hererufina

@hererufina (23)

New Zealand • Age 45

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Why do you/or don't you believe in Jesus?

tooblue @tooblue (143) • United States 18 Dec 06

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hererufina I dont believe coz i wasnt brought up to believe.

18 Dec 06

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Curious about something, what is Minimum Wage where you live?

killailla @killailla (1301) • Canada 17 Dec 06

I am quite shocked as min wage here is apparantly $8/hour (canada) but they can pay $6.00 for people who have not had 500 hours work experience in their lives until they have reached 500 hours, this is so ridiculous, the...

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hererufina I am from New Zealand. Minimum wage(or student wage) use to be $5-$6 dollars and hour. Now its $10. Depending on the hours you make you can earn up to $800. But that is alot of hours. About 70-90hours. Average wage is between $13-$18 and maximum wage is from...

18 Dec 06

Are you willing to change your old self for your lover?

dexterous21 @dexterous21 (1180) • Philippines 18 Dec 06

I have been to relationships and most of my ex-boyfriends tried to change the real me into someone which I can't do. I told them that they should accept the real me. As the song goes " Love me for what I am for simply being me,...

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hererufina No i wouldnt change. What you see is what you get. Thats i what i reckon. Question is, would he change for you?

18 Dec 06

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cheating

bluejay1122 @bluejay1122 (140) • United States 17 Aug 06

if a man cheats on his wife should the wife cheat on him

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hererufina Helllllll nooooo!!! Why should you have to stoop as low as him? Let him wallow in his guilt. At least that way, you have something to throw in his face. And its not like he can throw it back into yours coz you didnt do what he did. That is what i think anyway....

17 Dec 06

women...........

josemon @josemon (242) • India 7 Sep 06

do u think women deserves more respect than men?

women

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hererufina More respect? No. Equal respect? Yes.

17 Dec 06

is feminism dead

shiboleth @shiboleth (270) • Canada 17 Dec 06

I hear so much complaining from women that they kind find a man. Women are even having kids on their own because they can't find anybody who wants to settle down with them. And why would a guy want to marry a woman and raise...

feminism

men

women

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hererufina Well, i agree with the ready made family part. But there are alot of men out there who will willingly take a female and her brood. Not that i accept it. But i also dont accept the fact that the father left her to raise thier kids by herslf. Also, where i come...

17 Dec 06

how to get weight?

allserviceprovider @allserviceprovider (209) • India 5 Dec 06

i olways eat cheese and paneer.i have been eating since 3 yrs but i dint get my weight increased. Can you people suggest me best way to increase it?

weight

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hererufina Eat alot of food that is high in carbs and starch. That'll put the weight on. Better yet, go look for a fat family like mine and stay with them for half a year. You'll definitly gain weight then. As for muscles, work out.

13 Dec 06

Weight problem

rockaxn @rockaxn (46) • India 12 Dec 06

I have been struggling with my weight for most of my adult life. Sometimes I find this very depressing. I admire people like Dawn French as role models for larger women. The thing is though, I don't want to be overweight. It seems...

problem

weight

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hererufina Yes, i have lost weight. A friend of mine got me onto this protein diet where you cant eat any sort of carbs for 2 weeks. This detoxifies the body of any of that rubbish that may be in your body. Cleans it out. Then you slowly start introducing the carbs back...

13 Dec 06

Depression and Denial

pennycan2 @pennycan2 (251) • United States 12 Dec 06

I am currently struggling with what I think may be depression. I have good days and I have really bad days where I cry myself sick. My poor husband tries what he can to help but he knows that I have to do it myself. My daughter...

anxiety

depression

weightloss

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hererufina I know this may sound a bit harsh, but ive noticed that every one is telling you to go and seek medical advice. I think you should stop thinking about yourself and focus on your daughter. She should come first. Also, you mentioned that your christian. Why not...

13 Dec 06

What are some things you do with your friends?

thrillezynite @thrillezynite (44) • United States 27 Feb 10

My friends and I have recently reached the point where we did everything you could in our city. Its getting very aggravating. Its impossible to do something new. SO, what are things you enjoy doing with your friends that is fun...

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hererufina My friends and I have recently reached the point where we did everything you could in our city. Its getting very aggravating. Its impossible to do something new. SO, what are things you enjoy doing with your friends that is fun and easly available in almost...

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What is your zodiac sign??

deadsoul1 @deadsoul1 (714) • India 6 Nov 06

mine is cancer.what is your sun sign?

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hererufina Im a Libra. The first i see. My partner is a Pieces, My mother Leo, My father Taurus, My sister Aquarius along with her son and my younger sister is..... Yep, you guessed it. Cancer. She can be a crabby little B***h too. Do they grow out of that or will it...

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what is your biggest regret?

teejayy @teejayy (265) • United States 10 Dec 06

One of my biggest regrets is that i didn't get my worth out of school. I was kind of an anti-social didn't go to dances i didn't date girls from my school nor did i befriend anyone accept my childhood friends. all of my other...

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hererufina I dont have any regrets. Yes i dropped out of school at the age of 15. Here where i come from your considered a statistic for doing that. But, i dont regret it. You really cant learn life skills at school. You can only learn that from experiance. Yes i also...

11 Dec 06

he is cheating on my friend

rms2727 @rms2727 (815) • India 5 Dec 06

this is about a dear friend of mine, she is overly sensitive and the time her first boyfriend left her she was miserable for nearly an year. just last year she met this guy who seemed to be all so wonderful. she is very happy and...

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hererufina If you were a true friend, you would of told her right away. Of course her feelings will get hurt. Whos feelings wouldnt? But from my point of view, it'll be better comming from your bestmate first, than to have to find out by some one else. And as for her...

5 Dec 06