gongdong

@gongdong (24)

China • Age 39

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Do you feel bad after having a quarrel with your love?

Jankar @Jankar (583) • Philippines 31 Oct 09

I really feel awful every time we had a fight. No matter whose fault it is, I just don't like the situation. It's horrible, especially when I made the mistake. Every time we're in a situation, I'll always try my best to ease...

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gongdong Yes,i indeed feel uncomfortable when i quarrel with my girlfriend.sometimes,she was wrong,but most of the time i was wrong.Every time we quarrel,i try to ease the things like you,but she do not listen to me.this make me feel bad.we have the same experience!

31 Oct 09

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Trick or Treat

missybear @missybear (11391) • United States 30 Oct 09

Do you still take your kids and grand kids Trick or Treating? I noticed less and less children going out every year. I live in a big apartment complex and there used to be lots of kids on Halloween. Now in the last 2 to 3 years...

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gongdong Hello,missybear.the title attract me here.I am a student from China,and my english teacher is a smart old man from Canadia.Yesterday,he told us something about"trick or treat",it is interesting.I think i should learn more about festivals wordwide.

31 Oct 09

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When one of your friend say bad words behind you ,what should you do ?

lubeimao @lubeimao (118) • China 30 Oct 09

Recently ,one of my friends say some bad words behind me ,and this make me upset,sad and worried ,i think maybe i will keep a distance from her ,and not trust her at all.Do you meet same situation ?What did you do ,please give me...

betray

friends

friendship

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gongdong hello,lubeimao.I think i will do the same thing as you if it happens to me.Friends should help each other,but not say bad words behind you.Maybe you are right,your friend is not well be trusted from you.It is a good choice that you ask the reason she did...

31 Oct 09

can love change person personality?

Craicha @Craicha (801) 30 Oct 09

base in my experienced it really change my personality ...how about you?

love

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gongdong hello,Craicha.In my opinion,love do can change person personality.I have been together with my girlfriend for about six years.We both change a lot comparing with six years ago.You know,people have different personalities,sometimes you don not agree with the...

31 Oct 09

What would you do when you come to know that your mate has cheated on you ?

Aazam @mdaazam (826) • Indore, India 30 Oct 09

I just suppressed all the conversations we used to had im done with her forever , i havent even listened to her and when she tries to catch up at college i shout with rage ! It feels really bad but i have noticed that not every...

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gongdong hello,mdaazam.I can not define what you did is right or wrong.We all do not like somebody cheating on us,and we also don not cheat on them.Most of the time, one would pay for what he or she has cheated on others.But sometimes,cheating is not a bad thing.Mybe...

31 Oct 09

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the meaning of love

indahfth @indahfth (11161) • Indonesia 30 Oct 09

Love is a feeling you want to share with, or a feeling of affection for someone. Another opinion, love is an action / activity conducted on human beings against another object, of self-sacrifice, empathy, attention, give love,...

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gongdong hello,indahfth.It is difficult to describe the meaning of love,but it always make us happy.I get love from my parents and my girlfriend,what a wonderful thing it is.also,i give my love to them.I think love is an emotion to give others,they would be happy to...

31 Oct 09

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The Relationship Between Dreams and Our Real Life?

getbrowser @getbrowser (1708) • China 29 Oct 09

Sometimes, when I am trying to do something and then I feel that I have done such a thing before. Yes, it seems that I have met such a situation before although I haven’t done it. Generally speaking, our dreams may show that...

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gongdong I do not think dreams always turn to reality.Yes, it is ture many of my dreams come ture,but it does not mean it will come ture once you have dreamed.We do some work and experience a lot from our life,so when we hane dreams,it always have some relationship...

30 Oct 09

Whatever the heights you "Reach in Life",but Don't for get your back ground.....

Baluyadav @Baluyadav (3643) • India 30 Oct 09

Few people once they reach to some good position in any field,they used to forgot their previous background,the relation with friends,relatives...How we can understand this and how we can teach a lesson for them?

treatment

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gongdong This phenomenon is common in our life,but it should have some changes indeed.Many people do not want to talk too much about their past when they become famous or wealthy.We should consider this phenomenon as a bad thing,and some changes should be done to aviod...

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thats it....

freezeover98 @freezeover98 (203) • United States 30 Oct 09

i'm done... I give up... every time I try it just gets thrown back into my face.

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gongdong I sorry to hear about you.But you should have confidence about yourself.Nothing could be done without paying out.Best wishes to you.

30 Oct 09

Do you consume alcohol and if so how often and what type?

ronnyb @ronnyb (6113) • Jamaica 29 Oct 09

I am not much of a drinker and when I do its always the light stuff like alcohol,white wine ,light beer or heinekin.Now my friends are always teasing me about my drinking habits but I cant seem to get my tongue to get used to rum...

alcohol

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gongdong I also like to have a drink.Usually,i drink two times per week.Most time,i drink beers,such as Qingdao beer,Laoshan beer and so on.sometimes i drink white wine.My father like drinking,i think it is part of the reason that i like drinking.It is good to drink...

