independent_inAK

@independent_inAK (274)

United States • Age 44

Joined myLot 18 years ago

To be happy don't do whatever you like, LIKE whatever you do!

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MONEY FOR NOTHING

justiman @justiman (428) • United States 1 Nov 06

When I see a guy (homeless) asking for money on a street corner, I try to judge whether or not they're sincere and 9 times out of 10,I give them a couple of bucks. What do you do or think?

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independent_inAK I do the same...try to determine their sincerety. I have given people some food.

2 Jul 07

work at home

tonivandross @tonivandross (143) • United States 21 Feb 07

i would like to know are there anywork at home jobs that you dont have to pay a fee. ive been scammed acouple of times

work at home

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independent_inAK I am a distributor with a company that is free to sign up with. It's awesome 'cuz you can just sign up and start buying the products at wholesale cost and turn around and sell them for 40% profit. Let me know if you'd like more info.

21 Feb 07

How far back can u remember?

PiperCharmed @PiperCharmed (457) • Australia 21 Feb 07

m earliest memory is when i was 3 and my mum ran into the house crying and my dad was yelling at her bcos she had crashed our car. i remember he was yelling then he suddenly wrapped his arms around her...its a great but sad early...

far back

memory

remember

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independent_inAK I think I was about 3 and I remember a softball hitting my back...although it wasn't very "soft". My dad and his buddy were playing catch and I just happened to be in the wrong place. I quit breathing and I think passed out. I remember opening my eyes and my...

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NASCAR

justiman @justiman (428) • United States 29 Oct 06

Some say its just going fast and turning left. I love the srategy behind winning a race. What do you think?

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independent_inAK I would rather drive than watch it. After a while it gets boring. I prefer the 1/4 mile(I've taken my car to the strip) but as long as I'm going fast it doesn't really matter. It would be awesome to get to drive NASCAR.

21 Feb 07

Annoying Laughs

justiman @justiman (428) • United States 13 Feb 07

Today I was sitting at lunch and this girl of about 20 or 22 would not stop cackling obnoxiously loud!! It was so nerve racking I almost got up and left before I was finished eating. Sitting with 3 other people she would laugh...

laughing

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independent_inAK Oh my gosh, that's so funny...HAHAHAHAHEHEHEHE...just kidding. I know what you mean. I knew a girl in high school that was so loud when she laughed. You could hear her down the hall. Now she is married to a good friend of mine but she doesn't laugh as much and...

21 Feb 07

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How do you deal with criticism?

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 20 Feb 07

As I am a very stubborn person - LOL - if anyone criticise me at work or in any other walk of life, I tend to get quietly annoyed about it, and determine to prove them wrong. I certainly never give tem the satisfaction of knowing...

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independent_inAK Just this week I am learning more about how to deal with criticism. I am coordinating a fundraiser event and am getting opinions on how things should or shouldn't be done. I take listen to what they have to say and nicely let them know that I appreciate...

21 Feb 07

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Small Town or Big Town?

justiman @justiman (428) • United States 14 Feb 07

Which do you prefer? I live in a small town just outside San Antonio called China Grove, if you've ever heard the Doobie Brothers song. I feel lucky like I have the best of both worlds. Where would you rather live?

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independent_inAK Definitely small town for me. I grew up in and still live in a small town. It's growing though. Most small towns are friendly and I feel safer...at least in mine.

14 Feb 07

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Do you celebrate valentine day?

worthy @worthy (2413) • India 14 Feb 07

Do you celebrate valentine's day ? In recent times it has come to be celebrated globally. good relief. In todays fast life where everyone is reeling to cope up with the stress of competition in jobs, studies and social...

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independent_inAK I used to be big on celebrating Valentines Day but am not any more. I think I tried to hard and made too much of a big deal out of it. I always gave and received gifts but since I've been married that doesn't happen much. The hubby's not big into giving me...

14 Feb 07

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How old is too old?

