jude79

@jude79 (58)

Australia • Age 45

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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One NIght Stand

jlmcknit @jlmcknit (92) • United States 3 Feb 07

Have you ever had a one night stand, and did you later regret it?

sex

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jude79 yea dna yes. My X had just broken up with me after 3.5 years because he cheated on me. I was going through a really rough time, so I went clubbing every Friday night. One of these nights I bought a guy home with me in my drunken stupor. The following morning I...

3 Feb 07

You love your MoM Right??

shalwani @shalwani (760) • Pakistan 2 Feb 07

What is the best thing you LOVE about her???

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jude79 Best thing I love about my mum, is that she is two states away and does not call me. Sorry I grew up in foster care. But if I were to talk about my foster mother: I love her so much because she is herself and she loves me for me and she sees my kids as her...

3 Feb 07

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Valentine's Day

funundersun @funundersun (118) • Malaysia 3 Feb 07

Valentine's Day is coming soon. Is is okay to have more than one valentine? If you have more than one valentine then would tell the other valentine about it or hide the facts from each other?

day

valentine

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jude79 Ill actually have three. My bf, and both of my sons, so for me that would be a tad hard to keep a secret. But would I have more than one adult male...no, unless of course they were male friends. And if I were to yes I woudl tell them both about each other,a s...

3 Feb 07

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Does you cat slap you?

mmonica @mmonica (36) • India 3 Feb 07

I don't know how many of you have experienced it. But I've been slapped several times by my cat. He does it if he gets irritated. When he was a kitty, my sister was holding him and i bent towards him just to touch. He immediately...

cats

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jude79 Yup my cat does that. He used to do it with claws, but stopped after I started to cut them. 7 years on and he has not had them cut in years, but he does slap. especially when he is not getting his own way, or when he wants attention. I also have a 16 month old...

3 Feb 07

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Changing the oil in the car.

deebomb @deebomb (15304) • United States 27 Jan 07

Do you think that girls that drive a car should be taught how to change oil and tires. They also should be taught how to watch the water level and oil and transmision oil. They should be taught emergancy repairs. Do we teach...

changing a tire

should women

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jude79 I think that these days females should be taught how to do those things. I have had to teach myself along the way, but I know how to do those things, plus change spark plugs & leeds, distributor, battery, brake pads, and alot of other things. It now turns...

3 Feb 07

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Why don't Ebay sellers leave me feedback first?

Bizziebod @Bizziebod (3497) 2 Feb 07

I always pay really quickly, most of the time within minutes of the auction ending. But it really peeves me that alot of sellers on Ebay don't leave me feedback first! I have completed my part of the contract so I should have...

ebay

ebaying

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jude79 I normally leave feedback when I have posted the item, that way the buyer always knows when I have posted it and its a way I keep track of it all. But I think with some sellers they wait to see if you leave a positive or negative feedback. Personally I hate...

3 Feb 07

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What is your cat doing right now?

brimia @brimia (6581) • United States 2 Feb 07

Mine is sleeping on my lap. He doesn't do that too often...he's usually closer to my husband.

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jude79 Mine is mst likely sleeping in the garage or hanging out with the neighbours cat

2 Feb 07

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Does your cat follow you around everywhere?

hitzphillygirl @hitzphillygirl (1235) • United States 1 Feb 07

Riley is such a little shadow. He always has to be around one member of my family. If I go upstairs, he follows me right up, and right back down. He's always in sight, so I guess that's a good thing to keep him out of trouble.

cats

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jude79 yup, mine does. But either when he wants a pat or food. Apart from that he is alseep behind a couch or outside away from my toddler.

2 Feb 07

Were you ever in an abusive relationship?

Rashu169 @Rashu169 (4391) • India 2 Feb 07

if not do you know anyone who is in a abusive relationsip???? why do u think abusive relationship is tolerated and lived with???

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jude79 I used to be, many years ago in my late teens. I ended up fighting back after he pushed me that hard down the hall that I put my shoulder out on the wardrobe in the room at the end. I dont think anyone should tolerate it, why be with someone when they abuse...

2 Feb 07

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do you sell on Ebay? Have you ever had an annoying buyer?

ma_belle @ma_belle (1357) • United States 1 Feb 07

I just had an auction up and a woman from CA won it. She emailed me 2x a day for the 4days after the auction ended asking if I sent it and when it would get to her, got a bit annoying (!). I sent it priority on the day after the...

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jude79 I had one buyer who had bought a list of me, claim twice that she did not receive it via email and then that the attachment was not on the email. So i burnt it onto disc and dropped it into her letter box at the address she gave me. She gave me a negative...

2 Feb 07

Hi everyone :) Is anyone out there from Australia?

mem666 @mem666 (43) • Australia 14 Jan 07

Just trying to see how many fellow Australians use this site :) Hi to you all.

australia

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jude79 Hi, I am in Melbourne in the Northern suburbs. But I have lived in both NSW and Brisbane. But prefer Melbourne and the SE coast of NSW

2 Feb 07

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images?

navikh333 @navikh333 (529) • India 2 Feb 07

hello i am a newbie here.i saw that if we upload photos they would pay.can u tell me where to upload photos.is it during posting a discussion or seperately uploading? and how much will i get if i upload 20 photos

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jude79 I have uploaded a couple of pics into the subject thing. For one I was paid 3cents and the one I put up yesterday I got 1 cent. So I have no idea on how that works out. Maybe it goes by how many people click on the pics.

2 Feb 07

My mother made the decision for me

CatEyes @CatEyes (2448) • United States 2 Feb 07

As most of you know I posted a discussion in regards to my mother and her abuse of me during childhood and throuhg adult hood. She has used me, accused me of horrible things and if you would like to view the discussion to get the...

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jude79 I feel so sorry for you. I can also understand why you are upset. My mother put me into foster care at a young age and got back in contact with me when I was 16. Ever since then I have been wishing she didn't. She has blamed me for everything bad that has...

2 Feb 07

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