jasonnaez

@jasonnaez (134)

Philippines • Age 63

Joined myLot 15 years ago

"I feel the love, the joy and the abundance"

www.jasonnaez.cieaura.com

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jasonnaez's Responses

Laziness!!!!! How to Overcome Laziness?

Dineshk @Dineshk (27) • India 20 Jun 12

Hi Friends! I am so so so Lazy!!!!! All day I do nothing except sit front of computer & TV. I want to overcome my laziness. Please give me some tips to overcome.

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jasonnaez I think laziness is a byproduct of having without a goal in life. A goal or purpose in life gives us the energy to act and to accomplish. Without it we become stagnant and we go along the seemingly endless cycle of laziness, unhappiness and boredom. So to get...

20 Jun 12

Keep secret from partner will ruin relationship

omchesunche @omchesunche (1754) • Indonesia 28 Nov 11

I notice many people has ruin relationship by not honest or open with their partner.. Meaning they like to keep secrets from their partner because they're afraid of what people will think of them, or they're afraid of rejection....

secret of long marriage

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jasonnaez The foundations of a stable relationship are transparency, trust and faithfulness and without these three elements a relationship is doomed to disintegrate. Love, although considered a major factor, has the tendency to evaporate once trust is already absent....

29 Nov 11

Bitter about God? Bitter about religion? Why?

neelia_lyn @neelia_lyn (2003) • Philippines 28 Nov 11

There seems to be some who are bitter about God or religion. They could very well quote Bible verses, and even explain well what they know about God. They claim to be 'like this' and at the same time is way out of league. I know...

bitter about religion

god

life a mystery

painful experiences

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jasonnaez I think people who keeps on denying God should be more concerned on finding ways to improve their lives rather than relentlessly disproving the existence of God. If you come to think of it, human miseries and sufferings are man made. Humans should be humble...

29 Nov 11

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i don't know what to do now

mjweed21 @mjweed21 (693) • Philippines 15 Nov 11

I have a friend who has an issue with her boyfriend now. The guy just suddenly vanished. Vanished like he is not communicating to my friend at all. My friend has been trying to reach him through calls and text messages but still...

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jasonnaez People should understand that everything change and that includes relationships. Nothing is permanent. One should learn to let go when the time to do so has come. Too much attachment is the source of misery and suffering. Yes, you may try to mend...

15 Nov 11

Michael Jackson Trial

bostonphil @bostonphil (4459) • United States 3 Nov 11

Both sides presented closing arguments today. The case has gone to the jury. I think that both sides presented strong arguments. I have no idea what the outcome is going to be. I wonder what other mylotters are thinking. Have...

michael jackson

michael jackson trial

treatment for insomnia

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jasonnaez Based on the evidences and testimonies presented in court it is evident that Dr. Murray tried to conceal evidences. He did not call the paramedics right away so that he can have enough time to hide the paraphernalia. It is sad because Dr. Murray could have...

4 Nov 11

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Your Life

kaichoukebz @kaichoukebz (1190) • Philippines 3 Nov 11

Life is interesting. Isn't it? Everyday, there are full of surprises. We do not know if what awaits us in the near future. Life is also unpredictable. Isn't it? We cannot predict if when will be the time that we will be...

life

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jasonnaez I agree that life is full of surprises and one can not predict what will happen the next second of our life. Today we are here, tomorrow we are gone. However, we have the capacity to create the ideal life condition we want in life through correct thoughts,...

3 Nov 11

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Do you ever feel like everyone is out to get you?

android @android (894) 3 Nov 11

Not in a paranoid way but in a way that it seems like they are just trying to make things as hard as possible? I have been through a series of constant and consistent dilemmas over the last 11 years of my life which has cause...

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jasonnaez Whoww it sounds you are really in a deep hole so to speak. I sympathize with you with what you are going through. I had been through many difficult situations in the past and I know how tough it is. I want to let you know that any kind of difficulty or failure...

3 Nov 11

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feeling so hollow,

deliar @deliar (609) • Indonesia 3 Nov 11

have you ever feel so lonely,hollow...? you are in the deep of sorrow, make us give up with this life. Now just like me, i do really so sad and feeling so hollow. i dont know what i can do anymore..... so hopeless.. please,...

sorowness

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jasonnaez A deep introspection is needed. You have to identify what really makes you feel "so sad and feeling so hollow." For sure there are fundamental causes to the present life condition you are in right now. Dealing with the causes, with courage and determination,...

3 Nov 11

Multitasking: pride or bad?