PiperCharmed @PiperCharmed (457) • Australia 14 Feb 07

One the news there was a story about a 15 yr old girl dating a 45yr old man...i think its too old...but ten again love is love...im not sure how old is too old how old is too old?

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independent_inAK I think at 15 you don't know what true love is. I know I thought that I knew but I didn't. There is so much to learn after 15, 18 or even 25...I'm still learning what love is all about.

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Why are woman so LAZY? They do not cook or clean or do anything anymore !

flagbabygirl @flagbabygirl (891) • United States 11 Feb 07

My mother cooked, Cleaned, Sewed, Made our halloween costumes, , she came to our school plays, and baked cookies with us! I continue this tradition of home with my 2 sone and my daughter, I do all of these things with them I even...

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independent_inAK I know I am not lazy. If I were who would do the dishes, clean the house(kitchen, bathroom, living room etc), make dinner, make lunches, volunteer at the school, go to all the kids' games, read stories, get the kids in bed, help brush teeth, wipe boodies, give...

11 Feb 07

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human beings

vanities @vanities (11395) • Davao, Philippines 11 Feb 07

do human being have instincts??

human

instincts

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independent_inAK Yes, we have the instinct to be loved, to survive, to nurture. I think that without instincts we would be dead.

11 Feb 07

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What is the correct age to get engaged

ashleyjea1985 @ashleyjea1985 (22) • United States 11 Feb 07

At what age do you feel someoen can get engaged without people thinking negatively of it?

engagement

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independent_inAK I feel that it all depends on the people and their situation. The couple could be young but very mature and they could have their families support and that would be fine or there could be a young couple who just want to get married out of spite or just for the...

11 Feb 07

I am Heartbroken.....We are a temporary Emergency Shelter for Animals.....and

AskAlly @AskAlly (3625) • Canada 11 Feb 07

Last week we got 4 horses that had been stolen and left in a shed with no food and no water. We work in conjuntion with the county and the local vet. Anyway the decision was made to try and save all 4. This means lots of time and...

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independent_inAK Thank you for what you are doing to help animals like these. I admire the time and hard work you've put into them. I hope the best for them all and especialy the gelding. Keep up the good work and stay strong for the animals. God bless you!

11 Feb 07

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did you use a special invitation for your wedding?

jolanda33 @jolanda33 (720) • Netherlands 10 Feb 07

i did! i didn't want to use the normal cards because my whole wedding wasn't normal! i've got married on the first off april, and we gave a big party on 23th of july because we wanted to celebrate it outside! i found on the...

marriage

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independent_inAK That sounds like a cool idea...I always like to do things different too. Our wedding invites weren't that unique but we did design and print them ourselves. We had a very small, beautiful wedding in January and then had a larger celebration wedding for our...

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Craziest thing you did for LOVE

killersmile @killersmile (75) • Philippines 10 Feb 07

what are the craziest thing you did for love? me? i elope just to be with him... my parents did not talk to me for a year because of what i did. but now i am happily married and my parents are happy too.

relationship

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independent_inAK One of the craziest things I did was fly 1,000 miles to get back together with a guy only to be stood up when I got there.

10 Feb 07

Do you always expect a gift/celebration during anniversaries?

killersmile @killersmile (75) • Philippines 10 Feb 07

i do! but my hubby just want to take me for dinner only, i expect some gifts or something romantic but he cant do it anymore. i also expect to go to motel again just like before when are still bf/gf... how about you?

relationship

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independent_inAK I like receiving gifts and used to expect it but I don't anymore. He never really gave me many gifts when we were dating either. We've been married for 5 years now and he gives me less then he ever did. I don't like to complain but it would be nice to get...

10 Feb 07

what does "off the air" mean?

firedog1985 @firedog1985 (258) • China 10 Feb 07

I can't find it in the dictionary

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independent_inAK I thought it was a figure of speech that meant a radio station was not broadcasting over the airwaves for a period of time.

10 Feb 07