gilenie

@gilenie (190)

Age 49

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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im crying

gilenie @gilenie (190) 19 Dec 12

i feel crying evry time i see some of my old friends during my younger years once i saw them having their own family. weird but true.i feel i was left out already, guess im so pressured already of staying single at my late 30...

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gilenie thnks for the advice jopipay ... im hoping one day it will be true.... my chatmate way back then is starting to court me, we had been chatting for a few weeks now, telling me he was interested in me for 4yrs already... lets wait n see...

23 Jan 13

im crying

gilenie @gilenie (190) 19 Dec 12

i feel crying evry time i see some of my old friends during my younger years once i saw them having their own family. weird but true.i feel i was left out already, guess im so pressured already of staying single at my late 30...

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gilenie well i hope so cessybear im keeping my finger cross and still praying that one day i'll be able to meet the one for me

7 Jan 13

im crying

gilenie @gilenie (190) 19 Dec 12

i feel crying evry time i see some of my old friends during my younger years once i saw them having their own family. weird but true.i feel i was left out already, guess im so pressured already of staying single at my late 30...

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gilenie greenthumb018, yes there's alot that i should be thankful for maybe its just my surroundings that pressuring me, my other issues in life . thnks for the advice

19 Dec 12

Ugh!

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85288) • Valdosta, Georgia 19 Dec 12

I cannot even go on Facebook to talk to someone I want to talk to because this other person that I don't want to deal with keeps messaging me about some business that I cannot afford to invest in! Ugh, I hate not being able to...

wanna talk to ftl

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gilenie yes thats going to be good if you blocked him , so that he may not able to bug you, to sent msg on you,,, bit bitchy thing to do but you had a right if he just keep you annoyed i also do that once a person canno be control and just keeps you annoying.

19 Dec 12

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im crying

gilenie @gilenie (190) 19 Dec 12

i feel crying evry time i see some of my old friends during my younger years once i saw them having their own family. weird but true.i feel i was left out already, guess im so pressured already of staying single at my late 30...

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gilenie yes liezel its a mixed emotions already, maybe having to much pressured on family matters that make it worst,,,

19 Dec 12

im tired already

gilenie @gilenie (190) 19 Dec 12

Its so tiring already, i felt so stress so annoyed burst of confusion and everything. Im such a very kind daughter sister to my family but now i feel feed up already. I had reached my old age 37, haven't got stable job,no savings,...

family enjoy life

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gilenie thnks alot liezel for your advice, i just hope its not too late for me.

19 Dec 12

bit annoyed abt mom

gilenie @gilenie (190) 14 Dec 12

i feel bit annoyed abt mom many times she is in favor of my brother's family...But every time she had some financial difficulty she always telling me they had no money but if abt my brothers kids always gives in....I feel upset...

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gilenie very true my dear sis hlfbldmom, that's why i keep telling her that it must be enough, actually my brother was enjoying it so much cos in this situation he seems to be taking advantage of the situation.He should also take in to consideration that mom and dad...

14 Dec 12

gaining wt again what to do...

gilenie @gilenie (190) 8 Dec 12

last month i was so eager to do some workouts having zumba dance ( a form of aerobic dancing) which i just do at home at 1st it was so nice i lasted for about a month, BUt then i became too busy travelling back an fort to a...

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gilenie thnks edvc77 for the suggestion hmm thats one of my big problem i love to eat sweet foods and also i love cooking.

8 Dec 12

in the eyes of a child

gilenie @gilenie (190) 19 Nov 12

a few months ago my brother's family, me and my younger brother went out,We go to this place ISDAAN is a place where you can eat at the same time u can view take pictures on some statue there.Its so how amazing the place is where...

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gilenie GOOD luck and best wishes for your coming baby soon. may u raise them well with good manners and be polite as always. may they be healthy as always.

27 Nov 12

my friend was hurt by her hubby what will i do?

gilenie @gilenie (190) 21 Nov 12

I was so sad and feel so uneasy when a common friend of ours call me one day over the phone telling our gal friend was hit and hurt by her hubby one night.I try to call my friend but unfortunately she didn't answer any of my call...

