hottyb21

@hottyb21 (64)

United States • Age 41

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Debit

Shimeryth @Shimeryth (3) • United States 28 Jan 07

There's nothing I hate more then being in debit. It doesn't matter how much money you make. Is seems like the more money you make the more bills you have to pay! I'm already in debit to my parents, my brother and thats going to...

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hottyb21 Yes i despise bills. But my advice to you is to not get things unless you absolutely need them as in you can't live without them. Doing this for a few months will help you save and actually have money to pay off your debts. I tried that and it worked for me. I...

30 Jan 07

Double standards with cheating

fieryfrost @fieryfrost (316) • Philippines 24 Jan 07

My husband and I were discussing this last night. He told me that it's ok for men to cheat. Of course I said it's not...I told him gender shouldn't dictate if cheating is ok or not. But then he told me that men usually cheat not...

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hottyb21 Saying that cheating is okay for men for any reason is only said because men are trying to justify there actions. but what i believe is that if you truly love or rather care about someone then cheating would be out of the question. that is very hypocritical....

25 Jan 07

Do you eat out of boredom?

ugachaka @ugachaka (297) • United States 24 Jan 07

I was watching tv the other night and wasn't really paying attention to the commercials. A Weight Watcher's one came on and the woman was talking about learning to tell the difference between when you're actually hungry and just...

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hottyb21 I do this all the time. I wish i could stop but how. I eat every night and i am not even hungry.

25 Jan 07

Peppie is his usual self

Always smiling @allknowing (138078) • India 24 Apr 23

I had written about Peppie limping and it was difficult to treat him. He seemed to have treated himself which normally cats do. I have seen him licking his foot and that must have set him right I was happy to see him jump up...

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hottyb21 I had written about Peppie limping and it was difficult to treat him. He seemed to have treated himself which normally cats do. I have seen him licking his foot and that must have set him right I was happy to see him jump up on the fridge which is his...

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My First Love...and My Jealous Husband

blogyourself @blogyourself (1577) • United States 24 Jan 07

My first love recently started contacting me again. My husband isn't happy about it because of obvious reasons. I try explaining to him that this guy was a really good friend of mine and a part of my past. I love my husband. I...

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hottyb21 you have to look at this from your husbands point of view. would you want him to be talking one of his ex's that he spent 4 years with. You might not have anything for him now but obviously you did at one point and time and you have memories with him. Your...

25 Jan 07

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Would you Divorce your husband if he played video games EVERY day after work and

juls2me2 @juls2me2 (2150) • United States 24 Jan 07

only stopped briefly to eat dinner or talk to his friends or co-workers on the phone....from 5pm-2AM? Even if you tried to talk to him about time limits, how its affecting your lovelife with him and your children's need for his...

divorce

time

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hottyb21 i don't think that divorce should be the first step. I think that you should sit and play a game with him and try to understand his enjoyment in it. Apperently he loves his games. But if you can't spark up a conversation after trying some things that he likes...

25 Jan 07

At Home Teaching or Preschool

blogyourself @blogyourself (1577) • United States 24 Jan 07

I often hear about parents in a debate on whether or not they should send their child to daycare. In my opinion, daycare and preschool is great because kids learn so many skills such as standing in line, sitting in their chair,...

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hottyb21 I don't agree in daycare but yet that is only the daycare where i had my son. He was sexually assaulted there 7 days after he turned three. So i understand that daycare is a very important step for a single parent such as myself but i will continue to keep my...

25 Jan 07

Do you agree that this airline made the right choice?

shywolf @shywolf (4514) • United States 24 Jan 07

AirTran Airways ordered the removal of a faimly from one of their flights recently, because the family's three year old daughter was crying and would not take her seat. Airline rules state that all passengers above the age of...

airline

airtran

airtran airways

do you agree with this story

news

news story

removal of passengers

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hottyb21 First of all I would of made my son sit down. I can agree with what the airline did the parents can't expect the airline attendents to do there job as parents. You have to make sure that your children understand that you are the boss and if you tell them to do...

25 Jan 07

Abortion! Why?

MJJSargo @MJJSargo (19) • Portugal 24 Jan 07

Its the following, here in my country they are going to public opinion about legalizing the abortion until the 12 weeks of pregnancy. id i agree in some situation that the abortion should be legalized but theres some controversy...

abortion

legalization

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hottyb21 I am totally against abortions. But i do believe that in some cases such as the woman was raped and became pregnant that she should have a choice. The way i see it is if you are willing to spread your legs then you should take care of your responsibilities....

25 Jan 07

Repeating the process of abuse.

Outsider @Outsider (42) • Canada 24 Jan 07

Raised as one of seven children in a family without love... (never once throughout my entire childhood did I receive a hug or kiss from my parents... never once did I hear the words "I love you." from either of those two...

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hottyb21 I agree I do not understand why people would do that. I was raised the same way and I hug my son 50 million times a day. And we share those 3 words all the time. I believe that repeat the process because they are still trying to make there parents happy. I...

25 Jan 07

Friends

Shimeryth @Shimeryth (3) • United States 24 Jan 07

Have you ever had a friend who will always go out of there way to help you no matter what. The kind of friend who makes you want to get up in the next day just to see what the new gossip is or what yall will have planned for that...

friends

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hottyb21 Yes i do have a few friends like that and i am greatful for there love. I have been in alot of situations that it didn't seem like there was a way out and nowhere to turn. But my friends were always there for me and i believe that if it wasn't for the love...

24 Jan 07