icats64

@icats64 (43)

United States • Age 60

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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online friends...true or fake???

carolin1e @carolin1e (97) 29 Sep 11

Hi everybody !! I was thinking all the time about the importance of friends in our lives,about how helpful they are and about how unfaithful they could be ..i was saying:are my friends really good enough to trust them? or they...

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icats64 First we have to define friends and aquaintances. Friends are people whom you talk to, hang out with a lot. Friends are people you can trust with your life and people in your life. They can keep your secrets and be there through good times and bad times....

29 Sep 11

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HOW & WHERE DID YOU MEET YOUR HUSBAND or PARTNER

rebel_woman06 @SIMPLYD (90721) • Philippines 25 Sep 11

I met my husband at the bank, where I first worked with. He was a new employee then. At first I didn’t notice him at all. We would always go out and disco the night away in groups, but he still remained unnoticed by me....

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icats64 After three failed marriages and failed boyfriends, I was looking for a guy that wanted to date. I wasn't interested in marriage again. My adult son was worried about me being alone so he suggested internet dating because my brother was doing it. I signed up...

29 Sep 11

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long hair

rebel_woman06 @SIMPLYD (90721) • Philippines 28 Sep 11

It is said that the hair is our crowning glory. For a woman, it is said that long hair is what makes them look beautiful. But for me, long or short, the overall look of the woman depends on the way her hairstyle compliments...

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icats64 I've had long and short hair. Currently, my hair is about shoulder length but I intend to get it cut a little shorter. I like convience of shorter hair. I have also dyed my hair different shades of blonde. Though I have had compliments on my hair style, I...

29 Sep 11

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Do you love me ?

edumate @rollylolly (2843) • India 19 Aug 11

Recently I visited an orphanage.I had never visited one before.I went there with one of my friend who frequents there.I took some clothes , books and sweets for them . Spent the whole day with them . Took meals with them and...

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icats64 You shouldn't have told the girl you loved her. Instead, you should have told her that you like her very much and you want to be her friend. It is great that you went to the orphanage, but with children, you have to watch what you say. Kids do take things to...

19 Aug 11

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The Uncertainty of seeing "so called old friends"

LetranKnight25 @LetranKnight25 (33121) • Philippines 18 Aug 11

Hello Lotters, To be honest, I feel uncertain, sad and another part of my bitterness has come out after talking to some people that i haven't talked in years. Or should I say never bothered to talk to me in years. my friend...

a bittered friend

blast from the past

the uncertain reunion

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icats64 Is this a high school or college reunion? Why do you feel you can't be trusted? Anyways, as we grow up we grow apart from what use to be. We go to school to get an education (high school or college) and afterwards, we go on with our lives. I was always teased...

18 Aug 11

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Ex-Friend

Tina Dalasinski @Tina30219 (82066) • Onaway, Michigan 18 Aug 11

I have a friend that is in the system and she got her son taken away and just got him back. Well Monday night she wa texting me telling me she is going to kill herself and let me say she has done this before. I called CPS on her...

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icats64 I always wonder why people like this are allowed to have children. For the sake of the boy, you did the right thing. He shouldn't have to go through the things his mother is putting him through. Too bad there isn't a caring family member willing to take him...

18 Aug 11

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Why do we even live?

iwinagain @iwinagain (545) 18 Aug 11

We're all mortals unless scientists can figure out a way to make us immortal like vampires . We have to accept the fact that when we reach old age, life is going to be over for us when that day comes. Right now the...

life

living

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icats64 We don't ask to be born. Our parents take it upon themselves to bring us into the world. We live to die. We come in the world in diapers and probably go out the same way. We are a burden on our parents growing up and when we get old and can't take care of...

18 Aug 11

What Shall I Do With His Stuff?

GreenMoo @GreenMoo (11833) 18 Aug 11

We had a volunteer here at the end of last year, who left his luggage here when he went off. He was planning on returning, which is why he left his gear, but emailed later to say that he'd not be able to come back immediately as...

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icats64 This is easy. You have tried to contact him but with no response. Intially, after 30 days you can do what you want with the things. It has been 10 months and obviously, he has not responded to claim his items so now they are yours. You have gave him adequate...

18 Aug 11

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It hurts so bad...

Penny4urThoughts @Penny4urThoughts (185) • United States 17 Aug 11

I live in the United States of America. In new jersey to be more specific. Yes, the USA, the home of the free, land of the brave. Give them your tired your poor..,,just dont give them any muslims. I hate the fact that when people...

ignorance

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icats64 In America or even in other countries, anyone will run into someone who is ignorant and discriminating. It doesn't matter race, religion, creed, etc. There is always someone who has something to say. I am Dutch, Swedish, Irish, and Indian. I am Methodist but I...

18 Aug 11

Do you think those who are not into drama are fake?

divineathena @divineathena (1746) • United States 18 Aug 11

It struck me from reality shows. I noticed that in their online forums, the users always bash the participants who stay polite and avoid dramas. Many think those are blunt are being real. But after these reality shows end, we come...

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icats64 Drama makers do not tell the truth. They like to embellish their story with lies to make more out of the story they are telling. Polite people aren't fake. They just see through these people and don't want to get caught up in something that may have a...

18 Aug 11

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Why nobody response to my discussion?

onewaydream @onewaydream (27) • China 16 Aug 11

I am a new guy in mylot. Nice to meet you, myloters. I start a new discussion one day ago. And the topic is about the new coach of the Chinese football team. But I receive no response. I want to know how to choose the...

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icats64 Welcome! I have been a member for about a year but haven't really been on myLot. I came back just for the fun of it. I started a discussion on a topic I knew about and received many responses, of which I replied to each one. I would suggest to start a...

17 Aug 11