ludyvel04

@ludyvel04 (311)

Philippines • Age 37

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I want to get married.

tess_quinain @tess_quinain (1149) • Philippines 25 Jul 11

I want to get married but why some people prevent me not to tie the knot yet. I am 26 years old and i think i am old enough to get married and start a family. Is it really hard to be a wife and a mother? Is marriage not a good...

marriage

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ludyvel04 Well others might say that you have to enjoy being single to the fullest before getting into married life and that is right. But being a married person doesn't mean you can't enjoy life. You can still enjoy but in a different stage. For me, I enjoy going out...

25 Jul 11

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I want my house always clean

pbbbsra @pbbbsra (1214) • Philippines 24 Jul 11

sometimes people think I am sick because I am very clean with my things. I clean the house almost everyday, I clean the toilet everyday, I want everything in place. sometimes people get uncomfortable when they go to my house...

cleaning

home

house

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ludyvel04 I don't think so. I also want my house to be always clean cause my son will just sit anywhere and will swallow anything that he might see on the floor. If everywhere is a mess, what would happen to my son. Its comfortable to see your surrounding neat and...

25 Jul 11

Deprived by your family

nytrisco @nytrisco (567) • Philippines 25 Jul 11

Have you ever experience this one? I am currently living on my parents house and since we have a strong family ties in our culture here in my country. After my mom died my dad married a woman and now I do have a stepmom and a step...

dad

deprive

father

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ludyvel04 Seems like the new wife has a great contribution on why is this happening between you and your dad, just like the common stories with antagonist step mom. Well you can ask help from your other relatives, specially from your mom's family.

25 Jul 11

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When a Dead person's account send you message or popped up in chat :p

Jane @jaiho2009 (39141) • Philippines 5 Jul 11

Ok fine,I am chatting with someone who is having an emergency when this dead person's account suddenly popped up in chat also . I know it is his sister who is using his account to scare some friends. I wonder...

account

chat

dead

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ludyvel04 Ohh its really scary but its not good to fool other by using others identity or property, particularly special someone of the person your making fun of. try to respect them specially those who are "resting in peace" forever...let them rest!

6 Jul 11

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First birthday parties

Flight84 @Flight84 (3048) • United States 2 Jul 11

My son's first birthday was June 22 and we had his party on the 25. He did really well until we got to opening gifts. He hates having to be sill for anything. What was your child's first birthday like? What kind of theme did you...

birthday parties

children

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ludyvel04 My son's first birthday party was exclusive for our family members and close family friends. He was really innocent and got confused when a lot of people came and celebrate the party with us. The first gift he had was a bicycle and he really enjoyed it.

6 Jul 11

Other family

dreamertink @dfollin (25379) • United States 5 Jul 11

When I was a baby,my parents had split up.My father was not a very good person.We moved about a thousand miles away back to my mothers family.She never let me have any contact with the family,even thou not everyone was not as nice...

family

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ludyvel04 You have right to communicate with your father's family cause you were his child no matter what other would say. Others are telling that you shouldn't cause they let their pride/ego to hinder your happiness. Being connected with your family is something that...

6 Jul 11

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Action vs dreamer.

Lore2009 @Lore2009 (7378) • United States 5 Jul 11

I am a dreamer. I can day dream all day. I probably dream more than I act in my life. I do feel like I'm wasting time sometimes. I remember a friend and I discussed how much we can day dream and another friend said she never...

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ludyvel04 Well, for me its also a part of your future/plans. You have to set goals first before you do action. Maybe there is a wrong connotation about being a dreamer (for other) but for me its also important cause through day dreaming, you can picture out the...

6 Jul 11

sore throat fixer!

chicksdigscars @chicksdigscars (5483) 5 Jul 11

i am sooooo prone to sore throats, i have one now with a chesty pitiful cough that goes along with it, and when i cough, it tickles my already sore throat.. horrible! i've tried everything. i've taken pain killers like smarties,...

sore throat

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ludyvel04 When I got sore throat, I never use any medicine like strepsil but only medicinal plant which is oregano leave. Its an palliative for sore throat and proven that it is really effective for me and my family.

6 Jul 11

Have you ever witnessed anyone die?

natnickeep @natnickeep (2336) • United States 5 Jul 11

Have you ever seen someone die, naturally or not? I have seen someone shot from across the street, but didn't know he was dead till the news later. I have never seen the last bit of life slip out of someone. I myself don't know if...

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ludyvel04 Haven't seen human died ever since, only animals and I don't wish to witness anyone dying. Its scary special if that person is one of important people in your life.

