you feel that way and work it out, with the help of someone who cares....

29 Aug 08

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A mother or a killer?

Santie124 @Santie124 (30) • Norway 28 Aug 08

It happend a year ago, a mom killed her 3 little children. She killed them one by one, and put them on bed. Her husbnd is a religious guy. She said she did it coz she wantd her kids happy. By doing that,she sure that they wont...

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mother

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gem4678 I would first say that she obviously needs some help if that is how she truly felt and it wasn't just something she said to cover up, but she is a murderer, how can you ever hurt any child let alone your child/ children. I can only think I guess maybe it is...

28 Aug 08

What is your definition of a cult?

pythia7 @pythia7 (139) • United States 28 Aug 08

Is a cult just a different belief from yours or is it something else? What do you think it is? Mind control, or could that be said of all religions?

cults

mind control

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gem4678 Even though this is not the definition of a cult I see a cult as any group who practices whether it be by belief or actions or usually both that is not for the wellbeing of those in the group or others. In this I mean groups that actually harm those in there...

28 Aug 08

If you won $3 Million on a scratch-off! would you donate the whole to the church

tiptop61 @tiptop61 (60) • United States 28 Aug 08

If God to me too donate the whole thing to the church I would be if I had a choice I would give the church about $500,000 and keep the rest for family and friends!

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gem4678 Its funny but I have actually given the topic of what I would do with this much money many times. I have my own fantasy times where I dream of winning money and for some reason I always actually receive 3.2 million, but what i would do is of course secure my...

28 Aug 08

Predictions for the new season?

soooobored @soooobored (1184) • United States 28 Aug 08

Aargh!! I can't believe it starts on TUESDAY! When the show first started, I figured Dutch would be the major player in the final season. As its gone on, I definitely think he will be get a great curve ball by the end of the...

curve

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gem4678 Ya know I am not totally sure how this is going to go but both me and my husband can't wait, it seems way too long since last season I really don't remember everything, I know the big things though. I am not sure Mackey is going to go down, inevitably it will...

28 Aug 08

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are you ever too proud to apologize first

jhl930 @jhl930 (3601) • United States 28 Aug 08

ok today i didn't end my last conversation with my girlfriend in the best of terms because i think that she was a little upset and i know that i tried to say i was sorry but i think that she was a little upset still, and usually...

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gem4678 For me it very much depend on the situation and who it is dealing with, there are people that with certain situations where I am do the extent that I don't want them to get the I told you so attitude or that they were right. There are certain things that I...

28 Aug 08

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do you feel like vomiting if you see someone who is vomiting?

se7enthbird @se7enthbird (8307) • Philippines 28 Aug 08

my child has a habit that after he goes to the loo and my wife is cleaning him up he has this dentency to throw up. reason? we really dont know. he just does that. maybe he feels yucky and messy that he feels like throwing up....

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gem4678 I used to have a major problem with it, I used to nearly vomit when I simply heard someone doing it, but over time I have gotten to the point that I can somewhat handle it and am getting better. I used to feel horrible that I couldn't comfort my husband when...

28 Aug 08

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What time in your life do you best love listening to music??

andyel2023 @andyel2023 (218) • Philippines 28 Aug 08

many people love to listen to music..but sometimes there are some who dislike it especially if they are not in the mood... Me, I love listening to music, but the best time that i love to listen to it is during my senti moments......

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listen to music

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gem4678 I enjoy listening to music either when I am cleaning, mostly because it gets me off the couch lol, or when I am depressed, or in a sentimental or reflecting mood. I find that I used to listen to a lot of more up beat music but lately I have been listening to a...

28 Aug 08

honesty

shontia08 @shontia08 (846) • United States 28 Aug 08

how honest are you really? if you were walking behind someone and they were to drop some money, would you pick it up and give it to them or would you just keep it, and have the " finders keepers" attitude? maybe the store clerk...

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gem4678 I think this is a good conversational topic, and without trying to sound like I wouldn't be honest because I have been many times I don't think there are very many people if anyone who would openly admit that they would take it. Pathetic enough for those that...

28 Aug 08

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Left Behind

HoneyBee777 @HoneyBee777 (31) • United States 24 Aug 08

Has anyone read the books &/or watched the movies (The Rapture, Tribulation Fource, & World At War) that are currently out ? Let Me Know what you think ! I thank you.

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gem4678 I have all 3 movies and I love them. The first 2 were a lot better than the third but I think part of the reason for that is that one of the main characters is played by a different actor and that always effects it. Other than that though I think they are...

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abusive relationships

shontia08 @shontia08 (846) • United States 16 Jul 08

when a man like to control their wife or girlfriend, do you guys think that it's because of what they may have witness growing up, or some other reason? why is it so hard for the women to leave him? one final question, what about...

abuse relationships family

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gem4678 I think there are a lot of things that contribut to these issues and even though many times it is what they grew up with the fact is that many times it doesn't happen till much later on. When that happens I think something in there life changed them. I believe...

16 Jul 08

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Anyone else able to wake up from a dream and go back to the same dream?

eveeee @eveeee (659) 15 Jul 08

Hi I'd be interested to see if anyone else is able to do this on mylot, as so far I have not met anyone else that can do it. Since I was little I have been able to wake up, sometimes on purpose and other times not, and even get...

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gem4678 I have done this many times, I can't say that it always works, I think it depends on how far out of the sleep zone I get. I don't always go back to the same spot but normally somewhere near it. Also many times the same dream will continue the next night or 2....

16 Jul 08

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What drew you to watch army wives?

ochika_seta @ochika_seta (11) • Philippines 16 Jul 08

I'm a fan of Drew Fuller from his "Charmed" days and he was the reason why i wanted to watch the show, at first.. then i got to watch a couple of episodes and i realized that this series has a great storyline and it means a lot to...

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gem4678 I hadn't seen the previews before it first started, but I caught it one day flipping through the channels a few weeks after the first season started, and thank god it was during a time when they were showing them all back to back, (can't think of the word for...

16 Jul 08