jolan07

@jolan07 (70)

Philippines • Age 34

Joined myLot 16 years ago

"Music is all around us...All we have to do it to...LISTEN"

Responses (20)

jolan07's Responses

Is there a wrong kind of love?

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 17 Aug 10

My life is a walking cliche right now and I know I'm doing something obviously wrong to other people. I am still in love with an ex who has cheated on me. We're not together, neither are we talking about us. But I still get to...

love

right love

wrong love

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jolan07 No,there's nothing wrong kind of love.. It's just that the person you loved maybe not meant for you... Don't ruin your happiness just because of him..move on and let go... Upon letting him go.,ask for the guidance of our Father.,this has a great help in...

18 Aug 10

Is it okay to talk to an ex?

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 11 Jul 10

I am still confused and hurt over the matter. My 5-year relationship with someone has ended because he has another person in his life too for the last 3years. Now, I'm still dealing with the pain and I don't know if it's good...

talking

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jolan07 yes..of course... how will you moved on if you are still thinking in your past... let the time heal the wound..and enjoy life... i'm sure God has someone to be with you in the future..

15 Jul 10

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should i leave him?

iansheila @iansheila (175) • Philippines 15 Feb 09

as i have said in my past discussions, my boyfriend meet an accident last august 2008 that makes his right hand unable to move. the other day, he said that i should leave him because he is useless and cannot marry me because he...

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jolan07 no...u must stay....instead o leaving him,,,kindly stay beside him....he needs ur support,love and care,,,, this the ry tym to show to him that u love him...

15 Feb 09

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Who would you choose?

markmoney @markmoney (2868) • Philippines 3 Feb 09

For boys: Choice 1) the Prettiest and Sexiest Girl but also the Poorest Choice 2) The Richest and Wealthiest Girl but also the Ugliest For girls: Choice 1) the Most Handsome Guy with the Most Beautiful Body but also the...

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jolan07 u know its hard for girls to choose,but there's one thing the most important.... whether he is the richest or poorest,,,the important is u love him...he loves u back....as in u love each other.... together face the struggles and the live a healthy...

15 Feb 09

Would you, should you commit suicide for Love?

TheGreatWhiteBuffalo @TheGreatWhiteBuffalo (4822) • United States 15 Feb 09

It is true that at the moment a person states that they would die if they could not have you as a lover that the person making such a statement is not the lover for you. Has your lover threatened suicide? Did you feel sorry...

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jolan07 no.... that's out of my mind...even f i'm broken hearted,i will never commit suicide... besides there will still someone who will soon come to my life... i don't want to end my life just for that nonsense things,,,,

15 Feb 09

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i love u

Hrishi86 @Hrishi86 (676) • India 12 Feb 09

wat is the best way to say i love you....??? as am in love with a gril and wanna propose her in this valentine day... can u say me how can i propose her n say her that am in love with her...

love

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jolan07 u may also surprise her.... u know girls do love surprises..... it makes us feel that we are being loved and importnt to someone we loved....

13 Feb 09

i love u

Hrishi86 @Hrishi86 (676) • India 12 Feb 09

wat is the best way to say i love you....??? as am in love with a gril and wanna propose her in this valentine day... can u say me how can i propose her n say her that am in love with her...

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jolan07 the best way to prove that u love someone...is that u have to show it through your actions.... many says that actions speaks louder than voice... am i ryt?

13 Feb 09

If I got jealous does that mean that I dont trust my boyfriend?

marie_cehl @marie_cehl (50) • Philippines 28 Jan 09

Im confused of these two words. I trust my bf but sometimes i cant control to get jealous with his some officemates and girl friends... :(

girl friends

jealous

trust

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jolan07 for me....its not that you don't trust your bf...it's just you are afraid to loose him... hey,we're in the same track... but don't you worry coz if your bf do love you...and the both of you are meant to be...so be it....he will be yours....

30 Jan 09

What do you feel when you got zero response from your started discussion?

markmoney @markmoney (2868) • Philippines 21 Jan 09

It really feels bad when you got no response from the discussion you've started. It makes me feel down. Actually that's the reason before why I got less interest to myLot. But getting many responses can really makes me feel glad...

f zero

no response

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jolan07 i'm disappointed...then i thought they maybe they don't like tha discussion i've started...

