kukai127

@kukai127 (67)

Philippines • Age 43

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The love that lets go

edsss17 @edsss17 (4394) • Philippines 31 Mar 12

I wasn't suppose to be starting a discussion about love since I am not in love or something... But, I just can't help it! I was giving my blog a make-over today and I'm listening to some music to be able to do what I have to...

letting go

love

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kukai127 i had to let go of someone. But the process was very hard. Countless tears were shed and you always wonder when will the pain go away. When will you stop hurting. But eventually, you move on. With my family and friends' help and support, I bounced back. I look...

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Words mean nothing if action don't follow

michellepacho @michellepacho (17) 25 Mar 12

I hate people who talk a lot and acoomplish nothing at the end of the day. There are some who plan how to waste their money instead of thinking on how to spend it wisely. There are also people who promises a lot of things at the...

disappointment

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kukai127 Actions do speak louder than words because that is where we see what kind of person we are or someone is. If one is only full of talk and no action, you are on the losing end. It is better to live on your own or be with someone who can appreciate who you...

25 Mar 12

Do we really have to wait for the time to heal a Broken Heart?

moy2x_09 @moy2x_09 (10) • Philippines 22 Mar 12

Many of us believed that a Broken Heart can cause such an intense reaction that you may feel your life has been completely striped of meaning. Jobs, hobbies and friends may no longer hold any joy.In fact some of us experienced...

broken heart

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kukai127 I'm a true believer of this saying. You have to let yourself heal and it takes time. It may take days, weeks, months or even years for a broken heart to heal. And we have different ways of coping and getting over the pain. I got busy with work when my...

22 Mar 12

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If you could go back in time..

chloe1055 @chloe1055 (21) • Philippines 22 Mar 12

If you could go back in time, let's say 10 years back, what will you tell your younger self? I'll start, to the 17 year old me: - "Study hard. It is not just grade, it will matter to you later on." - "Spend more time...

time

what if

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kukai127 What would I tell my younger self? I'm 31 right now, 10 years back, I would probably say these: - Enjoy being single. - Plan ahead. - He's just right beside you all the time.

22 Mar 12

With your current relationship, are you happy or do you want to let it go?

kccrystalsachi @kccrystalsachi (117) • Philippines 21 Mar 12

There are dif'rent levels of our current relationship. Some just averagely happy, some really happy, some of us would also want to just let go. What about you, happy, sad or would like to simply forget everything because it's...

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kukai127 I am happy with my relationship. Though there are times that I really can't stand the distance that I think I might go crazy, I just reminisce the happy times we have. Currently, my husband is in Australia and I'm still here in the Philippines. But I'm...

22 Mar 12

True love....how do you find it??

pachuchay @tipay26 (867) • Philippines 22 Mar 12

how do you find true love???Is it by having a long time boyfriend or girlfriend??What is true love to you??Have you felt it?I wanna share a picture to all of you and that picture to me is the true meaning of true love..you can...

true love

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kukai127 True love comes to those who wait. That's for sure. It's not about finding "The One." It is about finding the exact half of yourself. I never tried to find my true love. All this time, he was just beside me. And now, I am married to him.

22 Mar 12

Summer plans, anyone?

adnileb @adnileb (5276) • Philippines 1 Mar 12

My summer vacation is now set. Yipee!! For the first week of April, we will go to a province far far away from where I am now. We will take a plane to go there then bus when we go home. I've been there actually for 3 summers...

adventure

summer

vacation

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kukai127 Haven't been planning anything for the summer. But after reading your post, I am thinking of planning one. But in a few days, some of my friends and I are going to Baguio for a much needed R & R from work. We'll be spending a few days there. But after that, I...

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Do you believe in second chances?

grasyia @grasyia (29) • Philippines 19 Feb 12

For me Yes, I do believe. As a Human Being we are prone to mistakes. No matter how big it is. But if you do the same mistake again I think the word "chances" are out of the dictionary.

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kukai127 I do believe in second chances but it depends on what kind of situation that second chance will be given. A person can only take so much. If someone violated my trust, I don't think I can grant that someone a second chance. How can you if you no longer trust...

25 Feb 12

What is the ;most romantic gift you have ever purchased for someone?

ladym33 @ladym33 (10979) • United States 24 Feb 12

What is the most romantic gift you have purchased for someone? Also share the most romantic gift you have ever gotten?

romantic gift

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kukai127 The letters and cards that always say what I really feel, I Think that's the most romantic gift I have given my husband. It's not always material but there are times that we feel that the other is stressed out or lonely that we send messages on our phones that...

24 Feb 12

What makes you happy?

hunibani @hunibani (720) • Philippines 19 Feb 12

Doing the things I want to do makes me so happy. Eating my favorite foods and enjoying the view of nature, makes me extremely happy. Being with my loved once makes feel blessed.