30 Oct 09

My Husband Told me DONT GO!

jemaries @jemaries (321) • Saudi Arabia 30 Oct 09

Last night i asked permission to my husband to go in our gatherings with my co-workers,because were going to celebrate the birthday of my friends.I asked my husband if he want to come with me or can i go with them,and then he said...

celebration

decision

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gongdong If i was your husband,i think i would not do as him.maybe he do not like lonely,i do not know.You should go to join the birthday,your friends will be happy if you can be there.I think you should have a talk with you husband and try to change his opinion.Best...

30 Oct 09

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I Still Love Her....

Drsunny21 @Drsunny21 (556) • India 29 Oct 09

I still lover her....Before 2-3 months she was also loving me...2yrs had passed for tht relatns,she also loved me...she had made many mistakes,mistakes like tht u cant forgive..but i forgiven her for each and evry mistkae and just...

love

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gongdong I sorry to hear that.You must be very sad.From what you said,i know you love her in heart,but she does not ,it is a pity.I have been together with my girlfriend for about six years.You can feel what i have experenced.Love is a mystery thing,sometimes it make...

30 Oct 09

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Which is more valuable- Money, Diamond or Gold???

lpmak1576 @lpmak1576 (28) • Malaysia 28 Oct 09

Anyone can tell me which of the above three things are more valuable?? Money- We can use money to buy gold, diamond and others or many many thing.. Diamond- We must use money to buy it.. It must be after decorate or make out...

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gongdong I think money is more valuable among them.the reason is that: Money can be used to by diamond and gold.though money has no value,it has price.Even in a war,money can be exchanged between different countries.

29 Oct 09

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Do you change your toothbrush frequently?

Zhu Huifen @zhuhuifen46 (3483) • China 29 Oct 09

It is said when the toothbrush is used for a month, bacteria will stick to the brush, which tend to result in various illness in the mouth, even infect blood through bruises, resulting in other diseases. The mug must also be...

health

toothbrush

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gongdong Thank you for telling me about this.It is a pity i do not change my toothbruch each month.It is important to have a good habit during our life,for ourself,our family and the whole society.thank you,i will adopt your suggestion.

29 Oct 09

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How to Make a Good Habit of Reading?

getbrowser @getbrowser (1708) • China 29 Oct 09

Yesterday, I posted a discussiobn about the importance of reading and received lots of responses. Thank you all. As the ideas of most responses, reading is important because information consumed via a book is different from the...

books

habit of reading

reading

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gongdong I am a post-graduate in a China college.I think reading is a necessary thing for our life,not only books in academic,but also books better for our life.As a student,i always read many books in the evening.I think it is the best for reading.After you have done...

29 Oct 09

Love is...

Adelida2233 @Adelida2233 (1005) • United States 27 Oct 09

"Love is what makes you smile when you're tired"-Terri, age 4 After mulling this over for several hours and thinking about how true it really is, I went and found a few more I thought I would share. I have a dry erase board I...

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gongdong It is difficult to define what love is.As you have listed,people have different opinion on it.sometimes love make us happy ,sometimes it make us sad.I thonk it is important to know how to treat with love than what love is.

28 Oct 09

if you offer love to your partner will you give it all?

Craicha @Craicha (801) 28 Oct 09

i believed that if we get in love and offer our love to our partner we should give 50/50 chances..like 50% for our love to her/him and 50% left for us and just give it all to our partner if happen theyre bind as one.....the reason...

love

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gongdong I do not quite agree with you.We should give most of our love to parter.If you love your parter,you should care about each aspects of him or her.Love is not the same as bussiniss,we should carefully to operate it.Two people together is not evitable to...

28 Oct 09

Is going to college/ university a must, in order to be successful?

VVroom @VVroom (255) • Romania 27 Oct 09

The logic says yes, you should go to school in order to be successful. The more you learn, the more you will be closer to success. However, with a little bit of research, almost 80% of the most successful people in the world don't...

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gongdong In my opinion,going to college or university is a better way to be successful,but not must be.You should have a good education that would help you be success.The more you learn,the better you will do.Many successful people do not graduate from university,but...

28 Oct 09

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Having the bad dreams....

Drsunny21 @Drsunny21 (556) • India 28 Oct 09

Do you had any bad dreams??Each and evry time i sleep i had a dream,it is being rare tht my sleep wthout dreams...Very few times the dreams are good but most of the times dreams are unusual..Anyone having such unsual dream...

dreams

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gongdong hello.Drsunny.It is common to have a dream when sleep,sometimes more dreams.I also have the experiences as you.It is no necessary to worry about it.You must have some stress on your work or your life,when you sleep,you can not take it easy and it keeps a high...

28 Oct 09

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Do You Make Money on myLot?

stevenmoore88 @stevenmoore88 (13) • United States 27 Oct 09

Recently I've noticed how many people are making money on the internet, and I'm hoping I can become one of them. That's actually how i found out about this site. I've been a memeber for less than 24 hours and I've only really been...

money internet

mylot

success

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gongdong hello,steven.I am a new member here.A friend told me this website then i come.There are two reasons why i come:Firstly,i can make some money here;secondly,i want to improve my english.I admire you that you can make money so fast.I think the way to make more...

28 Oct 09

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