6 Jul 11

Our Life Are Full Of Secrets, Why?

visavis @visavis (5934) • Philippines 25 Jun 11

Hello there, I just asking myself, what are those things or part of my life are still considered secret to my family, to my friends and to others - Why I kept those things secret? Or I just like that character not...

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ludyvel04 I don't think people who have lots of "skeleton on their closets" can enjoy life, depending on the degree of the so called "secret". I have some secrets but do not reveal them on certain person depending on the situation. There are things that I can...

25 Jun 11

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hidden relationship, hidden pregnancy?

sharlionse @sharlionse (739) • Philippines 9 Oct 09

I have a former workmate who had hidden her relationship with our other workmate. They've been together for a long time now and recently I heard that she has been rumoured pregnant. I don't have news from her about this but I am...

pregnancy

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ludyvel04 Better not get involve with the "gossip" cause if its true, sooner or later the big tummy can't be hidden. Maybe they have plans for it, they're old enough to plan for their own, right?

25 Jun 11

little kid died while sleeping... due to a stray bullet.

tammy27 @tammy27 (1241) • Philippines 22 Jun 11

i wasnt able to listen to this news well cause i was in the dining room, eating, while this was aired. hehe anywway, a child was said to be killed while sleeping with her parents and other sibling in their own house. a bullet...

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ludyvel04 its so tragic for the poor little angel be killed by that crap someone out there but I believe God gave the baby a place in heaven where the child will be more comforted forever.

25 Jun 11

Do you believe the first born son should be named a Jr?

tink91879 @tink91879 (742) • United States 22 Jun 11

My husband is the middle child of three. His brother is the first and is a Jr. When I became pregant with my daughter they asked if we would be naming it a JR if it was a boy. We politely told them no. Than when I was pregnant...

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ludyvel04 I don't think it is necessary to follow the child's name after his father's. My firstborn is a boy and I didn't let him have his father's name and add Jr into it. I want him to have his own name. I was long ago practiced and haven't heard often that babies...

25 Jun 11

The extramarital affair of your husband

dorisday1971 @dorisday1971 (5657) • Philippines 19 Jun 11

I watched an old movie in the television last night and the plot of the movie was about a wife whose husband and children didn't like her. It was a simple story of a wife whose husband was happier with his paramour or other woman...

life

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ludyvel04 Its so unfair! A woman whose husband look for another woman to be with is really hurtful but a mother who was disliked by her own children and chose their father's concubine over her, its a death for me. I can let my husband go with his other girl but not my...

20 Jun 11

How much are dreams related to what we really think?

TheMightyReds7 @TheMightyReds7 (20) 19 Jun 11

Okay, so recently I have become quite interested in my dreams and what I think that they mean after I have been remembering my dreams more, and because more of them are, or at least seem, relevant to what I want, or to what I...

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ludyvel04 Yes they are! According to Psychology, dreams have two meaning: either the manifest content, the literal and the latent content which is hidden or symbolic of the things you've seen in your dreams. Mostly when we are too stressed or too excited, we tend to...

20 Jun 11

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Why suicide and murder cases are increasing day by day

smilywomen @surekharathi (14146) • India 19 Jun 11

My friends you all are knows now a days in daily news paper's 50% news is fill with suicide and murder cases. like a brother kill to his brother, a mother burned with children, a students suicide because he/she is failed in exam,...

why suicide and murder cases are increasing day by

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ludyvel04 God never wills to hurt His people. Its evil who makes all things worst. We should be prepared cause what the world is experiencing nowadays was already reveal before. We are on the last days so be watchful and never cease to seek God's help.

20 Jun 11

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Cats and Dogs can be friends after all?

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 20 Jun 11

Good day to you fellow mylotter, I was surprised then, when I saw a cat and a dog kissing each other. Wherein, generally, cats and dogs do fight each other, hence, if they are not fighting, they will go to each his own since...

cats

dogs

fighting

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ludyvel04 Its really cute when cats and dogs play and sleep together. They can really be friends and companions when they were raised together, living in the same house.

20 Jun 11

Which is worse: people who makes gossips or people who listen to gossips?

totallyundecided @totallyundecided (3190) • Philippines 19 Jun 11

I heard that line being said by Mona from the TV show Pretty Little Liars. It made me think because I have always be a fond of gossip most especially when it comes about celebrities and from our local politicians. I think I...

people

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ludyvel04 Hi! For me both are worst thing to do, creating or even listening should be avoided. Even if you just talked about someone's fault and failings or shameful details without her/his knowledge thought you mean no harm, it is still a gossip. So beware of those who...

20 Jun 11