ibodemeh123

@ibodemeh123 (77)

Nigeria • Age 51

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Is anyone else posting comments without getting the "add tags to this comment"?

mentalward @mentalward (14690) • United States 17 Jul 09

I've noticed this morning that my comments were posted without my ever getting the "add tags" page. Yesterday, I noticed that some others' comments were posted twice, even some discussions were posted twice. Is anyone else...

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ibodemeh123 I did nt observe either, could be network connection. I deliberately respond to try out your observations. By the way thanks for your response yesterday

12 Mar 10

Michael Jackson toxicology revealed

gossipzz @gossipzz (498) • Canada 24 Aug 09

It is yet another sad day in hollywood.Michael Jackson toxicology result finally revealed. Michael Jackson died from a overdose of a mixture of drugs including profavol. This means there is going to be charges of manslaughter.I...

doctor murray

hollywood

michael jackson

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ibodemeh123 I think we should treat this issue here with a soft hand. Who knows if he actually consented to this whole arrangement. The doctor cant be charge for manslaughter. It is possible that MJ might want to psych-up for the concert which might possibly fetch him...

25 Aug 09

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How to forgive you boyfriend from cheating on you?

turtle_ring27 @turtle_ring27 (199) • Philippines 24 Aug 09

I have a boyfriend for 2 years already. I know we love each other very much. We have plans for the future. And we're thinking on the possibility that we end up together. But, I caught him dating a girl a few months ago. At...

boyfriend

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ibodemeh123 For christ sake, unforgiveness wont help you at all even outside relationship. My prayer everyday is that God should give me the strength to forgive. Recentment and unforgiven spirit block blessings and can wreck chances just to mention these alone. If you...

24 Aug 09

How Do You Express Your Anger?

rajupaul @rajupaul (973) • India 24 Aug 09

Dear loter how do you express your anger when you will face the situation like me A group mate repeatedly failed to turn in his/her portion for a term paper which is due in two days. When you finally ask him/her for it, he/she...

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ibodemeh123 I wont smile at all. I would go for no 2. I hate slackness and being taken for granted. Frienship apart and business apart. That's my phylosophy.

24 Aug 09

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Would you pose naked for a professional artist?

karenrosesalazar @karenrosesalazar (256) • Philippines 24 Aug 09

It's all for the sake of art, as they say. I know someone who dared herself and posed naked for a professional artist. I have to applaud her for being gutsy. I don't know if i can do it. LOL. How about you? Would you do it for...

nude

pose naked

sake of art

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ibodemeh123 I am an artist and i have had this experience of painting and drawing with a model. Let me say this that Artist dont get carry away by lust. At that point the artist is just in another world of inspiration.

24 Aug 09

The Real Meaning of My Dreams

virgonian1988 @virgonian1988 (119) • Philippines 21 Aug 09

Good Morning MyLotters! This is my very first emotional post in MyLot. I am a single mother of two baby daughters. But that two are not living with me. The one is with my old uncle who is not 80 years of age but still very...

daughter

dreams

horror

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ibodemeh123 Hey, i am not gonna encourage you to hang on like this. You are still young and energetic. Go out there and get something doing. Dont you like a better life and live responsibly. Because your uncle is alive, makes you not to push harder. Virgo move on baby and...

24 Aug 09

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Career or Church Ministry?

babyfiona08 @babyfiona08 (652) • Philippines 17 Jul 09

I'm an active Church member. In fact, I am one of the leaders. I want to move in another place because there's a better opportunity for me there. But I am aware of the fact that the Church needs me. I am happy of doing those...

career

church

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ibodemeh123 Yes God reward people that sacrifice for Him. Jesus even said that no one having done something for the kingdom sake who will not be rewarded here on earth and in the world after. You can choose to stay if ONLY it is your CALLINGS to work in the church. GOD'S...

24 Aug 09

do you wear skirts in church?

flagella08 @flagella08 (5065) • Philippines 24 Aug 09

i noticed that most people attending church wear shirts and jeans. i don't wanna offend somebody here about wearing those kind of apparel. i just prefer wearing skirts for i feel that it's descent enough especilaly when it's a...

skirts in church

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ibodemeh123 So much liberty in today's church. Decency should still play a big role in our life. Our outlook should not be too offensive or encourage lust. Wether in skirt or trouser just appear decent and responsible. Yes church shouldnt be a place to exhibit indecency...

