Barin Mehta -Healwell

@healwell (1268)

Ahmedabad, India • Age 73

Joined myLot 17 years ago

Heal yourself, heal the world.

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Barin Mehta -Healwell's Responses

What Should the US Do About the Russian Attack on Georgia?

ParaTed2k @ParaTed2k (22940) • Sheboygan, Wisconsin 11 Aug 08

The government of the United States has a problem... Russia decided to launch a full scale attack against the nation of Georgia. Georgia, a close ally of the US, has asked for international intervention against Russian aggression....

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Barin Mehta -Healwell You have raised the question regarding the Russia... But what about America? What USA did to the rest of world since last 4 decades? I don't mean here the people of USA, but I mean here the USA Government! After worldwar 2 USA made claims of super power and...

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is friendship all about giving or about give and take?

painkiller77 @painkiller77 (2073) • India 12 Aug 08

do you think that expecting something is good in friendship? or is that you just your friend numerous times without expecting anything in return? what is your opinion? please let me know.

expectation

friend

giving

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Barin Mehta -Healwell When any one thinks about real and genuine friendship regarding expecting some thing then it is very wrong! Because such friendship never based on this kind of things: There is done everything without giving-taking sense as well as it is so natural that no one...

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what will you do to a friend who do not reply to your discussions?

kaezy_kulet @kaezy_kulet (2465) • Philippines 7 Aug 08

shall i delete them and find a new set of friends who will help me on my discussions or just let them in my list and still continue to answer their posts? i think they only concentrate on making discussion and answering the...

friends

responses

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Barin Mehta -Healwell There would be always reasons like subject, interest and time to put the response and so on... This is a fact of internet that some time friend's responses are more and some time nil! Nothing to worry about and does not need to think that let me delete few...

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Has anyone read the starnger?

pili2k3 @pili2k3 (71) • United States 11 Nov 06

Let me know if you have read the book. If not, I recomend anyone to read it...it will really give you something to think about! Let me know of your experience with The Stranger.

books

literature

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Barin Mehta -Healwell If you are talking about Camus' 'Outsider' then I have read the book. It is mostly written in 1942, the year hit by second world war. And it was expressing the the concept of absurdity in our existence. This was called existentialism later. But in real it was...

6 Aug 08

How do you 'view' money?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 24 Jul 08

After being a member here for over a year now I could not help but notice there are so many get-rich-quick schemes being advertised or talked about in discussions. My life and business partner write, produce and present a variety...

money and how you view it

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Barin Mehta -Healwell Money?! Money, as a fact ... an exchange tool! Today the ATM cards are taking place to get the money for exchange and will become slowly exchange tool! We know the check system in banking too and bank is part of our financial exchange place to deal with...

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At what age did you....?

wooitsmolly @wooitsmolly (3613) • United States 6 May 08

At what age did you feel you finally "grew up"? Do you consider yourself "grown up" yet? Why or why not? What does growing up mean to you?

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Barin Mehta -Healwell Wooitsmolly, you have taken up a nice point! I think that mostly 'I am growing still!' is the most wonderful thing for me! I prefer to be constant learner because there is learning in each moment! It is an irony that some rare moment we come to know that I...

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What has the power to truly transform us?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 24 Apr 08

That seems to be the question for our time. In my work as I photojournalist and spiritual seeker I have come to accept that often raising the right questions...our own...real, deep-down, burning questions are as important...if not...

transformation and what contributes to it

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Barin Mehta -Healwell This word ‘transform’ has really so many things when we use it and talk about. It is used in simple things like; the mango is transformed in the form of mango-juice! At the same time in the field of science also this word is used in chemistry, biology and...

25 Apr 08

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Hi..been away...miss chatting...how are things going with you?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 24 Apr 08

Greetings to old friends and new members alike. I have been away from Mylot for the past month and not here very much the month before that. I have missed being here and chatting with all of you within our great community. After...

chatting

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Barin Mehta -Healwell I would surely like to visit your updated site Raia, if you also think so! Well, I am glad to know that you are going ahead with your work and some how putting few dew drops here too! As I told, I was in Australia, sponsored by friends to visit their...

