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scorpiobabes @scorpiobabes (7225) • United States 8 Jan 13

I love my boyfriend Jim. When we met, he was separated from his wife. I wasn't sure about dating him, but he showed me the divorce paperwork. That was in December 2010; she had left in mid-April and filed that July. This woman...

boyfriend

burglary

i am doing this because i love him

short sale

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icats64 Best advice: Back away. Have him deal with the ex. My husband's crazy ex-wife was causing a lot of issues after we were married (he had custody of his son)and I got stuck dealing with her and the kid. I was always dealing with obtaining information...

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icats64 @icats64 (43) • United States 14 Sep 11

My husband and I decided to finally take a trip. On Aug. 27th marked the first day we physically met nine years ago (met on Yahoo Personals) and it was our 6 year wedding anniversary. We left that day to go to Northport, New York...

new york

north carolina

travel

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icats64 New York City was a bust because when Hurricane Irene came in, the power was shut down on the trains and subways. The hurricane was just a bad rain and wind storm by the time it reached New York. We didn't let it bother us though. We had a fun time in D.C. and...

19 Sep 11

edumate @rollylolly (2843) • India 19 Aug 11

Recently I visited an orphanage.I had never visited one before.I went there with one of my friend who frequents there.I took some clothes , books and sweets for them . Spent the whole day with them . Took meals with them and...

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icats64 As your comment states "you hope to be their friend" then tell them you love them as a friend and you hope to do many fun things with them. If you have the ability to adopt, then do so, but if you only can spend time with them here and there and be a friend...

22 Aug 11

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divineathena @divineathena (1746) • United States 18 Aug 11

It struck me from reality shows. I noticed that in their online forums, the users always bash the participants who stay polite and avoid dramas. Many think those are blunt are being real. But after these reality shows end, we come...

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icats64 I think the reason drama makers are supported is the excitement. It is not all public who supports them but the bored ones. People who feel their life is boring will be drawn to the drama makers for a little feeling of excitement but they don't understand that...

19 Aug 11

LetranKnight25 @LetranKnight25 (33121) • Philippines 18 Aug 11

Hello Lotters, To be honest, I feel uncertain, sad and another part of my bitterness has come out after talking to some people that i haven't talked in years. Or should I say never bothered to talk to me in years. my friend...

a bittered friend

blast from the past

the uncertain reunion

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icats64 I sounds like you have feelings for the woman. Write down the pros and cons and see which weigh more for your decision. this event sounds more like a send of party for the woman who is leaving. You can go to tell her "Good luck" but if it is going to be...

19 Aug 11

icats64 @icats64 (43) • United States 11 Aug 11

Learning to live with a disability or disabilities in oneself can be frustrating, depressing, and emotional. At the age of 45, I became totally disabled. I have had 23 left knee surgeries with #7 a total knee replacement at 26...

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icats64 I may not be able to outrun a car, they seem to go a bit faster, but I will be able to get from point A to point B and back again in less time. My husband tries to get me to use the motorized carts at the store, I tell him when they can go faster than I can...

17 Aug 11

icats64 @icats64 (43) • United States 11 Aug 11

Learning to live with a disability or disabilities in oneself can be frustrating, depressing, and emotional. At the age of 45, I became totally disabled. I have had 23 left knee surgeries with #7 a total knee replacement at 26...

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icats64 My total knee replacement was the result of a doctor's mistake. I signed for a kneecap and the doctor gave me a total knee. I did sue him and he admitted that I didn't need it, he "thought it would be best for me". I was 25 years old at the time. The new...

17 Aug 11

divineathena @divineathena (1746) • United States 11 Aug 11

I met tons of people in my life who think highly of themselves while canceling out that their friends, partners and siblings are too below them. They usually say things like: “I never lie and I hate liars. I break up with every...

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icats64 I do agree with what you are saying except for "we must blindly love them". I have to admit that my husband put on a good act before we got married but 6 months later the problems started then escalated. We are coming up on our 6 yr. anniversary and the only...

16 Aug 11

icats64 @icats64 (43) • United States 11 Aug 11

Learning to live with a disability or disabilities in oneself can be frustrating, depressing, and emotional. At the age of 45, I became totally disabled. I have had 23 left knee surgeries with #7 a total knee replacement at 26...

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icats64 Sorry to hear about your son, I hope he is doing well. I love kids with disabilities because they don't let it get them down. They want to laugh and play. Most likely you worry about him as a parent would but live your life through him. Be goofy, do funny...

12 Aug 11

icats64 @icats64 (43) • United States 11 Aug 11

Learning to live with a disability or disabilities in oneself can be frustrating, depressing, and emotional. At the age of 45, I became totally disabled. I have had 23 left knee surgeries with #7 a total knee replacement at 26...

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icats64 Thank you. I had parents that were strong and showed me not to let things get you down. I have things I want to accomplish and I am finding new things I want to do. My two new latest hobbies I want to do is build model pirate ships and scarapbooking. I do have...

12 Aug 11

icats64 @icats64 (43) • United States 11 Aug 11

Learning to live with a disability or disabilities in oneself can be frustrating, depressing, and emotional. At the age of 45, I became totally disabled. I have had 23 left knee surgeries with #7 a total knee replacement at 26...

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icats64 The best thing to do with your disability is not use the word "fight with it". We do have our good days and bad days and we have to go with the flow on how we feel. If there is a bad day, find something positive to do so you feel better even if it is reading a...

12 Aug 11

icats64 @icats64 (43) • United States 11 Aug 11

Learning to live with a disability or disabilities in oneself can be frustrating, depressing, and emotional. At the age of 45, I became totally disabled. I have had 23 left knee surgeries with #7 a total knee replacement at 26...

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icats64 Thank you for the Odesk referral. I will check it out because I am looking for jobs I can do at home to supplement my small disability check. I am happy that I am still able to walk. At 47 years old, I'm not looking to be in a wheelchair right now but it can...

12 Aug 11

icats64 @icats64 (43) • United States 11 Aug 11

Learning to live with a disability or disabilities in oneself can be frustrating, depressing, and emotional. At the age of 45, I became totally disabled. I have had 23 left knee surgeries with #7 a total knee replacement at 26...

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icats64 There were times when I was down. I will admit I don't like the limitations that I have but they are there and I can't do anything about it. I can take what I can do and be positive about it. I may be disabled but I am able to do many things. My 28 year old...

12 Aug 11

jeanneyvonne @jeanneyvonne (5501) • Philippines 10 Aug 11

Here's the story: Two of my friends got angry with each other and our circle of friends are feeling the effects of their estrangement. My friends who were not part of the argument coaxed me to mediate on behalf of others since I...

opinion

world

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icats64 You take a "stand" by getting both sides of the story. When two friends ar arguing the best advice is don't get in the middle, don't choose sides, and let them resolve their issues on their own. You can be friends with both but let them know that you won't...

10 Aug 11

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