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myakinyemi @myakinyemi (18) • Nigeria 6 Apr 10

I was listening to the bbc just this week and i heard that some scientists are trying to find apill that can erase memory. But come to think of it imagine your wife/husband died in your hands.Would you erase the memory off or...

bbc

think

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lwethu I think it's not a good as painful as bad memeories are but we would love to keep them.They say what does not kill you make you strong. We are probably what we are today because of the bad memories.Bad memories takes you out of your comfort zone and achieve...

7 Apr 10

markmoney @markmoney (2868) • Philippines 9 Mar 10

Hi guys! Just want to share this. There is this girl very special to me. We communicate everyday. In the early days of our friendship, I was just showing her that I like her, and she is special to me. But one day came, I already...

love

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lwethu Don't raise your hopes. She is still hurting and need sometime to heal.I know how is it to be hurt you don't feel like have any one who will be close to you and if you force matters you keep push all te people who loves. I think she made the right decisions....

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CatsandDogs @CatsandDogs (13963) • United States 9 Mar 10

Now in her defense, she had an horrible accident before I was born, heck before my brother was born. She got on a horse when she was told not to and it took off with her on it and all of the sudden stopped and threw mom off and...

mom and i

pt 2

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lwethu Catsanddogs, your discusion is touching as hard as it for you to forgive your mother but I think it's the best thing to do. For you to be happy and enjoy life you need to make peace with her. All families have problem depending on our intellegence with dealing...

10 Mar 10

samawati @samawati (140) 10 Dec 09

I am a native African , true to my roots. Apart from learning things from western cultures and inculcating them into my daily life I am very much an African by all defines. By calling me an African , you are calling me by the...

evolution

origin

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lwethu This is a difficult question are trying to jape us but of cause no. You just want a clarification. I am so confused as you are.Inmy sit there are black and white we were born in here but the way we do things it's total different.I think it's all about the...

11 Dec 09

samawati @samawati (140) 10 Dec 09

I am a native African , true to my roots. Apart from learning things from western cultures and inculcating them into my daily life I am very much an African by all defines. By calling me an African , you are calling me by the...

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lwethu This is a difficult question are trying to jape us but of cause no. You just want a clarification. I am so confused as you in my sit there are black and white we were born in here but the way we do things it's total different.I think it's all about the people...

11 Dec 09

huanran @huanran (50) • China 8 Oct 09

It's very easy to become lazy, and it needs effort to become industrious. So, laziness is one of the human nature?

human nature

lazy

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lwethu It is a human nature to be lazy sometimes but others exarbate this. I also think that imposing industrous at any early is a good thing to do. You can't expecting some one who is not used to work hard to work hard but at list one can cultivate this and it does...

12 Oct 09

SinfulSweet @SinfulSweet (146) • Canada 26 Aug 08

I think that too often we take too much stock in what other people think and have to say about us. I am who I am and I know that there are people out there who aren't going to like me, and I'm cool with that! Do you want to...

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lwethu I agree with you Lol, people will always have something to say about yuo no matter how hard you try to the best/ friendly to them,in that sense me too I don't care what people think about as long as I feel that I am leaving my life in the right way I don't...

27 Aug 08

SinfulSweet @SinfulSweet (146) • Canada 26 Aug 08

I think that too often we take too much stock in what other people think and have to say about us. I am who I am and I know that there are people out there who aren't going to like me, and I'm cool with that! Do you want to...

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lwethu I agree with you Lol, people will always have something to say about yuo no matter how hard you try to the best/ friendly to them,in that sense me too care what people think about as long as I feel that I am leaving my life in the right way I don't even wait...

27 Aug 08

Morning Girl @salonga (27775) • Philippines 25 Aug 08

I am so touched on the kind gesture of one of my friends here who even sent me a private message just to give me a very helpful warning and advice. I am really so touched with her kind gesture. (Thank you very much friend!) I am...

a concerned friend

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lwethu It's so good to be here every time when I have problems I just drop them here and I get some good advise.I think it's not all about money it's about friendship and helping each other in difficult times.Have you ever feel down and you want to share your...

26 Aug 08

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prettylady9143 @prettylady9143 (238) • Philippines 26 Aug 08

huhuhu i wanna get married but prob is that..until now i havent found the one meant for me huhuhu..am tired of searching and searching huhuhuh

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lwethu Same here Lol, right I am not sure if it's me who have a problem or what I have been searching girl now I am about to give up.Is there any thing that I can do if I find MR Right to keep him.I have tried almost all the advises given by friends but it seems as...

