mesmes

@mesmes (21)

Indonesia • Age 50

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How to heal my broken heart

havejun @havejun (323) • Indonesia 22 Nov 06

My boyfriend dump me...hiks..hiks.. I cry all night long...i'm broken... could anyone help me..

love

relationship

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mesmes why you cry, there very much good boy. But we must ownself correction. What's wrong with me, i like angry,or etc...if you found that answer so find another boy hah..

18 Apr 07

Who stays home?

WeenitsMom @WeenitsMom (492) • United States 16 Apr 07

I was wondering what everybody here thinks about this. If a woman is able to stay at home while the man works, wveyone seems to think that she is lucky. But if the man stays at home while the woman works, he's a bum -- even if...

family

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mesmes my opinion that everybody must happy,enjoy and love each other. Give choice for your husband or wife.If like stay home so stay home like work so go work.

17 Apr 07

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is it possible to love for life?

ESKARENA1 @ESKARENA1 (18261) 17 Apr 07

in this instant and disposable society, is it possible to love for life?

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life

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mesmes yes, very very possible.Because no love no live, like coffe without sugar will not delicious

17 Apr 07

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My brother is using drugs again..

Marie2473 @Marie2473 (8512) • Sweden 17 Apr 07

I do not know what to do.. For some reason I belived that the nightmare was truly over. He has been clean for a few years and I really thought that the past was passed. I am not sure when it started again - but for 2 weeks now...

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mesmes i advice if you trust God. Don't worry you just pray and believe Him very deep in your heart. I believe God will help you.God created us so God could heal us.

17 Apr 07

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should kissing be legalised???

ANITA2412 @ANITA2412 (117) • India 8 Apr 07

hello people!!should kissing be legalised??what do you al;l think people should people be allowed to kiss in a public place??what is your country's or you people's approach to kissing in public!i am a citizen of india where...

kiss

love

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mesmes kissing is how we show our love to someone.But if we want kiss our girl, please do not everywhere, because that can show us how we love our girl. Maybe on place where nobody can see us.

8 Apr 07

abortion: good or evil?

nietske @nietske (199) • Belgium 5 Apr 07

It might be a strange thing to post under the header life, but I couldn't post it under anything else because the reactions would be too one sided. So: what opinions are there about abortion? Is it murder, is it not? Do you think...

abortion

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mesmes i am not agre with abortion. God created us to love son,daughter,family,parents and women must pregnancy and bear. God promise to us that HIM always give everything we need, so we do not have reason to kill our baby.i thought that abortion is evil job's.

8 Apr 07

21 Year Old Young Man Murdered - What Is Wrong With Our Youth?

lloydanthony111 @lloydanthony111 (4698) • United States 8 Apr 07

The other night a 21 year old young man was stabbed to death in a local Social Club here in New Jersey. A Social Club is a place where they serve drinks, play music and serve food. As a member, you are allowed to invite one...

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mesmes i think,maybe they do not have a religi. so they have perseption that's no God in this world.

8 Apr 07

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The quality of education is going down!!!

rahulbhardwaj @rahulbhardwaj (13) • India 8 Apr 07

I was teaching my sis Maths for her exam the other day and I realised she could not understand simple topics. When I asked he to show the notebook that she used in class I realised that the teachers themselves had done complicated...

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mesmes yes, i agree with you. start now or the quality of education too deep down

8 Apr 07

is it wrong to be a virgin??

mansibansal3 @mansibansal3 (181) • India 8 Apr 07

i'm 18 and i'm still a virgin... totally out of choice... it's not like there haven't been guys in my life or that they weren't cute... it's just that i never felt it right with them... is it wrong to feel that way?? it's just...

mature content

virgin

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mesmes that'good choice, salute for you

8 Apr 07

Will he ever change?

kari_lynn222 @kari_lynn222 (35) • Romania 22 Feb 07

My boyfriend of a year and a half is 27 years old and still lives with his parents. He has always said that he lives at home because he wants to pay off his credit card debt (which is extremely high, partially due to gambeling)...

relationships

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mesmes we don't know your boy friend can change or not. I just give you suggestion that you must give him time to change (maybe 6 months) if not try find another good boy. I said this because this life very very long time and we need certainty to pass this life.

23 Feb 07

Would you tell your partner?

SageMother @SageMother (2277) • United States 17 Feb 07

One of my nuttier friends had an affair and got a sexually transmitted disease. Its not one of those that can lie dormant for years either so its pretty obvious she got it from ther little stud. Now she is trying to keep the...

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mesmes Possible was we ought to advice him so that more love the wifwe of by reminding how him start love her, how hard him get her self.So if i am him. Become if my him self me isn,t narrate this matter to my wife.

18 Feb 07

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Would you go to your ex' wake and funeral?

fieryfrost @fieryfrost (316) • Philippines 17 Feb 07

Our family friend died yesterday, here's the info of what happened (I know it doesn't have any bearing with my topic, but I just wanted to let it out of my system since we are still mourning): He was having breakfast around 3 am...

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mesmes Yes i would go to my x's funeral or wake as if it was a serious reationship i would still have small feeling for them and i would have loved them once therefore i should attend. in my opinion if you a truly sad to hear the news it is your duty to attend and...

17 Feb 07

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Hands What do they mean to you?

whiteheather39 @whiteheather39 (24403) • United States 17 Feb 07

I know we all need our hands for physical needs. This question is does some-one's hand make a difference to you in a person's appearance. My hands are one of my small vanities I like to keep them smooth and groomed. They can be...

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mesmes Oh i can so relate, hands are very important. as if they appear unclean you presume one is dirty or you wonder just what those hands have been up to. i once dated man who had disgusting cuticles theyreached halfway down the nail, i did encourage him to push...

17 Feb 07

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It's Not What You Know It's Who You Know

Brian @wolfie34 (26771) • United Kingdom 15 Feb 07

How many times has this saying rung true? Someone has got a job because of nepotism (their relative works in the same job/department) or because someone has hobnobbed in the right places and partied in the right circles. Sometimes...

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mesmes This saying is so true, even all the way back in primary school, although insignificant now it was meaningful back then lets just say all the kids who parents worked in the tuckshop or on the school commitee got the certificates for ridiculous things such as...

16 Feb 07

Cat allergic

emeraldisle @emeraldisle (13139) • United States 15 Feb 07

Have you ever had a cat that has allergies? Our one cat Tabby, nicknamed Snuffleupagus and shortened to Snuffy like the character on Sesame Street, has allergies horribly. We think it might have to do with the bunny we have since...

allergies

cats

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mesmes I once had cat who would get irritated everytime i would cook hot chips which would be very often, he (tim tam ) used to scratch his nose constanly and begin to run around my apartment in a crazed state. my solution was to discontinue cooking hot chips. my...

16 Feb 07

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