24 Aug 09

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have you ever liked a married person?

sujuwonder @sujuwonder (212) • Philippines 22 Aug 09

this was a few years back so its fine... I just can't help but think of how i actually liked a married guy. I was single then and very young, was still in school. I believe though that was infatuation, he's very good looking...

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ibodemeh123 It happened everywhere. Thank God you now have your own life. A similar incident happened to me too. A lady fell for me. Till today, she cant take her mind off me. She knows all about my family(wife and kids) she just wouldnt mind to be my second wife. I like...

24 Aug 09

Marriage as the ultimate test of patience...

dhymhy @dhymhy (24) • Philippines 20 Aug 09

guys, i am not yet married but i would love to be someday. is it true that the ultimate test of patience is marriage? I've read from a book that to commit yourself to a person whom you did not grow up with, to share a life with...

marriage

patience

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ibodemeh123 Yes you need all the patients in this world in marriage. I am married and i know what it entail to get hook with someone different from me. What binds us together is love. For love sake, i tolerates, endure and with patient i seek to be understood. You must be...

21 Aug 09

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My Boyfriend Dumped Me, What Should I Do Next?

fashman @fashman (47) • United States 20 Aug 09

You definite loved him, but now he is gone. He have left you for another girl, or just started that he needed time to think. Whatever his reason was, there is a good chance that it just didn't make sense to you. If your boyfriend...

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ibodemeh123 I know this is not a forum to ask about what really happened. I tried to be fair with people. It may be your fault and it may be his. Pls dont act negatively. You are a unique individual. Look deep into your life once more. Reshape certain things and move...

21 Aug 09

Can distance relationships really work?

MizFel @MizFel (89) • Nigeria 19 Aug 09

i am presently in a new one. seems to be a jolly beginning but am already considering breaking up with him cos of my school am going back to. I don't know if i can do it. i just need someone's point of view cos this is going to be...

distance relationships

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ibodemeh123 If you wanna break up purely just to focus on your education. Thats is understandable. If that is not the case and your heart is really with him and his with you. Pls fashion out ways to stay intouch. It could be by sending him regular mails and Calling him on...

20 Aug 09

Have you decided on doing something that you haven’t given much thought?

iskayz @iskayz (5420) • Philippines 20 Aug 09

Yeah, you know. Something comes in your mind and then you just decided, yes go for it? It happened to me just yesterday. I am a person known to think things over and over and over again before embarking into...

getting a good job

going back to school

medical transcriotionist course

taking up a course

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ibodemeh123 If it is something to better your life the so-called risk is worth it. Dont succum to those thoughts that might prevent you. It is natural to be scary of things you will have to deny yourself with. The bottomline is that at the end you find yourself being much...

20 Aug 09

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What was your first vehicle like?

Phyrre @phyrre (2317) • United States 19 Aug 09

I always like to compare these firsts. I was talking to a friend the other day and her parents have some money and they bought her her first car and it was an extremely nice car. Brand new and everything, not even used (which I...

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ibodemeh123 Dear, i have a similar feeling too. My first car was a brand new KIA RIO given to me as my official car. The company i worked for had serious problem. Infact they are almost parking up now. I returned the car on getting another job. In this present place no...

20 Aug 09

My life sucks! Help please

AJLaws @AJLaws (67) • Australia 19 Aug 09

Hey everyone... sorry i'm having a few downers lately. I no longer have my son with me. My partner and I have split up and now she has moved over 2000 miles away. I am only working and not doing a great deal else, I am trying...

life

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ibodemeh123 That's effect of broken marriage. A piece of you had gone. AJlaws, i am not an advocate for divorce. I would have love to help with some useful advice when you were having the heats with your ex. Now she is gone with your only son. My dear you need...

20 Aug 09

Should I kiss my girl friend on our first date?

suchi60 @suchi60 (912) • India 19 Aug 09

I have a peculiar problem. I'm going out on my first date and don't know if its appropriate to kiss my girlfriend goodnight. Do you think its alright to kiss her on our first date?

first kiss

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ibodemeh123 Pls forget about all this trash about not kissing on first date. Pls trust your instinct enough to push you right. The first date i had with my wife, i felt like eating her up. Prior to this i seek every avenues and opportunity to chat with her. Then she was...

19 Aug 09

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