26 Aug 08

mayshoe @mayshoe (606) • India 30 Sep 06

is abortion a good thing or a crime. why?

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lwethu I cannot say it's wrong/ right I think it depends on the situation,if I am struggling without nay responsiblities how can I bring another responsibitity. and if a person was raped how can he give birth to child like that, how can she explain to him.

26 Aug 08

brisk123 @brisk123 (2823) • India 12 Aug 08

Can you forgive a person who did wrong to you and at the same time, swear not to forget what he/she did to you.

forgiveness

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lwethu I do forgive but I don't forget,They are lost of people who hurts me but I forgive them but I will never forget what they did, it does not hurt nay becuase I forgive them so forgiving it's the other way of finding peace

26 Aug 08

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nylnemnad @nylnemnad (166) • Philippines 26 Aug 08

have you considered killing yourself to end it all? how do you survive? does life your life change after surviving those trials?

suicidal tendency

suicide

trials

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lwethu I used to have that I feeling but I have realised that was the feeling of fearing the challenges, life is all about challenges and we may not like some of the challlenges but we have to go through them, life its' good if you approach it in that way it is...

26 Aug 08

Rozie37 @Rozie37 (15499) • Turkmenistan 26 Aug 08

I have had enough of these to write a book. I have been paralyzed with fear and afraid to go places that I am sure will cause an attack. I try my best to avoid these places, but one therapist told me that it is causing my world...

panic attacks

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lwethu I think I do have one of this attact but I can not say what is it exactly because when I am with the group of people I am friend to speak its like my ideas they don't make sense I feel useless and I end up not saying any thing just keep quit and every time...

26 Aug 08

Rozie37 @Rozie37 (15499) • Turkmenistan 26 Aug 08

I have had enough of these to write a book. I have been paralyzed with fear and afraid to go places that I am sure will cause an attack. I try my best to avoid these places, but one therapist told me that it is causing my world...

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lwethu I think I do have one of this attact but I can not say what is it exactly because when I am with the group of people I am friend to speak its like my ideas they don't make sense I feel useless and I end up not saying any thing just keep quit and every time...

26 Aug 08

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brisk123 @brisk123 (2823) • India 20 Aug 08

Yesterday it rained heavily in my place.I was alone at home.Lightning and thunder I can see and hear from my house through the window.Since I was young I had this fear of lightning and thunder strike.I am scared even now.This fear...

afraid

lightning

scared

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lwethu I am not get used to lighting and thunder, as child used to be scared but believe me that fear is still around.When it start I change especial when I am alone and I used to go to bed and I heard that it is not good to go to bed becuase of that heat I do not...

26 Aug 08

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brisk123 @brisk123 (2823) • India 21 Aug 08

I love cooking.I like to try new recipe everyday that I sometimes noted down from internet or from the cook book.Sometimes it turns out to be a really tasty dish, ya of course if everything is done accurately, sometimes it is...

cooking

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lwethu I love cooking and I want to be the best cooker for my family everyday I am trying new things at work I make sure that I google new recipes every week and I try them when I have time.I always have this interest before have nay access to in ternet I used to...

26 Aug 08

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brisk123 @brisk123 (2823) • India 15 Aug 08

Hi how many of you will agree with me?I mean I never learn to type fast using those typing master's technique, but I learn to type fast since I used to have interest in chatting a long, long time ago.I realized now, it actually...

typing

typing master

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lwethu I agree with you too it actually helps to improve my english because use to think that I can not write any thing in english but now I am trying my best.It helps me a lot, I am not 100% but I am coming I think In few month to come I will be able to speak...

26 Aug 08

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rkrish @rkrish (3003) • India 26 Aug 08

In our life, whereever we go, in most of the public places we can find a NOTICE Board. Say...there places where its must to watch ....in office,schools, colleges,living place,transport offices,railway units etc But i really...

notice board

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lwethu Yes I do,what I like about notice they keep you updated you will know every changes in your school.

26 Aug 08

brisk123 @brisk123 (2823) • India 25 Aug 08

Hi everyone!I don't know what is wrong with me?Since past three days,I am getting upset and crying all day.I don't feel like going out anymore.I am staying alone.Nobody is here with me.I don't even feel like talking to anybody.Is...

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lwethu I think this does happen in times in our lives especial when you have no one to talk to, when you are alone you will think of every thing which happen in your life and you will end up crying every day and the best way is to make sure that keep yourself...

26 Aug 08

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