janiceclaire

@janiceclaire (59)

Philippines • Age 42

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Did you ever had a confrontation or encounter with a mean person???

lptan_1225 @lptan_1225 (70) • Philippines 31 Aug 10

Let's face it! Once in our lifetime we have encountered mean people(web bullies, mean officemate, mean teammates etc...all mean people this world can have!) We don't want them to consume us, as we don't want to pick a fight......

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janiceclaire I did encounter someone with that attitude. She is soooo full of negativity and criticisms. But I opted not to confront her because I know I'll just be wasting my time and effort. I think that's who she is, through and through, so why waste my time right? I'm...

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Smoking or drinking?

mai200725 @mai200725 (77) • Philippines 27 Aug 10

Granting that it is taken moderatelty, which do you think is more harmful to ones health, smoking cigerettes or drinking liquors (wine, hard, beer, ladies drink, punch, etc..) Which do you worth engaging? Thus, are you a smoker or...

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janiceclaire choosing between the two evils eh? hehehe.. both are hamful to one's health, though recent studies reveal that small intake of wine or beer has its benefits, i haven't heard the same for smoking.. i don't think they are worth engaging if you are well aware of...

28 Aug 10

Dealing with your own Virtue

ania66 @ania66 (78) • Philippines 23 Aug 10

I have always been a believer that Patience is indeed a Virtue. I think I have lived by it for decades or so. Patience have always been my arm of defense in my everyday dealings, especially so when I get to deal with annoying...

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janiceclaire virtue? hmm.. patience is surely not one of mine :) but if i have one virtue that i hold dear and practice in my everyday life, that would be thankfulness. i'm just so thankful for everyone around me and also the things that i have and don't have as well.. i...

24 Aug 10

How can one be a Good Mother?

ania66 @ania66 (78) • Philippines 22 Aug 10

Whenever I come across about annulment or other dissolution of marriage issues (and the wife claims that she is doing "this" for her children), I can't help but ask - how can one be a "good mom" whose looking into the benefits of...

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janiceclaire We have our own concept on what a good mother should be. Yes, we sometimes wonder on how could a mother consider herself as a good one when she decides to end the marriage and claim that she's doing it for the benefit of the kids; however, there are also cases...

23 Aug 10

Worship Songs- share with us your fave and let's all celebrate and worship GOD

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 17 Aug 10

I always feel that i am lifted from my "physical incapacities" whenever i sing songs for God, whenever i sing praises and worship him through Christian praise and worship songs. Do you all feel the same whenever you are singing...

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janiceclaire I have lots of praise/worship songs but the following are my current faves: 1. Who Am I? - Casting Crowns 2. Somewhere In The Middle - Casting Crowns 3. Lead Me Lord 4. Sometimes A Prayer Will Do 5. We Are The Reason These songs never fails to...

17 Aug 10

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Thank you...

mai200725 @mai200725 (77) • Philippines 17 Aug 10

Do you say "Thank you" when some do you a favor, appreciates you or in any other occassions as needed? Do you think theres really a need to say this words?

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janiceclaire I'm a sucker for these words. It may be ordinary words but its powerful enough to convey our gratitude. I was brought up to appreciate people around me and I never failed to thank them, for their presence alone in my life makes me thankful to them. I think...

17 Aug 10

Would you settle for less?

mai200725 @mai200725 (77) • Philippines 9 Aug 10

In life, we make a lot of choices from education, hobbies, friends, boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife, dreams and a lot more. With these choices we make in ourlives would you settle for less or sometimes compromise things because...

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janiceclaire I'm the kind of person who wouldn't settle for less if there's always the possibility of getting the best. Compromises is inevitable in life, especially when it concerns other people's right. If getting the best entails hurting or stepping on other people's...

14 Aug 10

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What is your favorite way of relaxation ?

greenline @greenline (14838) • Canada 13 Aug 10

My days, each work day, Monday to Friday, are really very long. I would get back home fairly late in the evening, tired and totally exhausted some times. As soon as I get into my house, I would stretch out on the couch and go for...

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janiceclaire Nothing beats a good massage with instrumental or classical music playing in the background. A slice of cake and a cup of tea/coffee after that ralaxing massage would spell heaven for me :)

13 Aug 10

What is God's Role in your Life????

bird123 @bird123 (10643) • United States 13 Aug 10

Is God a Ruler, a Father, a Mother, a Maker of rules, an Enforcer, a Teacher, a Creator, Someone to save you from your troubles, Someone to lean upon???? Maybe God is just a Story, Illusion, Mind Games to you. Some say God is...

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janiceclaire He's my alpha and omega.

13 Aug 10

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what would you do if the guy or girl you love says that he loves other girl...

sweetloveforeve @sweetloveforeve (13120) • Portugal 12 Aug 10

hi guys^^ what would you do if the guy you love says he loves other person but wants be with you bcs he knows she never will love him and bcs you love him he can try to love you too. would you accept him? about me i wouldnt. i...

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janiceclaire wow! maybe i'll give him a right hook the instance he uttered those words (the nerve!), and no i won't accept him. i dont think any woman on her right mind would like to be treated as second best or a spare tire. as a woman, i know my worth and i do know that...

13 Aug 10

Oshkosh? Ginger snaps?

ania66 @ania66 (78) • Philippines 12 Aug 10

Which would you prefer for your toddlers? and why..

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janiceclaire Depends. If you're considering durability, especially for toddlers, go for Oshkosh.. But if you're the kind who goes for style, then choose Gingersnaps :)

12 Aug 10

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Survival OR Self Dignity

ania66 @ania66 (78) • Philippines 9 Aug 10

When do you have to live for Survival and when do you have to stand for your Self-dignity? Some says, everyday of Life, everything in Life is just "survival of the fittest". But I say, when is fit fittest? how do we measure...

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janiceclaire I always stand for my self-dignity. Survival, i believe, is only for animals. "Survival of the fittest" is a term used to describe the way of life in the animal kingdom. I won't stoop or resort to dirty tricks/ tactics just to have my way or as you say,...

12 Aug 10

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If your lover had another affair does it mean they love you no more?

czanwell_30 @czanwell_30 (717) • Philippines 11 Aug 10

If ever you knew that your lover was having an affair what would you think? Does he still love you or not? Please give examples and good description about this. My husband got an affair before, and I thought he doesn't love me...

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janiceclaire I have this favorite scene in one of the movies I recently watched, wherein the guy who cheated on his girl is talking to the girl's father. The guy swears that he loves the girl so much but the father rebuke him and told him that those words doesn't matter,...

12 Aug 10

Does single mean being lonely?

jolan07 @jolan07 (70) • Philippines 11 Aug 10

If you are already a single one.,does it mean that we are already lonely? As what I have experience.,being single is so sad...It's just like I have a feeling that I am not complete...and it disappoint me so much...

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janiceclaire Absolutely NOT! Being single should not be equated with loneliness. I'm single right now but I'm happier than when I was in a relationship. I can do things my own way and go out with friends without asking permission from someone who is not even your parent....

12 Aug 10

what is the most important role of a woman?a wife or being a mother?

mcaquino @mcaquino (60) • Philippines 11 Aug 10

Being a wife and a mother to a 1 year old son..is very difficult..you cannot manage two roles at the same time...how about you..what do you prefer???

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janiceclaire If i must choose between the role of a wife or a mother, I would absolutely go for the role of a mother. As a mother, you play a very important role in your child's future. You are, in a way, laying/building the foundation of your child's life. You have a...

11 Aug 10