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kukai127 what makes me happy are very simple things. waking up on a bright sunny day. being able to get 2 days off from work. spending time with my family. strolling in the mall. mylotting. hanging out with friends. eating ice cream or cake.

21 Feb 12

I dont want flowers on valentines day

jasmin_niza @jasmin_niza (362) • Philippines 11 Feb 12

Yes, i dont want flowers on valentines day, if its cheap, that's alright.but if its expensive, id rather have something else that will be useful and that will last longer.

flower

love

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kukai127 I did not receive anything last valentine's Day. But I am not complaining. My husband called me up and told me that he loves me very much. Sometimes, it's the little things that we tend to ignore that really counts. I used to hope that I receive flowers on...

17 Feb 12

How to celebrate Baby's first birthday

jasmin_niza @jasmin_niza (362) • Philippines 17 Feb 12

I'm always thinkng of how to celebrate my baby's first birthday. If we are going to celebrate it on a local fastfood chain like jollibee or mcdonalds, im thinking if she will enjoy it since she's too young, plus the budget will be...

birthday

first bday

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kukai127 An intimate get together with those closest to you and your family. They are right. A year old cannot really remember how he or she spent their first birthday. Though every milestone in a child's life is very important, we must also consider the...

17 Feb 12

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If you could relive your life .....

GreenMoo @GreenMoo (11833) 14 Feb 12

If you could relive your life to date, what would you change? Is there something that you've done, or not done, that has changed the course of your life which you would alter with the benefit of hindsight? There's not very...

change

life

relive

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kukai127 I agree with you. I wouldn't change anything that has happened in my life. The bumps and bruises I had earned thus far has taught and molded me to who I am. A strong woman. I may be an introvert but little by little each day, I am starting to open up with...

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What's the best way to cope up with a heartbreak?

thegreenestpasture @thegreenestpasture (51) • Philippines 31 May 11

Hello Mylotters, One way or another, we have had our heart broken. Some have easy time to move on, some takes time or even forever to get over the pain. With your own experience, how did you rise again after the most...

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kukai127 is there really an easy way to heal a broken heart? i had my heart broken, sure. getting over the hurt and pain is really not an easy feat. my world turned upside down in an instant. dreams were shattered, hope was gone. i remembered laughing but not really...

31 May 11

I missed coffee

jasmin_niza @jasmin_niza (362) • Philippines 27 May 11

I missed drinking coffee already. For 8 months now, i haven't had even a small cup. It is because i'm pregnant. My ob gyne's first reminder to me was not to drink coffee and i followed her. One more month to go, after i give...

coffee

pregnancy

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kukai127 coffee addiction! who can resist coffee? the aroma of coffee, freshly brewed... but like you, i have to stay away from too much coffee. i am nearing my limit before i have a nervous breakdown because of too much caffeine... now, i limit myself to 1 cup a...

27 May 11

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writing as form of expression

wings143 @wings143 (133) • Philippines 26 May 11

which is better in expressing your thoughts, emotions, and whatever...through writing or speaking??

writing

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kukai127 i prefer writing to speaking. my thought process flows smoothly while i am writing. i can express myself eloquently better. writing keeps me sane when thighs around goes haywire or crazy. i become someone when i write. it keeps my imagination running free to...

26 May 11

Do you like reading ?

jackjaga @jackjaga (41) • India 19 May 11

If your reading makes you deaf temporarily You are reading with full concentration. That will be kept long days in your memory. select good environment to read. Have a good mood to read. reading is an great art.

books

deaf

reading

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kukai127 i love to read... it started when we were tasked to do a book report. from then on, i'm hooked. i read every chance i get. it keeps my brain sharp and enhances my memory. it widens my vocabulary. it's my stress reliever from work. it takes me to places and...

25 May 11

Which kind of clothes you would like to wear most??

gptvaibhav91 @gptvaibhav91 (366) • India 23 May 11

Also share ur favorite dress in opposite gender.

dress

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kukai127 before, i used to be the jeans, t shirt and rubber shoes kind of gal... now, i often wear skirts, dresses or girly clothes paired with high heels. for the opposite gender, i like to see them wearing smart casual. jeans paired with a collared shirt with a...

25 May 11

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love of my life

wings143 @wings143 (133) • Philippines 24 May 11

my girlfriend whom i love very much broke me up recently. She told me she needs a space in order for her to achieve her goal in life, that is to finish her bachelor's degree. i accept her decision because its for her life. i do...

the love of my life

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kukai127 like what you are doing right now, waiting... giving one breathing space shows how much you appreciate and understand one's individuality. it gives the relationship the opportunity to grow with the two of you together and as your own persons. it shows how...

24 May 11