Pushhyarag2000 @Pushhyarag2000 (1416) • India 31 Oct 11

Hello there! Modern age demands on our lives are so much, willy-nilly, most of us end up multitasking to a lesser or greater extent. Like when a lady is cooking, she has to pay attention to the children to get them ready for...

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jasonnaez I am not a fan of doing two things both at the same time (multitasking) because it scatters the focus that is much needed to accomplish the task with excellent result. Doing many things at the same time drastically reduces quality and effectiveness. This is...

31 Oct 11

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Never argue with people who think they know everything

whengcat @whengcat (1457) • Philippines 12 Sep 11

Have you encountered people like this? If you do, I bet you know what will happen next when u try to argue with them. You'll never win, because they will never step down. They don't even take suggestions most of the time because...

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jasonnaez Whooww yes I did. Actually I have encountered one in MyLot. The person speaks as if he knows everything and he made me feel ignorant on the subject matter. My antidote to a person with a high-ego-trip is simply IGNORE! There is no point in pursuing a...

31 Oct 11

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I consider myself Pagan Christian

jessyblogs @jessyblogs (4) • United States 18 Oct 11

I'm Pagan-Wiccan but I also believe in God, because I'm very tolerant and accepting of everyone else's choices and faiths. Others may think this is wrong, but honestly? Who are they to say I am wrong? I am very much comfortable...

happiness

reality

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jasonnaez I am sorry, but I think your statement is a bit confusing. How can a Christian be a pagan at the same time. Why call Wiccan pagan if its believers professes in a deities. Is it right to say that Christians do believe in God and Pagans do not? I do respect...

28 Oct 11

Making right decision has been difficult.

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 26 Oct 11

there are times I don't know what's right or wrong in life any more. I don't know what would be good for me and what would bring or give happiness . So it has been a struggle for me in making right choices in life. what seems to...

life

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jasonnaez I used to be in that same situation before. My actions were practically made based on instinct or impulse, unable to distinguish between right and wrong, good and evil. It was characterized by motivation based on immediate gain rather than on reason or logic....

26 Oct 11

Is altruism real?

cerebralcasserole @cerebralcasserole (11) • United States 21 May 11

The definition of altruism is "the renunciation of the self, and the exclusive concern for the welfare of others." I wonder, why would someone do this? It's for the feelings they get right? The idea that they are doing something...

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jasonnaez The meaning of "renunciation of the self" or self-surrender is the giving-up of all things negative in our lives, such as hatred, jealousy, anger, covetousness, malice, self-seeking which causes human suffering. "Renunciation of the self" does not involved the...

21 May 11

Is altruism real?

cerebralcasserole @cerebralcasserole (11) • United States 21 May 11

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jasonnaez The meaning of "renunciation of the self" or self-surrender is the giving-up of all things negative in our lives, such as hatred, jealousy, anger, covetousness, malice, self-seeking. These are just but some of the many elements in our lives that cause...

21 May 11

Feeling sad/depressed

Serenity81 @Serenity81 (38) • United States 15 Jan 11

I really feel sad and overwhelmed today. I used to suffer from major depression but have been feeling better for several years now. I don't want to feel this way again. How do you pick yourself up and keep going when you are...

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jasonnaez I used to be depressed and irritable all the time until I came across the book titled "As the Mind Thinketh" by James Allen. This book, which can be read on line and downloaded for free, revolutionized the way I see things in life and it ultimately salvaged me...

15 Jan 11

Should Christians Pay More Heed to Staying-Out-of-Sin or to Leading-2-Salvation?

Uncle Jay, Finding More Value in Your Machine @mythociate (21432) • Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 14 Jan 11

I saw a website-video today remembering when Jesus said, "Remember the wife of Lot (who turned into a pillar-of-salt when she looked back at THE WORLD she was leaving): DON'T TURN BACK!" I then remembered The Great Commission...

gospel

the great commission

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jasonnaez God calls us to live a holy (separated) life. At the same time, we are also commanded to spread the good news of God's saving grace, love and mercy. These two go hand-and-hand with each other. They are not separate. If you come to think of it, one cannot...

14 Jan 11

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Religional Principles Doubt

stylewaves @stylewaves (1060) • India 12 Jan 11

I think everyone mean that religions are the things that teaches very good manners , but as far as i have seen it don't seems to be teaching Good things rather it is teaching Bad thoughts. It teaches that their religion is the...

religion

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jasonnaez First of all, religion does not teach "bad thoughts." On the contrary, major religions, such as Christianity, Judaism, Islam and Buddhism, teaches their followers to be kind, honest, loving and law abiding. But ultimately it is people who decides whether they...

14 Jan 11