25 Apr 08

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name of your pet -pic if possible

ranikrishnan @ranikrishnan (1683) • India 27 Jan 08

i have three pet dogs and their names are babblu, jhujhu and tiger. they are such a darling u know. i have attached a pic of my babblu the most intelligent, loving and beautiful too isnt he?

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Barin Mehta -Healwell Well, a good dog... That's fine! But after a long time you have posted something i noticed today... So just responding to you ... Welcome and share and respond too! Yes, I am also here after weeks... just have a look what friends have posted!

28 Jan 08

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What does responsibility mean to you?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 28 Nov 07

Whenever David and I pose that questions to clients or group participants there are a myriad of responses. Oftentimes there is a tendency for people to think of responsibility in terms of whom they are responsible to or what they...

levels of responsibility

looking at it from different perspectives

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Barin Mehta -Healwell Responsibility… A word, which has so many responsibilities to prove itself! When I am with my Reiki class, I discuss and share two major things in the beginning: One is LOVE YOUR SELF! And second one is I AM MAKING YOU RESPONSIBLE FOR YOURSELF! And almost...

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How long can you stay in front of the computer?

lucky_witch @lucky_witch (2707) • Philippines 22 Nov 07

I wonder how long can you be able to stay in front of the computer. Me, the longest I guess is 5 hours, after that... I get headache. I dont know, but there are somewho can stay in front of the computer for 24 hours straight!!!!...

computers

stay

time

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Barin Mehta -Healwell Well, till the date I have never thought about this! I can stay long and have done that also with few breaks. I remember that when works are overload I have spent continuous 18 hours on computer with only two breaks of 10 minuts... Well there is no need...

22 Nov 07

Time out errors on Mylot..does it happen to you?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 21 Nov 07

Hi everyone.. I am signing off shortly, partly because I won't be here tomorrow because we are traveling to the city...secondly because I've noticed that Mylot has more 'time out errors' lately and I lost a lengthy post with a...

does it happen to you

frustrating glitches

time our errors on mylot

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Barin Mehta -Healwell Hi Raia! You are right: I have also faced such problem and lost my long writings! Some time after clicking for preview I have lost the complete post! SSome time during writing the error occurred and then... lost! Well I was thinking that this would be...

22 Nov 07

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Life's Mystery

worldwise1 @worldwise1 (14885) • United States 21 Nov 07

I do quite a bit of pondering during the idle times. This last time got me wondering why it is that we are sometimes irresistibly drawn to a place, person, or thing. Throughout my life I have found myself drawn to some of the most...

lifes mystery

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Barin Mehta -Healwell You have raised the question with little mystery too! But it is ok to me because I know and experienced such things that I can understand what you want to express! And yet I am wandering about your one word BAFFLING! I don’t know really what you mean by...

22 Nov 07

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Do you believe that once we say something, it can never be taken back?

freeasabee @freeasabee (54) • Australia 19 Nov 07

We need to be careful what we say, because words are very powerful. Something that can be said to us 30 years ago, can still hurt us or still empower us. Being a parent I need to be aware of not saying something out of anger...

feelings

powerful words

words

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Barin Mehta -Healwell As you said and believe that our sayings/ words are effective and all survive with its meaning and become part of the person to whom those words are said! Mostly in all human societies this kind of belief is part of today's world too and indicates some...

20 Nov 07

Are you Urdu speaking?

sheenshaukat @sheenshaukat (2617) • Pakistan 18 Nov 07

Are there any South Asian, Urdu/ Hindi speaking at myLot? I want to add them in my friend’s List. And want to talk in Urdu. Kiya aap Urdu bol saktai hain?

hindi

language

urdu

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Barin Mehta -Healwell Mostly any Indian can speak and understand Hindi-Urdu!So many Indians can not write urdu but understand most of the things. We call it Hindi-Urdu Zuban! Han mai hindi-Urdu bol sakata hoon!

18 Nov 07

Suicide of a 12-year old girl

cdparazo @cdparazo (5765) • Philippines 14 Nov 07

What could be so terrible to make an ordinary 12-year old girl take her own life? For the past week, our country is also abuzz with what happened to Marainette, a 12-year old girl who hanged herself because she could no longer...

death

suicide

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Barin Mehta -Healwell Suicide and human being is really a strange phenomenon! Why people do that has some strange reasons but how one can convince her/ him for such a step is really not easy to get! Though there are findings regarding the written documents left by the sue...

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