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gilenie NO my dear our other friend was just concern if my gal friend who was hit by her hubby is ok? HE is just telling me this cos of his concern to her.

27 Nov 12

my friend was hurt by her hubby what will i do?

gilenie @gilenie (190) 21 Nov 12

I was so sad and feel so uneasy when a common friend of ours call me one day over the phone telling our gal friend was hit and hurt by her hubby one night.I try to call my friend but unfortunately she didn't answer any of my call...

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gilenie I dont know how a hubby would hurt his wife for having an affair with other gal..I just hope my friend be able to move on with her situation.

27 Nov 12

thnkful for my bestbuddy..

gilenie @gilenie (190) 27 Nov 12

A few months ago when i had some misunderstanding with my older brother i went away from our house. I told my bestbuddy that i had nowhere to live, he offered his home on a nearby town of my home. He was so nice to offer since no...

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gilenie yes that is very true, very rare to find a friend like him we had been friends for more than 15 yrs already, he told me never will he find a bestfriend like me too, someone who will be there also for him in times of his need.

27 Nov 12

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Needy Relationships

habibti320 @habibti320 (925) • United States 24 Nov 12

Now, we all need relationships in order to be emotionally healthy and well. We all want to love and be loved. But there is another side as well. When a friend or lover needs you and makes you feel stressed by their constant...

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gilenie yeah haha she needs a tutor instead of me as her friend...

27 Nov 12

how you feel when you step near the old age?

RUBESH @Manasha (2807) • Pondicherry, India 26 Nov 12

Old age is a big issue when a person reaches it. Lots of mental and physical worries start climbing on our back. I am in the late thirties, however ,I started feeling a lot due to the future of my life. I have to save a lot of...

old age problem

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gilenie hmmm age is just a number as most people say, just feel young at heart and all will follow.

27 Nov 12

not capable of friendship..

Angelpink @Angelpink (4034) • Philippines 26 Nov 12

Friends listen to me , my special friend , my soulmate said a sad line for me , he said i am not capable of friendship because i want love. Can we take out love in friendship ? I guess friendship and love is inseparable ? Am i...

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gilenie come to think of it my dear, u both don't wanna lose each other just put in your mind that its just a platonic love/ a love for brother/sister, in that way you may able to move on? In my case i chose to let out my love for him, search for other man to love,...

27 Nov 12

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i hate my sister inlaw so much!

gilenie @gilenie (190) 23 Nov 12

I was so annoyed at my sister in law, she doesn't know how to thank my parents even if her kids got many presents from them. She doesn't have any initiative to say a simple thanks to my parents. I also feel mad about my brother he...

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gilenie No none, actually my parents really don't like her to be a part of our family.Maybe its her way of saying they don't like them too., but my point is since she knows we don't like her she should exert effort to be polite and be liked by us. don't you think so?

26 Nov 12

such an annoying meet up!

gilenie @gilenie (190) 25 Nov 12

This early morning i was walking in the city after i had been to my dentist, when an old guy happen to call me,this guy was an old friend of mine a few years back. Ofcorse in due respect i slow down my walk and happen to greet...

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gilenie haha well maybe, but its also depends on how you tell or on how to asks. his way was really iritating. lol so what i did is deleted him on my list of friends in fb account hahahaha

26 Nov 12

such an annoying meet up!

gilenie @gilenie (190) 25 Nov 12

This early morning i was walking in the city after i had been to my dentist, when an old guy happen to call me,this guy was an old friend of mine a few years back. Ofcorse in due respect i slow down my walk and happen to greet...

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gilenie LOL yes no gals will wanted to be with this type of a guy.If he is the only guy living on earth, id rather live alone than to be with him ahahhah

25 Nov 12

such an annoying meet up!

gilenie @gilenie (190) 25 Nov 12

This early morning i was walking in the city after i had been to my dentist, when an old guy happen to call me,this guy was an old friend of mine a few years back. Ofcorse in due respect i slow down my walk and happen to greet...

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gilenie Ahahahha I cant do that he is so old 50 yo and interms of being polite dint do that but atleast i mad a comment also a sarcastic one for him i think its enough ahahha.I cant slapped his face we are in public place maybe if there's no one around i have done it...

25 Nov 12