21 Jan 09

Is the display photo you use here in mylot is the original you?

jlamela @jlamela (4898) • Philippines 20 Jan 09

I came up with this discussion because I am quite confused with the faces of mylot members, some of them used photos from other other people and I don't know if the members whom I became my friends are the one who really in their...

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jolan07 yes...it's really me.... i don't know to the others...

21 Jan 09

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who agrees that this movie is great??iii.!!!

gedix14 @gedix14 (70) • Philippines 10 Jan 09

..oh gosh.!..our whole campus is talking about this movie last June..and i was so ignorant of what is this about..i tried to borrow dvd's of this movie..but nobody did..but but but but..i did not give up.!!.response and u'l know...

a walk to remember

dvd r

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jolan07 i agreed that it was great... but it's a tragedy movie... so tell me...what did u do?

20 Jan 09

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Do you put colored nail polish your fingernails?

bubblyapple @bubblyapple (2653) • Philippines 13 Jan 09

I am not a person who put nail polish on her nails much. Not only because it is hard to maintain but also because my my nail breaks easily. If I let it grow a certain length, even before I am able to shape and polish it neatly,...

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jolan07 we're the same.... i don't feel putting coored nai polish,coz it looks dirty... i just mae sure that ,my finger nails are clean....

13 Jan 09

does music help you?

jhl930 @jhl930 (3601) • United States 13 Jan 09

when im doing something on the computer or exercising or something like that i always have to have music because if i don't honestly it won't be that great and it'll just drag by for me and it really helps me but ive heard before...

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jolan07 yup.....music has a great help....its one way of relaxing.... specially when i'm doing such work... it makes you feel comfortable of wat u r doing.....

13 Jan 09

When you first start a relationship.....

Lexus656 @Lexus656 (672) • United States 13 Jan 09

HOw do you break the ice? I generally ask questions and get to know the person through conversation. what do you guys use to get to know the other person?

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jolan07 i made friends to them.... i first satart my reationship when i was in my thir yea high shcool..... and i think i'm not lucky ith such relationships... coz i'm three times bieng hurt.... wat do u thin i'm gonna do?

13 Jan 09

What do you look for in a partner...?

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 9 Dec 08

For a partner. I'd like him to be someone I could really talk to, from the basic stuff to the more imaginary stuff. I don't want someone who just informs me, but knows how to explain things. Someone who is interested in...

forever

love

partner

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jolan07 i love to meet someone i can leAN ON...i could really talk to not only a as a lover but as well as a friend... a guy who's not boring to be with.... a guy that will truly love me...coz i once hurt by someone i loved before.... someone who's educated and...

10 Dec 08

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Love?? or Hate??

pimpsterque999 @pimpsterque999 (227) • United States 9 Dec 08

My boyfriend and i barely get along. I love him to death and would love to just pour my affection and attention on him but because of his mouth and actions i have a very hard time doing so. Seems like everytime i am comfortable...

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jolan07 our sitiation with our partners are very the same...i have a boyfrnd too,and i am deeply inlove with him....but he has changed,the very first tym i met him,,,i can say that he's a perfect one but when the time passes by,after two years of our relationship,he...

10 Dec 08

do u feel alone ??

hapie_angel @hapie_angel (129) • Malaysia 7 Dec 08

i hate 2 be single rite nw .. m i too selfish ?? i m facin some problem in my friendship .. feel empty .. sad .. tired ... so i hate single .. reali duno wads wrong wif me ... wanna find some1 2 talk bout , a shoulder 4 me...

relationship

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jolan07 we feel the same...but i hve a boyfriend..we r far frm each other..still i feel alone....coz he nver cares for me...he didn't bother to txt me f i don't txt him..... wat am i goin' to do....?it really hurts.... and i think she has someone else there....

9 Dec 08

How do you feel????

theembittered @theembittered (1025) • United States 5 Dec 08

Hi !! i just want to share some problem that i have yesterday!! How you feel when one of the people who you loves a lot accused you of something that you have not really done? Yesterday at the afternoon exactly someone that I...

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jolan07 i've also encountered that kind of situation...but did u know that this guy who a ccused me for doing tha thing i,ve never dine was the on was guilty for doing it.... what i've done was that....i've broke him up....

5 Dec 08