kabella50

@kabella50 (309)

United States • Age 74

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Is it right to stay in amrraige that is unhappy just for the kids?

SheraPop @SheraPop (84) 27 Feb 07

I want out of my marriage... I took my vows seriously and promised to stay for better or worse to the man I married... but he has changed and if I were stood in front of this man at the alter I would laugh and say No Way!!! We...

relationships

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kabella50 what in the world are you doing in that relationship?You never go where your kids are not welcome and you never ever expose them to people who don't have their best interest at heart.No happy pills because you have enough things going out of control and you...

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This is what, Andy Rooney says about women over 40..!

cjsmom @cjsmom (1423) • United States 27 Feb 07

A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night and ask, "What are you thinking?" She doesn't care what you think. If a woman over 40 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit around whining about it. She...

men

praise

women over 40

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kabella50 wonderful.

27 Feb 07

Unique combinations in everyday life

vivasuzi @vivasuzi (4127) • United States 21 Feb 07

Today, as I grabbed some French Vanilla Creamer to put in my Hot Chocolate, I wondered if anyone else has done this before? I mean, you use it for Coffee, so why not Hot Chocolate? I do this b/c Hot Chocolate made with water isn't...

fruit punch

hot chocolate

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kabella50 interesting.I found that if I mix the creamer with warm water and let it get cold in the fridge,it makes a good non dairy milk for cereal as my grandaughter is vegan and won't accept animal milk.

22 Feb 07

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Will you always answer the phone?

nicolec @nicolec (2671) • United States 20 Feb 07

Ok, so we've all had our moods where we really didn't feel like talking to anyone. We really just want peace and quiet. Now let's say the phone ring. If you have caller id, you might see that it's a friend/lover/realative or...

moods

phone calls

relationships

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kabella50 If it's one of my daughters and it's an emergency they will call more than once because they know I don't like answering the phone.I have a phone because it's necessary.If it's any one else I will let them leave a message and I will get back to them when I...

21 Feb 07

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How to Handle the Ex-Stepmother

cyntrow @cyntrow (8523) • United States 17 Feb 07

My oldest son is getting married. He and Misty have been engaged for almost a year and they plan to marry next summer. Misty has asked me my advice and I thought to put it to all you mylotters. My ex-husband, my son's father,...

divorce

family

wedding

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kabella50 I would let the son have his wishes respected and the adults involved should act as adults and make merry for the sake of your son.

17 Feb 07

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has jesus studied buddhism in india?

timuss @timuss (474) • India 26 Dec 06

hi i hv seen sometime back a report on bbc regarding " jesus studeid buddhism in india" . Some period of Jesus's life is still unrecorded . SOme believe he came to Himalaya and was influenced by Budhdha. i'hv read a book about...

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kabella50 I too have read this and it sounds believable to me.Why not?

16 Feb 07

Buddha

apsara60 @apsara60 (6610) • Israel 15 Feb 07

When ever I see picture or statue of Buddha, it gives me peace. Some how I feel among all religions and their preachings, the simple preaching of buddha really have some meaning and they give peace. Do some of you feel same like...

buddha

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kabella50 I think when the Creator wants to catch a persons attention ,He will do it through any means that the person will listen to.

16 Feb 07

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Is religion important in a relationship?

irreverent @irreverent (68) • Philippines 16 Feb 07

I have a friend who is a Roman Catholic while his girlfriend is a Muslim (a royalty, I believe). They love each other and are not bothered by their difference in religion, but both of their parents disapprove of their...

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kabella50 The differences could be huge and when the times of love have subsided to a flicker as all love does from time to time,this is when the differences will rear their ugly head.

16 Feb 07

I thought she felt the same as me...

xmanofsteel69 @xmanofsteel69 (458) • Canada 16 Feb 07

The day before Valentines day, my girlfriend broke up with me. She said I never changed since we started going out...which was over a year ago (which is not true, might I add). I always tried to get her to go to the movies with...

love

pain

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kabella50 well sad as you sound this may happen again and that's not all bad.Look,we all want love but life is a journey and has many roads leading to a destination.That means that everything that occures along the way are experiences,experiences that we need to help us...

16 Feb 07

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What if your kids won't talk to you?

cf44867 @cf44867 (42) • United States 14 Feb 07

I have 3 boys that have really been through hell in their life. Long story short they live with their dad by choice, sort of. When they were 5, 3 and 1 their father took off with them and it took me 3 years to find them. At that...

kids

not talking

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kabella50 you let them no the when they bring up untruths, that untruths are what they are.You just keep the lines of communication available to them,let them know you love them regardless and no matter what do not speak ill of their father.Sooner or later the truth...

15 Feb 07

Can a gay couple raise a "normal" child?

Matricia1 @Matricia1 (86) • United States 15 Feb 07

Do you think that two men or two women can raise what society calls "normal" children? Do you think there is a difference between heterosexual and homosexual couples as far as raising children or do you think there will be some...

gay parents

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kabella50 I think it opens up more possibilities than hetro relationships.Like when interacial children grow up with parents of different races,it opens up the possibilities more so for the child to mingle into other races for it will seem normal to them so I guess...

15 Feb 07

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Am I the only person on MyLot that hates Valentine's Day?

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 14 Feb 07

OK - I am going crazy! Everywhere I look, and read, there are posts about Valentine's Day. What are your plans? What will you buy for your loved one etc, etc? Yet to me - it is the most horrible, tacky, overly-commercial, "day"...

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kabella50 It's not the fact that everyonne is dictating when you should show a little extra affection,it's just fun to have this day put aside for lovers.I know many people show their love on other days and some do everyday,but some get so caught up in making a living...

14 Feb 07

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Heavy Snow Warning for parts of New York

brendalee @brendalee (6082) • United States 12 Feb 07

Here in New York we are under a heavy snow warning. I have never heard of that. I have heard of snow storm warnings and winter weather adviseries and many others but never this. Is this a new category they came up with? Has anyone...

heavy snow warning

new york

weather

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kabella50 I use to live in new york and yes I have heard of heavy snow warnings.You probably never paid attention when you were growing up because we all loved that snow when we were kids.

13 Feb 07

bad habbit

babi74 @babi74 (25) • Russian Federation 13 Feb 07

All my friends and I are smokers. We are living in a hostel together. I want to quit, but I don't know how to quit with out being separated from my friends. Do you have any idea about how to solve such problems?

advice

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kabella50 if you really want to quit then you will and being around those friends of yours who smoke won't change anything.I quit smoking recently because I was really tired of cigarettes and their taste and smell.I convinced myself that they were literally making me...

13 Feb 07